Never one to let posts be unanswered;
Quote: (01-28-2017 12:56 PM)Resolute Wrote:
But as Sensei said, she needs to RESPECT you. When you tell her there's a problem, and one that is a LEGITIMATE ONE, and she shrugs it off, you're not being respected.
You seem to think that simply moving to another country/culture is a fix all to the issues American women possess. As Roosh said, "Water takes the shape of the container it fills." When you allow this behavior, it will continue. If you were ok with that, you wouldn't be here asking for advice.
Your post was great overall Resolute, thanks for your contribution. I've omitted most of your post to avoid excessive scrolling, and you'll be pleased to know you're just re-cementing previous existing knowledge.
I haven't told my story here, but before I moved to Poland I met an incredible Polish women during my vacation. 4, in fact. Made quick friends with them in the mountains, and I fell for one
hard. We started a relationship, long story short and I lived with her for 8 months. Red flags started cropping up.
-Very impatient
-Took what she want, and only gave what she was willing to give
-Loved Makeover shows, Sex in the City, Voice of Poland etc
-Couldn't save money, and bought new clothes every week
-Went out drinking with other, single friends at least once per week and got very drunk
-In between her last relationship and ours, she had slept with 25 guys over the course of 6 years and intially didn't consider it a problem until I threw logic into the works.
etc
It became apparent that my so-called Polish girlfriend was extremely westernised, probably propagated by her love for Italian culture. Either that or she was a closet Latino, haha.
Anyway I knew I hadn't come to Poland for her, and I certainly hadn't come to Poland to marry a woman who didn't fit my Polka portrait so I nipped that relationship in the bud. We're still friends because she's a great person on paper (just not marriage material unless you like drama and parties), but see/contact each other rarely. So I'm not in a place to assume all EE girls are conservative, loyal, sweet and endearing etc by any means.
Regarding respect I didn't actually voice that this guy was a problem, so in that endeavour she hasn't shrugged off a grievance. But it is disrespectful by nature to continue talking to a guy who's interested, I'll bring that up in the future rather than play him off as a non-threat.
Quote: (02-01-2017 05:23 AM)262 Wrote:
Any girl worth her salt is going to have orbiters she's oblivious to.
What nobody has suggested yet is that you should be making it seem to her like YOU have female orbiters. You don't do this directly, that's too try-hard. You do it in a variety of indirect ways:
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The overall idea here is to increase your value as a man, such that her orbiters pale in comparison. You'll know you're doing it right when she seems to work even harder to get your attention.
IMO a bit of reddit "red pill" in this thread, rather than RvF.
Hey man.
Yup, absolutely. That's why nexting her is jumping the gun, if you Next every girl who has a male friend that likes her, I hope you like being single.
Well, I could have female orbiters myself. They just haven't stated that have feelings for me, so I can't say for sure that I do. It's very easy to make and be friends with girls in Poland, as you may know yourself and they are often a conversation piece. Females are often reacting positively on the basis of me being an English native alone in the first place, and when I start speaking Polish, basic as it may be the reaction very apparent so just by walking around with a girl and interacting with other people plays on potential jealousy/dread.
Agree with you on the red pill comment.