pussied out. started talking to other girls and then before I knew it. The girl was gone.
Ive seen her around before tho.
Ill catch her next time.
Ive seen her around before tho.
Ill catch her next time.
Quote: (01-07-2018 01:53 PM)ksbms Wrote:
At the end of the day, either you fuck or you don't. And you better realize it fast before another guy gets the snatch you laid your eyes on.
https://krauserpua.com/2013/05/01/reflec...on-daygame
"All men build buffers around themselves to flatter their self esteem and avoid rejection. Every single one of us, myself included. Root them out. Figure out how you are fooling yourself. The easiest single step is to go out into the street and open ten girls. Welcome the responses they are giving you. The harsh blowouts and the flat zero-attraction chats are offering you far more constructive feedback than any online forum can. Compile a wealth of this information, figure out where you stand, and then make a promise to yourself that from this ground zero you will build yourself up.
Accept the reflection that stares back at you."
Quote: (01-07-2018 02:22 PM)xxx Wrote:
@1element You seem like a very emotional guy that cares a little too much.
I know you're an artist and so am I, but you need to really see life for what it is rather than what you want it to be.
Life will be a tragedy if you continue to view it so emotionally.
Hardship is a natural part of life; you must welcome it; be grateful to have it.
Quote: (01-09-2018 10:50 PM)edlefou Wrote:
A technique for weaning yourself off of Tinder without going cold turkey is to delete the app and login on your laptop (credit to Mr. Remi for this tip).
Then, later on, you stop using it on your laptop or block it or whatever.
Quote: (01-10-2018 10:46 AM)the1element Wrote:
No response from the number I got yesterday. Dang
I think, analyzing it over again I was too casual with her. I should have been more sexual with my energy. I think
Quote: (01-10-2018 01:30 PM)ksbms Wrote:
Quote: (01-10-2018 10:46 AM)the1element Wrote:
No response from the number I got yesterday. Dang
I think, analyzing it over again I was too casual with her. I should have been more sexual with my energy. I think
A real indicator if the approach was good is if a girl responds to the feeler (and it still is a few miles away from getting her out on a date). Getting a number is superfluous. Many a time a girl will give it away because it was a social pressure. It's hard for her to say no as it is difficult for you to reply honestly to your host if you enjoyed the burnt, dry steak that ended up on your plate. Often it may be the case that in the moment, she felt some little butterfly in her tummy but as the emotional high dissipated hours later, she feels there was "no chemistry". One way to to make the magic potion is to ground the set - make a mental note that you should strive, if time allows for a 10-15min set, to let her learn a few interesting things about you. Even if not a single question asked, you should insert some things about you. Make them sound good, rehearse a few things that can be interesting (from a girl's perspective) but don't overdo.
Quote: (01-10-2018 01:43 PM)kaotic Wrote:
How did you close her number, did you suggest a meet, how was the energy ?
What did you text her with and at what time?
Quote: (01-10-2018 02:39 PM)kaotic Wrote:
Only thing you can do at this point is try to hone and connect with her towards the end of your convo, be more direct about your intentions to meet up and grab a drink - then shoot her a text later saying "hey it's that handsome devil named Element!"
Then start the convo from there.
At this point you can try one more restart text later - or who knows maybe it was a fake number.
Quote: (01-10-2018 03:09 PM)ksbms Wrote:
The quickest and biggest return on investment is to begin audio recording yourself.