Quote: (05-29-2012 05:13 PM)trainwreck Wrote:
I think you guys are exaggerating. Or maybe I get an easy pass with the American girls because of being European.
1. No, we are not.
2. Yes, you probably do.
Read carefully what AmericaninEurope said:
Quote: (05-28-2012 01:50 PM)americanInEurope Wrote:
I'm leaving back for Europe tomorrow, and the main thing I'll take with me is this: America is where you go to make money, everywhere else is where you go to find love. There is no truer fucking statement in my life right now.
Now, you used the NYC example.
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Fact is, for me there is no other country to get laid as easy as in the US. 4 lays a week in NYC? No problem. Go to Lower East Side, West Village for a few nights, score a SNL or get a few numbers, done.
Man, in NYC, there's one Starbucks on Spring St. in Soho that is just FULL OF HOT GIRLS studying during weekday afternoons.
The obvious caveat here is that your results are not that easy to duplicate. We know of professional, Ivy League educated American PUAs with model-looks who've managed well under 5% success rates in NYC. Most dudes are lucky to get to 1%. If you're able to actually get four new individual lays weekly in NYC on a regular basis, then congrats to you, but those are results I'd be skeptical of if they were reported to me. Such a performance is unheard of for 95% of American men, and this is true in most major American cities (DC, LA, San Diego, etc). Most of us simply aren't seeing this level of abundant, quick sex that you claim you are.
For the sake of this discussion, however, let us assume that you are telling the truth and that plenty of guys can have it as easy as you say you do. That's all good and well if you're only after a bunch of lays. If you want anything beyond that, you're going to struggle to find it here.
What quite a few (not all, but a sizable number) of us are ultimately seeking here is the love of a feminine woman. This is much more attainable outside of major American cities, where a)
there are more feminine young women who like men and actually want to date them and b) one
does not need to play as many silly games to get their attention.
These girls you're pursuing out in NYC can offer you plenty of sex. That's it-beyond a bunch of new, generally meaningless lays, one can draw very little else from the relationship with them. Add this to the fact that a) they're actually
more challenging to game by global standards (
devolution and a host of other tricks are required for consistent success here that aren't needed elsewhere) and b) for most American guys they tend to be much more needlessly difficult than they seem to be for you, and you can understand some of the concern.
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I agree though with the fact that us Europeans have more feminine girls. But they also put you into a lot more work before opening their legs...
Some guys don't mind waiting a little while if it ensures getting to a higher quality woman.