[Ibagemyoutagem]

So I feel like I'm in a freaking endless vicious cycle of insecurity about not spending money or resources on women for them to like me. I've had a history of success with women when I paid a upfront investment as I put it and the lifetime of the relationship lives on it just about. But i've been taking on to many girl (3 now) and I'm out of cash. I don't feel confident about approaching new women and also a little insecure in the 2 of the 3 now im talking with because I'm looking to a new horizon of not spending money and helping myself.

I know my priorities are a miss , and I recall that if I focus on myself that women will come to me because of my focus. I just feel heavily lost in responsibilities and promises I took on for no current monetary benefit to myself and its diving me nuts that I keep digging this hole deeper more so than ever just to see some tits.

[polymath]

It's easy to burn cash on women.

You have to prioritize.

I was in Vegas yesterday and I've never slept with a prostitute. Considered it, then didn't do it.

Just saved myself $200.

Also, don't forget that every woman has different expectations. If you select the ones who are not quite as expensive, then you don't really have to change your game to accommodate them. Some girls are proud to pay for their own shit

[Harami]

I had to read it twice, my advice is considered garbage, but here's some for you :
1 yes, you need to set your priorities
2 first of all you can delegate the responsibility that is doing you no good.
3 so you're a sugar daddy converting to game? You can search the forum for advice on that.
thread-13868...ugar+daddy
4 insecurities are essentially lack of confidence. Here the easy thing you can do is fake it till you make it.
And the hard way is to identify and tackle each one of them by knowing your alternative choices and making a decision.
5 basic order of priority : health, basic needs, thus little wealth, then women and then more women.
Most are here to learn how to not spend money on women so read the forum.

[Ibagemyoutagem]

(02-26-2017 02:30 AM)polymath Wrote:  

It's easy to burn cash on women.

You have to prioritize.

I was in Vegas yesterday and I've never slept with a prostitute. Considered it, then didn't do it.

Just saved myself $200.

Also, don't forget that every woman has different expectations. If you select the ones who are not quite as expensive, then you don't really have to change your game to accommodate them. Some girls are proud to pay for their own shit

Yea , Its like I just get lost in the chase and lust that I have that I'll do whatever it takes to get it mentality. While it works, I haven't moved much in life financially in part because of this choice. You are absolutely correct about expectations, I asked this girl to the park for a walk walk and our relation is way different from a girl I bought a sex on the beach for at a bar. Although I swear its this inner chase that I can't find the off switch. Ideally, I'd like having alot of money and freedom to chase chicks all day, but I'm not at that point and at this rate I don't see myself getting there though what I've been doing in the past. My brain has a strong conscious to focus on my net worth, while my dick basically compromises it for another pretty face and another nice rack. Its maddening after its all over and I'm back at the same spot.
(no prostitutes btw)

[polymath]

A lot of girls are prostitutes without being prostitutes.

Your brain knows better than your dick.

And when your brain gets paid, then your dick gets paid too.

Listen to your brain.

[torridon747]

I have a personal rule to never buy women anything unless I've already slept with them (even then they are lucky if they get lunch or a little bit of herb I have stashed). It's only cock blocked me once in memory (even then there was no promise that girl would sleep with me) out of a 20+ notch count.

Not only do I shamelessly not have the dough to be doing all that; gold digging hoes turn me off because you know they'll fuck a broke player with good game before a rich beta that basically pays for their company. That should be a big enough blow to your ego to stop spending cash on these girls.

I'm sure a lot of people will say this is a handicap to my game and they would probably be right. Though it's pretty clear spending money on women has diminishing returns.

[Travesty]

A few things worth every $ on chicks...

Fine champagne
dank bud
entrance fee and drinks at a club she gets dressed to the 9s to grind you all night
lap dances for both of you together at gentleman strip clubs
fine champagne
cigarettes
days beers for the beach
Uber or taxi money to get to your place at night


Everything else is cat shit in a box to buy them.