[marko888]

Imagine you meet a girl you like, get her number, you contact her few days later and she was responding positively but suddenly the following day she stops or she responds very scarcely.

Nothing has been said that caused this, just a sudden shift that seems unconnected.

What is the reason they do this?
How to use this situation to your advantage if its possible?

One possible explanation would be that they are talking simultaneously to few guys...
Another side effect is that some of them even contact you after some time (weeks or even months)...

[Fightersword]

She's just lost interest, and you can try a restart text later if you want but in general you should be hitting on enough girls that some of them losing interest isn't a big deal.

There's a million reasons for stuff like that happening, and the reason isn't important, which is why we don't care about the cause. Just assume it's a dead lead and move on.

[Remington]

They ghost because they found something as they perceive to be better.

Women also have many orbiters that will bend over and kiss her shoes and pay her rent.


What do you have that makes you special?

Big dick? Nope, she has 2 FB's with hogs in their pants.

Nice body? Nope, she has men constantly hit on her at the gym who are chiseled.

Provider? Nope, she has a man that will send her money to buy a pizza.

Sense of humor? Nope, she has a "bestie" that makes her shit her pants from the garbage that spews out of his mouth.


You need to establish yourself early to be an interesting/mysterious/humorous person that she enjoys talking to on a regular basis. Plus, that wait until three days to text is bullshit. Her attention span isn't that long. You need to start building your foundation much quicker then get her out in person.

Now, if she is interested for a couple days and ghosts for a period of weeks/months, then reengages; she wants attention. Maybe she lost one of FB's and is distraught, maybe she wants the thrill of talking to someone new. Doesn't matter unless you're able to get her out of her pajamas off her couch to a bar or social setting where you can talk to her in person.

[kaotic]

In the end does it matter ?

All it matters to you that it's a dead lead, at best, save her number, at worst send one restart text and leave it be.

There's no need to worry or obsess over this.

Maybe she got a good dicking from Chad Thundercock and she only wants him.

Maybe she lost/got her phone stolen.

Maybe she lost interest or maybe she was only in town for a few days.


IT DOESN'T MATTER at this point.

Keep it moving, get more numbers.

[Disco_Volante]

Girls are like dogs, their 'focus' is on whatever shiny toy is in front of them at the moment. For a moment, you were that shiny toy. There are now other shiny toys getting her attention so that fleeting emotional state that compelled her to respond in the first place is gone. Their view on reality is very different than yours, they aren't mentally capable of maintaining a logical hold on their emotions the way you are. There is no object 'reason' to them.
It's best to fuck them as soon as possible, the longer it takes the more likely her fleeting emotions move on to the next dopamine spike in front of her.

[BossOfBosses]

(01-17-2018 02:31 PM)Remington Wrote:  

They ghost because they found something as they perceive to be better.

Women also have many orbiters that will bend over and kiss her shoes and pay her rent.


What do you have that makes you special?

Big dick? Nope, she has 2 FB's with hogs in their pants.

Nice body? Nope, she has men constantly hit on her at the gym who are chiseled.

Provider? Nope, she has a man that will send her money to buy a pizza.

Sense of humor? Nope, she has a "bestie" that makes her shit her pants from the garbage that spews out of his mouth.


You need to establish yourself early to be an interesting/mysterious/humorous person that she enjoys talking to on a regular basis. Plus, that wait until three days to text is bullshit. Her attention span isn't that long. You need to start building your foundation much quicker then get her out in person.

Now, if she is interested for a couple days and ghosts for a period of weeks/months, then reengages; she wants attention. Maybe she lost one of FB's and is distraught, maybe she wants the thrill of talking to someone new. Doesn't matter unless you're able to get her out of her pajamas off her couch to a bar or social setting where you can talk to her in person.

Being interesting/mysterious etc is not game. Which why you guys are getting caught up and losing leads. It is a tool in your repetoire, but not the essence of game and not primarily what motivates or keeps women. Game is the interplay of IOI's and IOD's and psychology.

You guys think once you pump her with DHV's and give her witty/funny dialogue your job is done.

There is a reason why mobile app companies who design addictive games call it "gamification". The goal is to get the player spending their resources, their time and their attention as much and as long as possible. They get the reward centers of your brain hooked and pump you with good emotions.

Your goal is to not impress her but to have an addictive personality and MO she can't help but keep coming back to. Pump her with emotions.

Game is supposed to be a fun process, not something you dread and not outcome dependent. Just enjoy the process, don't get mad or even disappointed when they leave.

I find myself having to keep reminding people of the fundamentals on this forum.

[treypound]

(01-17-2018 02:31 PM)Remington Wrote:  

They ghost because they found something as they perceive to be better.

Women also have many orbiters that will bend over and kiss her shoes and pay her rent.


What do you have that makes you special?

Big dick? Nope, she has 2 FB's with hogs in their pants.

Nice body? Nope, she has men constantly hit on her at the gym who are chiseled.

Provider? Nope, she has a man that will send her money to buy a pizza.

Sense of humor? Nope, she has a "bestie" that makes her shit her pants from the garbage that spews out of his mouth.


You need to establish yourself early to be an interesting/mysterious/humorous person that she enjoys talking to on a regular basis. Plus, that wait until three days to text is bullshit. Her attention span isn't that long. You need to start building your foundation much quicker then get her out in person.

Now, if she is interested for a couple days and ghosts for a period of weeks/months, then reengages; she wants attention. Maybe she lost one of FB's and is distraught, maybe she wants the thrill of talking to someone new. Doesn't matter unless you're able to get her out of her pajamas off her couch to a bar or social setting where you can talk to her in person.

Good advice here. We all have had girls flake or ghost us. Chalk it up to the game and press on.

[GlobalMan]

There are a few ways to make girls disappear, some better than others. I have disappeared many myself and it gets easier - and frankly increasingly boring - over time. The best way is to spend a decent amount of time with them beforehand, get them in a playful mood, and then tell them you want to "play a little game". You keep it joke-y all the way to the trunk.





More details will have to be via PM.

[Pointer]

Lol I almost spilled my coffee.
When it comes to texting I would keep it short and to the point.
There are guys out there who are trying to sell ''test game'', make her wet through a fucking screen. It's all bullshit.
Unless you've banged her already, you should only do 2 things during texting:
1. Plant a seed. Tell her that you just stumbled upon a cool place (better yet attach a picture) or show her that you are cool sociable guy. This should be a quick text you send when sitting on the toilet or waiting for your drink to see if she is interested. Don't spend hours on a script.
2. Ask her out. For example if you hooked her with a coffee shop that has some cake or where there are cats you can pet and she is asking for the name or the location, tell her it's a secret and that you have to go together once.
Make it interesting but avoid texting too much.

[PapayaTapper]

(01-17-2018 02:31 PM)Remington Wrote:  

You need to establish yourself early to be an interesting/mysterious/humorous person .

Like this

[Remington]

(01-18-2018 07:00 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(01-17-2018 02:31 PM)Remington Wrote:  

You need to establish yourself early to be an interesting/mysterious/humorous person .

Like this

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