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Advice on cold approach
12-23-2018, 12:19 AM
31 years old, fit, attractive black male. I haven't cold approached women since I was 19 and am obviously extremely rusty. I make my living in casinos and am planning to start off there. I'm naturally non-talkative and introverted but I believe I have the ability to be engaging and charismatic.
I'm looking for general advice on opening and closing the deal (getting the number). An interesting dynamic is I usually have luxury suites in aforementioned casinos so if a gal is willing we're a stones throw away from a suitable location.
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12-23-2018, 12:24 AM
Assuming you want to do daytime approaches, I'd say read Daybang by Roosh, do the Roosh program (100 approaches) and start a journal here so you can get feedback on your approaches. Then once you've gotten good at indirect approaches and gotten over your AA, start experimenting with direct approaches (Tom Torero has a lot of high-quality, free material).
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12-23-2018, 11:04 AM
Just a word on being introverted and non-talkative: I’m like you and I don’t find it a problem at all. I don’t try to be an extrovert, I have my own introvert style, I ask questions, I make her talk, I have a few ready-made funny anecdotes, I play the mysterious guy, and it works well.
Another thing I’ve found is that it’s always better to close the deal immediately rather than take the number for later, so if you have a luxury suite close by it’s a great asset. Ideally you chat a little, go get a drink, and directly to bed.
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12-23-2018, 11:55 AM
Quote: (12-23-2018 11:04 AM)Montrose Wrote:
Another thing I’ve found is that it’s always better to close the deal immediately rather than take the number for later, so if you have a luxury suite close by it’s a great asset. Ideally you chat a little, go get a drink, and directly to bed.
+1. Close the deal immediately if logistics allow it. Getting a girl's number/instagram can lead to no reply or flakiness later on.
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12-24-2018, 02:56 AM
Oh c'mon PapayaTapper...
You are part of a chatroom gossip ladies, gossiping about other men in a private RVF chatroom. You have cried about every actual game post on the forum.
You clowns even doxxed me. (I'm self employed so just complain to the boss. Or call me, it's way easier).
Now you're crying there is no content on the forum.
Huh.
Okay. Cool. Be a man and post some original content. Tell us how it's done.
You're an accomplished player, right?
Let's hear what you've got.
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12-25-2018, 12:53 AM
(hint: papaytapper will post nothing. she has nothing. Except a Gossip Girls chatroom about other RVF members.) Weird.
C'mon PT. You are a true player. So let's see some content.
We're waiting ...
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12-25-2018, 11:21 AM
OP are you consistently around a large volume of women in these casinos? Are you in a place where you can chat up women by just going about your day? I think some more detail is warranted here.