[TheWolfHowls]

Alright, tonight decided to give strip club a go tonight.. Looked at some advice from some forums.

1) I didn't buy lap dances
2) Didn't buy any of the girls drinks
3) Talked to one for a few minutes and got her talking a bit about her....but i think it was during the 2 for 1 thing, so it was bad timing.
4) Most of the girls didn't go to sit next to me compared to the other males...kinda was discouraging since thats when i felt i could work more on gaming
5) It was a slow night
6) Maybe i should've had more eye contact with the ones i liked and called them over.

So I got a question, what's the best way to tackle it? Is arriving there later better? For any girls dancing on stage, should i do one to avoid being the cheap guy? I'm a puppy in this so forgive me if i sound naive'.

[thegmanifesto]

I have written Data Sheets Ad nauseam on swooping Exotic Dancers.

Many of them are on here.

Check them out.

[TheWolfHowls]

Thanks my man. Checking them out now

[TheWolfHowls]

Good advice Gmanifesto...

Figured out the issues i was having....

1) Wasn't in a high traffic area(At the speaker but tons of chairs were around me). Seems a bit tough for the strippers to come get to me while the "customers" were easy to get, so its like "Why go all the way to him if they're some right here where its easy?" The Bar is a good start for me.

2) Have the mentality that this is definitely a number's game and to not apologize for aiming to game each one of them. Its about finding the one that is the most fun and seems to be the most genuinely attracted.

3) Having some good things that are pre-planned would be good, anytime there's a lull...she'll resort back to "Stripper" mode.

4) Don't try to force conversation with the bartender or staff. I should be more natural about it.

Decided to hit 2 strip clubs each and interchanging the days i'll be going(each once a week). Got the names of the staff so it should be easier to have rapport with them.

Question, how would you handle the Clubs where the stripper is sitting down relaxing after performing, they don't do lap dances i don't think.

[el mechanico]

What do you want out of this? You want to fuck one in the club?

[TheWolfHowls]

Just want to meetup with them after the club closes.

[el mechanico]

(09-09-2011 11:38 AM)TheWolfHowls Wrote:  

Just want to meetup with them after the club closes.

Why? Its easier to close in the club. Do you have drugs to share?

[The Lesser Evil]

(09-07-2011 12:17 AM)TheWolfHowls Wrote:  

Alright, tonight decided to give strip club a go tonight.. Looked at some advice from some forums.

1) I didn't buy lap dances
2) Didn't buy any of the girls drinks
3) Talked to one for a few minutes and got her talking a bit about her....but i think it was during the 2 for 1 thing, so it was bad timing.
4) Most of the girls didn't go to sit next to me compared to the other males...kinda was discouraging since thats when i felt i could work more on gaming
5) It was a slow night
6) Maybe i should've had more eye contact with the ones i liked and called them over.

So I got a question, what's the best way to tackle it? Is arriving there later better? For any girls dancing on stage, should i do one to avoid being the cheap guy? I'm a puppy in this so forgive me if i sound naive'.

Remember, many if not most strippers are hookers or have hooker tendencies. So don't approach come off as a trick.

[TheWolfHowls]

(09-09-2011 11:41 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(09-09-2011 11:38 AM)TheWolfHowls Wrote:  

Just want to meetup with them after the club closes.

Why? Its easier to close in the club. Do you have drugs to share?

It is? LOL. I don't got any drugs.

[el mechanico]

(09-09-2011 11:53 AM)TheWolfHowls Wrote:  

(09-09-2011 11:41 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(09-09-2011 11:38 AM)TheWolfHowls Wrote:  

Just want to meetup with them after the club closes.

Why? Its easier to close in the club. Do you have drugs to share?

It is? LOL. I don't got any drugs.

I need to read Gs tips then I will break this down give me a few.
What city?

[TheWolfHowls]

(09-09-2011 11:55 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(09-09-2011 11:53 AM)TheWolfHowls Wrote:  

(09-09-2011 11:41 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(09-09-2011 11:38 AM)TheWolfHowls Wrote:  

Just want to meetup with them after the club closes.

Why? Its easier to close in the club. Do you have drugs to share?

It is? LOL. I don't got any drugs.

I need to read Gs tips then I will break this down give me a few.
What city?

