Daygame Saturated Cities in Eastern Europe--Foreign PUAs Ruining Entire Countries?
07-05-2018, 06:16 PM
Other daygamers and horny foreigners hasn't helped but after some consideration I do think it is a result of internet/smartphones.
Wherever I am, there is a feeling I get, which some people might think is bullshit, and I admit it is a bit out there, but, it's just an instinct... It's a feeling of how "thirsty" in general the girls in a particular town or city are as I go about my daily business...
In the US and the UK, even just 10 years ago, if I dressed on point and looked good, went out in the day, I could get eyefucked one time, or a few times, maybe. Point is, there was a good chance of getting eyefucked and it's not just the eye contact, when you walk past a hot girl and you turn your head and she turns her head too and gives a sly grin (while I curse myself for not approaching), it's just something I got used to.
Now, 10 years before THAT and it was YHT without game or minimal game so stuff that I didn't realize I was doing like just being cool or teasing or "negging" and just good conversation which was enjoyable for me as it was for them, add some basic logistics and escalation. In their "penis roster", girls often had it empty. You just had to be anywhere decent, if you were above average you would kill it. Of course you would have to call their home phone so a lot of meetings were set up on paper like meet X at 4 pm outside Y store. And she would 9/10 times fucking be there.
Now in the US and UK my gut feels pretty much no female thirst, eye contact is non-existent, even if I look better and my "game" is better than all those years ago. To get legit IOIs from an Anglosphere girl I have to meet her in some social context, be witty and charming off the chart, game on subtly but also so hard that I have to push right up until the boundary of a girl going absolutely batshit e.g. mad red face, protests, (from the quiet ones) and shouting, swearing (from the more vocal ones). Then I have to do a completely unexpected pull, which is combined with heavy qualification, but not needy, genuine, or at least, I have to convince myself to feel it is genuine in my own brain so I can be as sincere as possible. And this is only on "pretty girls" not super hot girls who are after county or state or regional or even national athletes, singers, etc. etc. Plus it only works on girls who are at least mildly accessible with it. A 33 year old carousel veteran will be difficult but a relatively nice 24 year old medical student or nurse where I can manufacture some drama has a much better chance of working. I would simplify it to a push until she is about to fall off a cliff and then you pull just as she is jumping. Girls have become so desensitized for verbal "game" I have to hit even average girls with very hard stuff tailored to them off the cuff but still incorporating core principles of push-pull.
Needless to say that's fucking exhausting. For girls that are not as good inside or out as the ones I used to get relatively easily with just normal conversation, basic logistics and escalation. Yes girls but high quality yes girls.
So I went to Poland hoping that the whole busted dudes/pretty girls situation over there, a vastly better SMP, or so it seemed, would help. And indeed the girls noticed me a lot more. I could get numbers of those above "pretty" girls without nuclear game. HCE said it well when he talked about elderly game. Genuine elderly game in EE is money. It's another course in acting. I found questions that I genuinely wanted the answers to and played the whole retarded foreigner but curious and interested about your culture angle. Add in a bit of incidental touch and see if you get any eye sparkle. Quick touches of the waist, hand, or hair often made the girls look longingly at me, a look I had missed so much for so many years. But that was only when in my presence. The numbers were generally good, but I started to feel like these girls had other priorities. The YHT girls were nearly all students. 18-21 hell yeah. They were inundated with college studies and when all was said and done I don't think they were, again, thirsty enough when they went home and considered their priorities in life. Many already had offers from a line of busted polish dudes, and they were all on social media so a line 100x longer of figurative options. My game could well also be to blame but that's the thing: I came to Poland so that I wouldn't need it at that level, like it used to be back in the day in the US when it was only guys and early adopter females on the internet on their one big family home computer or, if they were very lucky, laptop, limited to email. There was IRC and Yahoo chat rooms, AOL/YM/MSN but it was just getting started. That shit was a goldmine. I've mentioned before how I went on a penpal site for two languages I was learning at the time and got absolute sweethearts sending me snail mail and wanting to meet up when I was in their country.
So even in Poland, despite my sticking out a lot more in terms of SMV, and getting much more initial interest, the girls know they have 0 chance of ever being alone and will field multiple offers from various sources at the touch of a screen. Their thirst to actually be with me was not at the feverish point or at least very eager, it felt more like getting lost in the options and their daily lives. Even if you're in the top few % of her options, she will still have some sort of problems with the paradox of near unlimited choice.
Now, when I hear Tenerife talking about an "endless abyss" that is my instinct also. What, really, apart from some kind of extinction level event, huge world war, or some other calamity is going to shake things up sufficiently to reverse the trend? There is war and an economic shitstorm in Ukraine but girls are getting harder there. It's profoundly depressing.
And finally, when I hear that SEA, the supposed easiest destination of them all for decent looking, easy tang, is also going down, that makes me think I may as well not even try anymore. I always thought, "oh well, if EE doesn't fit my expectations at least there's SEA".
We need some kind of EE, SEA, and SA dictator in each region to rise again, take over the regions entirely, and just ban the fucking internet for women. Like Saudi Arabia (used to) ban its women from driving, women are imprisoned or executed (to send fear through society for the ones who don't take it seriously) if they at any time use the internet or any kind of smartphone or app.
Final footnote: a few guys in the UK I knew back in the day who were bona fide players, a couple on 200+ notch counts by early 20s, naturals... they are in monogamous relationships with average/at best decently pretty girls, a step down from many of their ex GFs or even ex bangs I remember them having. There is also a feminization that has happened as well. Like they are eating some pro-estrogen shit. Some are just blindly content while others have the look of a guy who is settling but can't really do anything about it because of the way shit has gone downhill since his glory days.