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How long to wait before asking a girl out?
09-14-2016, 09:28 PM
I searched the forum but didn't find a thread for this. What I mean is, is there any amount of time before which asking out would appear needy?
Or what indications can be conferred from the text convo that a girl is ready to be asked out. (Say, like the fact in an approach asking for digits is not a good idea if the girl doesn't ask you any personal questions.)
I went on an instant date with a girl this evening (Wednesday) and it wasn't bad. I'm thinking of asking her out either for Friday or Saturday. I think Friday is too short a time, and, well, it's Friday evening; you're supposed to have plans for it already.
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How long to wait before asking a girl out?
09-15-2016, 12:48 AM
Avoid texting the girl the same day as it might appear needy. But then you can do it the next day or 2 days later. Best time is at night.
Avoid Friday and Saturday night as everbody are doing something at this time. Don't wait more than 4 days as the attraction would have worn out and she might have forgotten you.
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How long to wait before asking a girl out?
09-15-2016, 11:37 AM
If on Wednesday you vibed well, if you got her to invest, if you left her wanting more, then I'd go silent for a couple days to let it simmer. You're a busy man, you have goals, you are the scarce resource. Then send a tickler text a few days prior for a date Sun or Mon.
Agreed that Fri / Sat night date is usually too high investment this early.
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How long to wait before asking a girl out?
09-15-2016, 11:39 AM
Text her a bit for entertainment purposes(no more than 4 per day unless she's very very receptive) then hit her up for whatever in 3 or 4 days.
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How long to wait before asking a girl out?
09-15-2016, 09:33 PM
Any bitch that parks in front of my house, I tell her to fuck or move her gottdamn car.
Thats how long it takes me, DD.
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How long to wait before asking a girl out?
09-15-2016, 09:36 PM
Quote: (09-14-2016 09:35 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:
You do have plans! You're already going somewhere. You're just asking her to come along. ![[Image: blush.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/blush.gif)
THIS.
You are going somewhere great, it's going to be amazing, and you're giving her the opportunity to be a part of it. She should consider herself lucky to be in your presence (abundance mentality). The added benefit of this tactic is that it removes the pressure of a "date."
This is part of Mike Damone's 5-Point Plan from the movie
Fast Times at Ridgemont High. Wherever you are, that's the place to be (#3 of the plan).
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09-15-2016, 10:01 PM
Wait for at least a month, but if you're alpha, two.
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How long to wait before asking a girl out?
09-16-2016, 04:55 PM
I really don't get all those oldschool pua tactics. If you want to bang her, try to bang her ASAP. Time is your enemy - she might meet another guy, she might lose attraction or simply forget you if you wait far too long.
I had same girls that I couldn't meet because of logistics, but they were still into me even after one year since my daygame pickup that lasted 5 minutes. And eventually I banged them, but this is rather exception than a rule. Girls have too much stimulus around to focus on one guy that they barely know for a long period of time.
The thing with weekend dates is this - you should be nightgaming other bitches then. Weekdays are for dating. Weekends are for ONS. If you want to you might setup a date @ 7PM and try to fuck her. Then at around 12 you should be free and go for nightgame with your mates.