I'm in DC. No rush

[el mechanico]

DC huh? Oh boy! First off if the girls aren't coming to sit with you they are not that hungry. You may be wasting time so go to the next one.

Friday night and Sat is the worst time to fuck with strippers..Payday warriors are out and the girls are flush. They don't need you so why should you bother. Go on Sun thru Wed. Remember that they love drugs and most of them have loser boyfriends. Coke is king at the strip club and about the only thing that will make them chase you after hours.
They will milk you and make plans to meet 50 guys a night after work. Don't wait for them ...sometimes they may invite you into a trap. Assume every word they say is a lie.

When you get inside go to the bar and get a drink then take a good look at security and scope out where they do private dances. Even a lace curtian and three walls is enough to get laid with out a hassle.

Watch how big of a ball buster or if even security is patrolling the private dance area. If its heavy go to the next club.

Don't touch them until you are ready to close! Talk and joke around like you are at a regular bar.

When the private dance is mentioned. Word it how you want but make sure she knows that you have a condom and are not leaving with a hard on. You will have to pay for the dance unless you have top notch game.

I have used bullshit like this: "Listen! I watch two kids 6 nights a week ..this is my only time out to play. Got me?" aggressively while looking her in the eyes and putting her hand on my pocket to feel the condom. If she's not down she will likely pass and tell the other girls who DO fuck.

The fuck: Position your cock inline with her pussy and make her reverse grind you to get some juices flowing. Don't wear undewear and pull it out through the zipper (so if security checks you both looked dressed) with one move and put the condom on. Break the seal on the wrapper before you get in the dance area so you don't fumble.

[Moma]

(09-09-2011 01:10 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

DC huh? Oh boy! First off if the girls aren't coming to sit with you they are not that hungry. You may be wasting time so go to the next one.

Friday night and Sat is the worst time to fuck with strippers..Payday warriors are out and the girls are flush. They don't need you so why should you bother. Go on Sun thru Wed. Remember that they love drugs and most of them have loser boyfriends. Coke is king at the strip club and about the only thing that will make them chase you after hours.
They will milk you and make plans to meet 50 guys a night after work. Don't wait for them ...sometimes they may invite you into a trap. Assume every word they say is a lie.

When you get inside go to the bar and get a drink then take a good look at security and scope out where they do private dances. Even a lace curtian and three walls is enough to get laid with out a hassle.

Watch how big of a ball buster or if even security is patrolling the private dance area. If its heavy go to the next club.

Don't touch them until you are ready to close! Talk and joke around like you are at a regular bar.

When the private dance is mentioned. Word it how you want but make sure she knows that you have a condom and are not leaving with a hard on. You will have to pay for the dance unless you have top notch game.

I have used bullshit like this: "Listen! I watch two kids 6 nights a week ..this is my only time out to play. Got me?" aggressively while looking her in the eyes and putting her hand on my pocket to feel the condom. If she's not down she will likely pass and tell the other girls who DO fuck.

The fuck: Position your cock inline with her pussy and make her reverse grind you to get some juices flowing. Don't wear undewear and pull it out through the zipper (so if security checks you both looked dressed) with one move and put the condom on. Break the seal on the wrapper before you get in the dance area so you don't fumble.

TAMPA FCUKING RULES!

[TheWolfHowls]

(09-09-2011 01:10 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

DC huh? Oh boy! First off if the girls aren't coming to sit with you they are not that hungry. You may be wasting time so go to the next one.

I never thought of it that way. Point taken! Try to figure the hungry ones.

Quote:

Friday night and Sat is the worst time to fuck with strippers..Payday warriors are out and the girls are flush. They don't need you so why should you bother. Go on Sun thru Wed.

Was definitely planning on doing those interchangeable each week. Ya know one week Sunday for Club 1 and Monday for club 2, and the next week tues and wed, etc.

Quote:

Remember that they love drugs and most of them have loser boyfriends. Coke is king at the strip club and about the only thing that will make them chase you after hours.

They will milk you and make plans to meet 50 guys a night after work. Don't wait for them ...sometimes they may invite you into a trap. Assume every word they say is a lie.

what's the trap, her being a hooker? But i have heard about the boyfriend being a loser most of the time. But Coke...never thought of that....

