Nothing in game is ever 100% set in stone.
However, there are a lot of situations where you can play the odds that certain things will work out better 98% of the time. This topic is one.
The problem most smart guys have is that they don't have social savvy to know when to drop bombs and when to hold back. No one on this earth likes the autist who is always trying to school people.
If you are actually a sharp guy and can gauge the tone of an interaction you can really do some damage. But. For general game purposes isn't very often.
I like this from Easy C:
Intellectually sharp vs. intellectual discussion. Two completely different things.
Most people think of intellectual discussion as some sort of sustained technical deliberation on a subject. That's not what you want.
Being intellectually sharp is knowing exactly when to interject something deeper or more technical into the conversation.
If you throw in intellect where it can be appreciated it has a great affect. Most dorks make the mistake by throwing it in where it is not needed and won't be appreciated.
Say that you are out with a group of people and they are having a conversation about whatever but they are struggling with it and the social wheels are starting to grind to a stop. This is where you come in with a well-timed quip that helps everyone in the party get past the sticking point of the conversation. Maybe you have some intimate knowledge of the subject and you throw a dumbed down bone into the fray almost as if you would rather not really dive in to the conversation.
Another way being sharp can come in handy is if you are bored in a conversation. If you drop a nugget in a self-amused way chicks will notice.
Say you just ate dinner and everyone's full but contemplating a desert. Some guys in the party are saying something boring about have an extra stomach for desert.
You come back and say actually it's more like if you have a jar full of rocks. There is still room for sand.
Again, the trick here is the tone and the manner in which you say it. Amused and semi-dismissive. If you do it right women will notice that you are the brilliant one in the room. It's like subtle intellectual AMOGing. I've used that exact line before.
Maybe this would be a good subject in a book on gentleman's dinner party etiquette.
I guess what I am trying to say is that you can use intellect in seduction but it needs to be combined with social savvy. In other words, it shouldn't be your main tool.
I've had encounters like this that are some of the greatest memories. Mostly because of the urgency and the intimacy. As if we knew we only had a short time to spend together and needed to fit many things into one night.
Rare but very fun.
However, there are a lot of situations where you can play the odds that certain things will work out better 98% of the time. This topic is one.
The problem most smart guys have is that they don't have social savvy to know when to drop bombs and when to hold back. No one on this earth likes the autist who is always trying to school people.
If you are actually a sharp guy and can gauge the tone of an interaction you can really do some damage. But. For general game purposes isn't very often.
I like this from Easy C:
Quote: (11-03-2016 10:13 PM)Easy_C Wrote:
I've never actually seen it.
I HAVE seen that women can be turned on by knowing that the guy they're talking to is intellectually sharp or just smart, but that's very different from them being turned on by an actual intellectual discussion.
Intellectually sharp vs. intellectual discussion. Two completely different things.
Most people think of intellectual discussion as some sort of sustained technical deliberation on a subject. That's not what you want.
Being intellectually sharp is knowing exactly when to interject something deeper or more technical into the conversation.
If you throw in intellect where it can be appreciated it has a great affect. Most dorks make the mistake by throwing it in where it is not needed and won't be appreciated.
Say that you are out with a group of people and they are having a conversation about whatever but they are struggling with it and the social wheels are starting to grind to a stop. This is where you come in with a well-timed quip that helps everyone in the party get past the sticking point of the conversation. Maybe you have some intimate knowledge of the subject and you throw a dumbed down bone into the fray almost as if you would rather not really dive in to the conversation.
Another way being sharp can come in handy is if you are bored in a conversation. If you drop a nugget in a self-amused way chicks will notice.
Say you just ate dinner and everyone's full but contemplating a desert. Some guys in the party are saying something boring about have an extra stomach for desert.
You come back and say actually it's more like if you have a jar full of rocks. There is still room for sand.
Again, the trick here is the tone and the manner in which you say it. Amused and semi-dismissive. If you do it right women will notice that you are the brilliant one in the room. It's like subtle intellectual AMOGing. I've used that exact line before.
Maybe this would be a good subject in a book on gentleman's dinner party etiquette.
I guess what I am trying to say is that you can use intellect in seduction but it needs to be combined with social savvy. In other words, it shouldn't be your main tool.
Quote: (11-03-2016 10:26 PM)philosophical_recovery Wrote:
I've had deep, intellectual conversations with some women that lasted for hours.
Ranging from politics, economics, math, philosophy, physics. These weren't lightly treaded subjects with a pedestrian understanding, these were girls actually studying the subject and were knowledgeable in the area because they were graduate students or otherwise.
It's gotten me laid because I can keep the conversation going, understand, and drop little tidbits that excite them.
Girls love to talk. Some girls get highly emotional about this sort of thing. You have to recognize this, and capitalize on it. Emotions=juices flowing.
The trick is figuring out the right moment to slip a tongue down their throat.
Everything about it can get really intense.
I had a week-long fling with a girl based on a conversation like this. I think we were up until 7am the first night. Other nights we slipped into her hotel room and started going for it until a male sharing the hotel room showed up and he got all weirded out. Ended up going to dinner with her, pushing her up against a wall on our way back while walking down the street, started kissing and groping her, then getting her to suck my dick in the car. Things like this continued until I had to drive back at the end of the vacation. She wrecked me afterward.
I couldn't believe a girl that connected with me on such a level would drop me like that. I mourned the death of that fling for entirely too long.
It directly lead to me discovering Roissy, then Roosh.
I've had encounters like this that are some of the greatest memories. Mostly because of the urgency and the intimacy. As if we knew we only had a short time to spend together and needed to fit many things into one night.
Rare but very fun.
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