OP, I sort of understand where you are coming from.
It's been an interesting conundrum for me since quitting alcohol also. Or at least I thought it would be.
But actually, since I went travelling a couple of months at the end of last year, when I got back, I didn't officially announce my return. So, I just meet up with friends who don't drink, or who don't care that I don't drink. Personally I avoid pub/bar/nightclub situations, because why bother.
I have a small inner circle, but I like it that way. I meet people who share my values, and I always try and make new friends, or at least am open to doing so. Although it seems that the friends I have made through school and university will always be the strongest. That said, I've filtered that circle down over the years.
I'm fortunate enough to have 'day to day' friends that I can hit up on the phone anytime, although it's a small number. I definitely 'fly under the radar' and avoid keeping up a busy social life, but I meet a lot of people out and about through new hobbies which I enjoy.
I don't have a group of friends who all know each other as such, but generally I meet various individuals on a monthly or biweekly basis for a proper catch up over food usually.
It's been an interesting conundrum for me since quitting alcohol also. Or at least I thought it would be.
But actually, since I went travelling a couple of months at the end of last year, when I got back, I didn't officially announce my return. So, I just meet up with friends who don't drink, or who don't care that I don't drink. Personally I avoid pub/bar/nightclub situations, because why bother.
I have a small inner circle, but I like it that way. I meet people who share my values, and I always try and make new friends, or at least am open to doing so. Although it seems that the friends I have made through school and university will always be the strongest. That said, I've filtered that circle down over the years.
I'm fortunate enough to have 'day to day' friends that I can hit up on the phone anytime, although it's a small number. I definitely 'fly under the radar' and avoid keeping up a busy social life, but I meet a lot of people out and about through new hobbies which I enjoy.
I don't have a group of friends who all know each other as such, but generally I meet various individuals on a monthly or biweekly basis for a proper catch up over food usually.