Quote:

When you get inside go to the bar and get a drink then take a good look at security and scope out where they do private dances. Even a lace curtian and three walls is enough to get laid with out a hassle.

Watch how big of a ball buster or if even security is patrolling the private dance area. If its heavy go to the next club.

I'll keep that in mind.

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Don't touch them until you are ready to close! Talk and joke around like you are at a regular bar.

Point Taken, and not react if they touch and to focus on their eyes.

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When the private dance is mentioned. Word it how you want but make sure she knows that you have a condom and are not leaving with a hard on. You will have to pay for the dance unless you have top notch game.

My bad if i sound naive but some would actually do that?

Quote:

I have used bullshit like this: "Listen! I watch two kids 6 nights a week ..this is my only time out to play. Got me?" aggressively while looking her in the eyes and putting her hand on my pocket to feel the condom. If she's not down she will likely pass and tell the other girls who DO fuck.

This is a gold nugget! Will have to do more research of more gentlemen clubs in my area.

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The fuck: Position your cock inline with her pussy and make her reverse grind you to get some juices flowing. Don't wear undewear and pull it out through the zipper (so if security checks you both looked dressed) with one move and put the condom on. Break the seal on the wrapper before you get in the dance area so you don't fumble.

Will have to get over the fear of getting kicked out if i try this in this distant future lol.

Thanks my fellow Caramel brotha!

[oldnemesis]

(09-09-2011 01:10 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Remember that they love drugs and most of them have loser boyfriends. Coke is king at the strip club and about the only thing that will make them chase you after hours.

The obvious problem here is economy - unless he is a drug dealer himself or has some good connections, it is likely to be waste of money.

(09-09-2011 01:10 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

The fuck: Position your cock inline with her pussy and make her reverse grind you to get some juices flowing. Don't wear undewear and pull it out through the zipper (so if security checks you both looked dressed) with one move and put the condom on. Break the seal on the wrapper before you get in the dance area so you don't fumble.

This makes me wonder why even go through all that hassle and time waste, just to pay for what looks like some miserable sex? If one is open for the idea of paying for sex, why not just visit a hooker?

[Gmac]

Wolf you do sound a bit naive, but that's ok because we are all here to learn from each other.

The trap is you think you're the only guy she's invited and you show up looking like a fool.

Quote:

My bad if i sound naive but some would actually do that?

It doesn't matter, you want her to think you will.

[el mechanico]

(09-09-2011 03:07 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Wolf you do sound a bit naive, but that's ok because we are all here to learn from each other.

The trap is you think you're the only guy she's invited and you show up looking like a fool.

Quote:

My bad if i sound naive but some would actually do that?

It doesn't matter, you want her to think you will.

No the trap is her boyfriend and his buddies taking all your shit when you get in her bedroom and kicking your ass.lol

Old Nem, Those girls now what they are doing. Its a rush more than good sex. Most strippers rule the house when they have boyfriends. They start young.

@ Wolf Caramel ?lol If you get thrown out of the strip club you know you are having a good time. Most won't remember a day later

[Steven Lurkel]

Meh, DC's strip clubs are weak, weak, weak. I wish you the best though, Wolf; an acquaintance of mine is an absolute pimp and has fucked a couple strippers in town. His tactics were very similar to those outlined by none other than the G Manifesto himself.

[TheWolfHowls]

(09-09-2011 03:29 PM)Steven Lurkel Wrote:  

Meh, DC's strip clubs are weak, weak, weak. I wish you the best though, Wolf; an acquaintance of mine is an absolute pimp and has fucked a couple strippers in town. His tactics were very similar to those outlined by none other than the G Manifesto himself.

Oh my bad! They're northern VA strip clubs lol. I avoid the DC ones at all costs. Camelot and Archibalds i think they're called, def weaksauce!

[oldnemesis]

(09-09-2011 03:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Old Nem, Those girls now what they are doing. Its a rush more than good sex. Most strippers rule the house when they have boyfriends. They start young.

So do most of the whores around. Why would one go to a strip club and have this kind of sex imitation if he is already open to paying for sex? Why not just get a hooker from craigslist? Not only this will save money, but I guess at least some of them would be much more attractive than every stripper I've seen in US. Honestly, I've never ever got a hardon in the US strip club.

