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The L Word
08-21-2011, 07:25 PM
Has any of you guys ever got caught up in the moment and told a girl you loved her, and not meant it? I pulled this weesh move last night, fueled by drunken debauchery. Now the girl is gaga, and didn't understand I was shitfaced and caught up during particularly good sex (least what I remember). Tonight I have to be the total dick and tell her the truth. Guilt is a bitch. I'm still gonna fuck her again though.
Any advice on how to let her down easy?
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08-21-2011, 08:09 PM
"Has any of you guys ever got caught up in the moment and told a girl you loved her, and not meant it?"
Yes.
Basically every time I have been on E-tabs.
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08-23-2011, 03:46 PM
I never use that word unless I mean it, I have been caught up pretty bad knowing what the respond back when I got the L bomb dropped on me.
However I think it has great addition to your arsenal, if you can deliver that word with not too much seriousness, but with good dose of playfullness it can be a killer. I have a friend who does it all the time, and believe me that shit is crazy even over the phone, he knows his shit.
However this might vary depending on culture and language. Its never the same dropping the L word in english as its in chinese.
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08-24-2011, 08:29 AM
I never do unless I mean it, but I have seen an alarming number of women say the "L" word as a tool. After falling victim to one of those cases and going through hell, I have learned not to be so trusting. Now I treat "I love you" as a shit test.
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08-24-2011, 08:32 AM
There's a difference between "I love you" and "I'm in love with you" too, as least as far as women are concerned. One of my first serious girlfriends I used the latter, and we all know how that worked out.
I let it slip out while drunk once with my last serious LTR near the end of its run (7 months), but other than that I haven't used the word in years. Granted, I did have very strong feelings for her and cared about her a lot at the time.
Generally, I'm opposed to saying it at all. Roissy goes into this in great detail, the post is in his archives somewhere. You basically give up all your power once you say it.
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08-24-2011, 11:25 AM
I thought this thread was gonna be about the word 'Lizard'.