Quote: (07-07-2017 06:16 PM)Gpx90210 Wrote:
1. Hardly any of the girls speak English.
2. Women are vastly fat and ugly.
3. Everything is expensive.
4. Women are cold and standoffish.
I could write an entire dataaheet why this place sucks but I won't waste my breath. 10 years ago maybe. Now? It's total shit.
Dude, you really need to get it together.
1. Of course barely any of them speak English. Don't be lazy and learn some of the language. If you speak absolutely nothing, you will not have a good time. Language learning is good for you and if you're not willing to even learn a little you should just go to Florida.
2. Fatness has overtaken the planet. Latin America is no exception. I live in Mexico and I see the fat acceptance, beautiful at any size, society needs to change its expectations crap everywhere. It's not going to go away. However, I know for a fact that there are some real stunners in large enough volumes (much larger volumes than in the US, Western Europe) in Brazil that there really is no excuse.
3. Yeah it is expensive. For a third world country this is kind of odd.
4. Latin women are used to getting hit on constantly. Unlike the US and the Anglosphere, there is absolutely nothing wrong with catcalling, hollering, or being extremely forward with women. They like it. However, it does grind on them after a while and the standoffishness is just a kneejerk reaction. It's kind of like me every time some peasant shoves something in my face to sell. I hate it. Just today some fucker pulls out his stupid indigenous made blankets (most likely made in China) and starts being aggressive. Tells me in English to just pay attention for a few minutes. I tell him, "look I'm having a conversation with my girlfriend, I'm not interested." He leaves and mumbles some expletives. Yeah, I was a bit standoffish but that's because I'm getting shit shoved in my face all the time. It's just a reaction to let them know I'm not interested before they even get to say anything and bother me. Maybe they actually have a great product. Who the fuck knows. Don't take it personally man. They aren't rejecting you, they are being standoffish with all the guys before you. Or maybe it is you. Maybe you're a tool. If you are a tool, get better. I used to be a huge fat alcoholic cokehead loser. Now I have a hot Brazilian girlfriend. But only because I put in the work. If I become a loser again and rest on my laurels, I'll be back to loserdom.
I get the frustration man, I really do. This is a great place to vent but also to hear truth after the venting.
One thing that helped me is fully accepting that no one else gives a shit if I'm unhappy, if I'm getting laid, if I have money, if I'm being my "best self." No one. And society will never ever make it easier for you to get laid. Girls will never lower their standards, at least the one's you want to be with. They'd rather just be single than be with a man they don't value. Or maybe go into those fake late in life lesbo relationships that many spinsters end up in.
It's a daily process. You have to chip away at man. I've improved a shitload but I still have a long way to go.