[thegmanifesto]

oldnemesis -

"I guess at least some of them would be much more attractive than every stripper I've seen in US"

Ever been to The Spearmint Rhino in Las Vegas?

[el mechanico]

(09-10-2011 07:58 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

(09-09-2011 03:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Old Nem, Those girls now what they are doing. Its a rush more than good sex. Most strippers rule the house when they have boyfriends. They start young.

So do most of the whores around. Why would one go to a strip club and have this kind of sex imitation if he is already open to paying for sex? Why not just get a hooker from craigslist? Not only this will save money, but I guess at least some of them would be much more attractive than every stripper I've seen in US. Honestly, I've never ever got a hardon in the US strip club.

Tampa bay has world class strip clubs. Hookers on Craigslist are sketch.

Whats wrong with hitting the bar in the strip club armed with moves that could get a nut before you leave?
Hang out with your friends have a couple drinks and when you see a girl that you like go for it.

I was at one last night with a date she had a great time. Stripper culture is so big here that single girls often go to strip clubs to meet guys..

I know what you're saying though it's just how things are here.

When I lived in Cali I can't ever remember hitting one once.

[oldnemesis]

(09-10-2011 08:32 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

Ever been to The Spearmint Rhino in Las Vegas?

Never. Vegas so far still remains my only hope to see a stripper who is actually sexy and can pole dance.

[jordypip23]

I know a couple clubs in Metro Detroit that are like the "up north" version of Tampa, where you can potentially get up to the whole shebang easy (just have some cash, but really is dirt cheap for the rich folk from NYC and stuff). I know of a verified porn star who has appeared in Bang Bros that has straight up appeared at Penthouse Club. Most importantly, you can straight up fuck her if you want to. So if you are in the D, definitely check out the Penthouse Club and possibly the Flight Club. Amazing.

(09-09-2011 02:45 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(09-09-2011 01:10 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

DC huh? Oh boy! First off if the girls aren't coming to sit with you they are not that hungry. You may be wasting time so go to the next one.

Friday night and Sat is the worst time to fuck with strippers..Payday warriors are out and the girls are flush. They don't need you so why should you bother. Go on Sun thru Wed. Remember that they love drugs and most of them have loser boyfriends. Coke is king at the strip club and about the only thing that will make them chase you after hours.
They will milk you and make plans to meet 50 guys a night after work. Don't wait for them ...sometimes they may invite you into a trap. Assume every word they say is a lie.

When you get inside go to the bar and get a drink then take a good look at security and scope out where they do private dances. Even a lace curtian and three walls is enough to get laid with out a hassle.

Watch how big of a ball buster or if even security is patrolling the private dance area. If its heavy go to the next club.

Don't touch them until you are ready to close! Talk and joke around like you are at a regular bar.

When the private dance is mentioned. Word it how you want but make sure she knows that you have a condom and are not leaving with a hard on. You will have to pay for the dance unless you have top notch game.

I have used bullshit like this: "Listen! I watch two kids 6 nights a week ..this is my only time out to play. Got me?" aggressively while looking her in the eyes and putting her hand on my pocket to feel the condom. If she's not down she will likely pass and tell the other girls who DO fuck.

The fuck: Position your cock inline with her pussy and make her reverse grind you to get some juices flowing. Don't wear undewear and pull it out through the zipper (so if security checks you both looked dressed) with one move and put the condom on. Break the seal on the wrapper before you get in the dance area so you don't fumble.

TAMPA FCUKING RULES!

[dongthrust]

I hate this thread because I left DC's nonexistent strip club scene to be faced with Tampa's strip clubs after 3 am every day of the week. I really have to convince myself to not end up landing in these places after getting smashed. I ended up spending like $400 last night and have nothing to show for it. LoL.

If you get kicked out of one, there are probably 30 more you can visit in Tampa itself. The most I've gotten was a 10 second BJ from a crackwhore stripper. But the bouncers have all been pretty nice about everything. And definitely don't come in these places trying to think you're going to skip out on dances and come out with your dick wet. These whores talk to each other and word travels fast. You'll be wondering why you're suddenly being ignored.

I'll have to check out G Manifesto's guides, but I'm not sure I want to. These girls are good at lying and hustling. I need to figure out where the hookers are. I hear they work out of laundrymats in Tampa, and I still haven't had the opportunity to visit a jerkhut yet.