Samseau,
I couldn't be bothered reading all the posts because while they're littered with good advice, I felt a lot of it was icing on the cake and not helping you out specifically.
You've diagnosed the situation correctly, she's insecure. She probably really likes you and is determined to play this one right and she's ashamed she didn't live up to her own subconcious standards even if the SATC culture tells her to be a a slut. She feels used when she at the time was thinking she would use you, but the hamster has spun himself into exhaustion the brutal truth remains.
To tackle this you just BLAME IT ALL ON YOUR FEELINGS.
The great thing about feelings for girls is that it ABSOLVES you of ANY GUILT. Say things like you couldn't help yourself, it was just in the heat of the moment, and in situations like those, you like to follow you heart - this is slutspeak for doing whatever you want without feeling bad, including cheating.
This girl is probably a cheater, and so this EXACT line will work with her. If she wasn't, she'd be more secure and probably would've made you wait a date longer.
If it DOESN'T work, she'll be a girl worth investing in long-term (given looks, intelligence, etc. all fall into place) because she doesn't buy that SATC bullshit. But I'm going to be on option 1.
Let us know how it goes
I couldn't be bothered reading all the posts because while they're littered with good advice, I felt a lot of it was icing on the cake and not helping you out specifically.
You've diagnosed the situation correctly, she's insecure. She probably really likes you and is determined to play this one right and she's ashamed she didn't live up to her own subconcious standards even if the SATC culture tells her to be a a slut. She feels used when she at the time was thinking she would use you, but the hamster has spun himself into exhaustion the brutal truth remains.
To tackle this you just BLAME IT ALL ON YOUR FEELINGS.
The great thing about feelings for girls is that it ABSOLVES you of ANY GUILT. Say things like you couldn't help yourself, it was just in the heat of the moment, and in situations like those, you like to follow you heart - this is slutspeak for doing whatever you want without feeling bad, including cheating.
This girl is probably a cheater, and so this EXACT line will work with her. If she wasn't, she'd be more secure and probably would've made you wait a date longer.
If it DOESN'T work, she'll be a girl worth investing in long-term (given looks, intelligence, etc. all fall into place) because she doesn't buy that SATC bullshit. But I'm going to be on option 1.
Let us know how it goes
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