[Prowl]

Me: What's your name?
Her: (name). What's yours?
Me: I'm the one asking the questions here. (on to whatever, usually another question)

Establishes playfully dominant tone without any sort of opinion opener bullshit, etc.

[Cr33pin]

I've been having sucess with your basic hey whats up, or something generic just to get convo started then i ask if they have a boyfriend

if they say NO i say "me niether" all excited like we have so much in common an they laugh an the ice is broke

if they say YES i say "me to an i dont think he would appreciate your flirting with me like this" an they laugh an the ice is broke, an just cause they have a boyfriend doesnt mean its a no go.. boyfriends are like speed bumps, they may slow you down but you can get over them

[satanova77]

This is fast becoming my favourite. Its originally mine. And my best firend has done two bangs in DC using this in the last two weeks. One at upscale martini bar and one with a lawyer on train.

Again it works on women who wear nice footwear(that we should be approaching anyway)...it works at any venue...waiting for coffee...in security line at airport....at bar restaurant .....at work....

"Did you buy these shoes from Nordstrom"....

What it does is shows

1. You appreciate style and possibly shop at Nordstrom. Which increases value.
2. If the chick has actually bought shoes there and shops there she knows that you recognize good stuff and she can enjoy upscale life with you.
3. If the chick wishes that she could shop at Nordstrom it makes them feel good that she is giving that vibe or appearance.
4. Lizards throws up all kidn of informatoin on details of shoes and where they were made and why she bought them. Gives you great string of information to continue conversation and build comfort/attraction.

All scenerios work in your favor when you use this line and bitch shield drops substantially....this is also permeates across geographies and ethnicities....

Personally for me, I love hot footwear and nice feet so it pushes me even when my game is off to approach....

[chyamor]

Here's one that might work, depends on age range. If you see a girl window shopping for shoes go stand next to her, look inside the window and ask her which pair shes checking out, ofcourse being a women and talking about shoe's she'll tell you what pair, then ask what type of dress usually goes with those type of shoes, she'll blah blah about the dress, then ask. So If I asked you our on a date would you wear those shoes and that dress?

[iknowexactly]

(12-06-2011 04:43 PM)satanova77 Wrote:  

"Did you buy these shoes from Nordstrom"....

^
Love this. Even if you're totally beta-trembling with approach-avoidance; you could remember this.

in another country you could try

"Did you buy these shoes from [local upscale store]"....

[Cr33pin]

When i was a fearless early 20's guy fresh out the AirForce i used to use this one an i dont ever remember it having a bad outcome.
Walk up to the girl looking confused an say "excuse me whats your name?" when they say thier name act excited like you know them an be like"oh i thought that was you how have you been? You remember me right?" they will say um no, then say "yea we used to hang out when we was kids, we would hold hands an walk to the store an buy icecream, you dont remember that??" they will say no an you come out with " well maybe if we held hands an went an got some icecream it would refresh your memory"

granted it was younger dumber chicks i was hittin on an i was a pretty fly character.. it always got a positive reaction... i dunno if i could do it these days tho...

what do you think should i try an bring it back or leave it in the past? i still mack on girls in that same age frame

[CJ]

I almost feel like being a dick and critiquing some of these lines, tho I'm sure they work for those of you who are using 'em which is cool. Don't get me wrong, there's some really good ones in here too.

Kinda makes me think we need a "rate my line" thread, but situation lines really are the best ones.

I will say, even though I don't smoke, I find myself hitting on girls that do more and more, just because, as G said, they really aren't gonna go anywhere for the next couple minutes.

[Prowl]

CJ Wrote:

Kinda makes me think we need a "rate my line" thread, but situation lines really are the best ones.

^^
You know, if we could do an anonymous rating system like "hot or not" and be sure that only community people are rating (i.e. no women, their opinion can't be trusted), that would be interesting.

[thegameoflife]

Last night I used 'Why aren't you dancing?' on a couple of women with success. It is an engaging question where you are almost suggesting they aren't having a good time. The chicas were forced to justify and explain why they either didn't like the music or weren't in the mood.

Several discussion can follow on music, the venue, her dancing skills etc.

I also asked the 'how does it feel to be a women?' a couple times which got smiles and curious responses but I found doing a cold approach and asking why they aren't dancing is easy, simple and gets the job done.

[Basil Ransom]

Bumping this thread for more ideas.

Some in my rotation:

"You look lost"

"You look like you just can't decide" [When she's choosing something]

"I *almost* wore that out tonight. Would've been a little awkward, for you, if I did."

