Quote: (04-30-2019 03:16 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:
Quote: (04-30-2019 12:42 PM)tugofpeace Wrote:
Unbelievable how deluded people are. You paint white women as unfuckable devils.
Really, not nearly as difficult as you guys make it out to be.
Step 1: be attractive
Step 2: don’t be unattractive
Step 3: have balls
By the logic of everything said in this thread, you need to be 6’4”, 240lbs at 6% bodyfit with an 8 figure bankroll, modeling gig, and a 10/10 girl underneath each arm just to not get blown out by a 6/10 white girl upon approaching.
LOL
Well, what if the OP is fucking up by not meeting the mimimum looks bar that most Anglo - and Western women, for that matter - place on men before they would fuck them? If the OP is a short, scrawny dude running daygame on 7+ hotties, then it's no wonder blowouts are pretty much the only thing he's getting for his trouble. In the past, simply having the balls to roll up to a chick in broad daylight without any alcohol and putting your cards on the table would have won you enough kudos and moistened many a panty enough to get your foot in the door; post the Smartphone hypergamy-on-stilts era, you now need to also be visibly her "type", i.e. well-built and decent facial aesthetics, from the offing to get a similar hearing. And even if you tick these boxes, they might still flake on you.
Game isn't only about looks, but looks have definitely become more important in the last 5 years, I have no doubt about that. I don't want to be the harbinger of doom here, but rather than Anglo women themselves, the problem could well lie completely with the OP, at least as far as him being a casualty of the increased competitiveness of the SMP in the Anglosphere in recent years; this increased competiveness is squeezing the less-than-physically well-endowed guys who formerly could have carved out a niche for themselves running cold approaches out of the market.
A pronouncedly black pill view, I know and a view I am also loathe to embrace, since I believe in the fundamental ethos behind Game being much more than just looks maxing, but it does appear to have truth heavily on its side with every passing day.
Game may not be dying, rather men may just be getting shut out more due to pre-screening...:
Random guy approaches her, even if decently attractive... Creepy.
She's into a guy... what does she do? Fire up instagram or facebook to see if he's of sufficient value to her.
She needs a guy. No she's not going to go to the bar and wait to be hit on... Rather, she's going to get on Bumble and have men falling over themselves to get her, or hit up one of her orbiters on insta.
In many ways, modern society is killing spontaneity and that element of risktaking or being in the moment. Consider for a moment, going to a concert. Every idiot there, especially girls, are videoing to put on insta, snap, etc. The ironic thing is that they're forcing otherwise natural moments, and as a result, not living in the moment. As far as women are concerned, since they are heavily emotionally driven, that hurts us men. We can't approach because it's creepy. We can't talk to her because our insta isn't good enough, or we never bothered to get one. We don't needlessly post on it, so she has no idea of our value, etc.
Women (and men for that matter) are becoming extremely risk averse. Owen Benjamin calls millennials "housecats", and I think that characterization is correct. Risk averse, anxious, home-bound, introverted, lazy, all about maximizing comfort. How fucking dangerous is it to be a woman right now? Answer: it is the least dangerous it ever has been in history. Yet, despite this verifiable fact Anglo girls are insufferable. "Muh rape culture", muh feminism, muh leftism, fragile egos, anxiety, narcissism and I could go on. We don't even socialize women properly anymore in the West.
One of the more recent dates I went on in Central/ Eastern Europe, the girl completely defied the stereotypes of housebound millenial women. Funny, flirty, feminine, intelligent, and not glued to the phone. Ever since getting back to the US I've been in a rut... It's hard to find a girl like that here.