"You're going the wrong way" [When she is passing by you in the bar, said with a slight smirk so she gets it. More likely to work with strong eye contact beforehand]

"You don't have to just stare. You can say hello" [If you catch her staring] This one actually works pretty well. They get a little bashful.

If you've gotten a girl's attention, try motioning her over with your hand. Many girls won't come to you, but if they do, your chances are much better.

"You guys must be sisters." Used this recently and it opened well, and they did look similar. They were 6s though. I could see this working well for girls who are obviously not sisters, eg a blonde and an Asian.

"I need you to push all these people out of the way, so I can get a drink/get through." Grab her bicep - "yeah, you're pretty strong, think you'd make a good linebacker." Said when you're next to her behind a crowd of people trying to get to the bar or through some passageway. You can modify this one a little. eg, "Oh damn it, you're too tiny, maybe you can be my umbrella holder."

"Did you get my text?" Said to girls on their phone. Good opener, but these girls end up bailing anyway. I like Mujeriego's "He's not worth it" line too, for the same situation, gotta try that.

Already posted this one in this thread: "This must beyour favorite place to hang out on a [day of the week] [morning/afternoon/night]" Said at places people don't like going to, eg the dentist's office.

I also like the "do you think I look like a drug dealer?" theme. Dress as something distinctive, that's reminiscent of a strong archetype like a drug dealer, then offhandedly stop a girl and say, "Do you think I look like _____?" I have certain clothes that girls start telling me I look like someone/something, so the connection is already pretty obvious. When you pose it, they'll be like, "Yeah, you do!" Haven't tried this one yet either.

I'm looking for a good opener for girls passing by while you're posted up against a pillar or something.

[markus]

Do you have a light? has always worked for me.

(12-06-2011 04:43 PM)satanova77 Wrote:  

"Did you buy these shoes from Nordstrom"....

Excellent opener for all of the reasons you listed. Nice and simple

[XXL]

hand of god

i say "hi / hello / excuse me / hey!" (depends on the situation) reach out my hand as if i want to shake her hand with my palm rather up (it's more like 'give me your hand', not like official handshake) and when she give me her hand i gently but firmly pull her (more or less) close to me.

it's fantastic. at night i can pull her in super close so we're instantly up in our faces, in daytime i can pull her just a bit closer so we stand 0,5-1 meter from each other. the beauty of it is that

1) basically it bypassess the stage of building attraction/hooking cause the (gentle or hard) physicality does the job for me
2) it requires compliance from the girl so when done right the right frame is set instantly. in case of no compliance it's fun to make stupid faces as you look at her and your hand, signaling the girl to take it, it disarms that seriousness of the appraoch and conveys all the good things about you.

then i can say just the simplest thing ever like "hi / nice to meet you / who are you / i like your ____ / i'm ______ / etc" however something too indirect (you come her often?) is doesn't go well with that innitial direct strong impression and it fucks up the whole magic

PS. good stuff for stealing chicks from guys since at first it looks like just a handshake but then swoop *pull in*, you got girl with you and from now on she might just forget/ignore that guy

@7:05

[Ramon Zarate]

(08-27-2012 04:20 AM)XXL Wrote:  

hand of god

i say "hi / hello / excuse me / hey!" (depends on the situation) reach out my hand as if i want to shake her hand with my palm rather up (it's more like 'give me your hand', not like official handshake) and when she give me her hand i gently but firmly pull her (more or less) close to me.

it's fantastic. at night i can pull her in super close so we're instantly up in our faces, in daytime i can pull her just a bit closer so we stand 0,5-1 meter from each other. the beauty of it is that

1) basically it bypassess the stage of building attraction/hooking cause the (gentle or hard) physicality does the job for me
2) it requires compliance from the girl so when done right the right frame is set instantly. in case of no compliance it's fun to make stupid faces as you look at her and your hand, signaling the girl to take it, it disarms that seriousness of the appraoch and conveys all the good things about you.

then i can say just the simplest thing ever like "hi / nice to meet you / who are you / i like your ____ / i'm ______ / etc" however something too indirect (you come her often?) is doesn't go well with that innitial direct strong impression and it fucks up the whole magic

PS. good stuff for stealing chicks from guys since at first it looks like just a handshake but then swoop *pull in*, you got girl with you and from now on she might just forget/ignore that guy

@7:05

HAND OF GOD OWNS.

More people ought to try this. Girls almost instinctively take your hand as well, it's like a natural reaction.


I like Tyler's friendly and cool game as well in a way, just rolling up to a girl and saying hey and being the normal you can work really well because you're not trying to act like this super pimp like 90% of the other guys in the venue.

[gandt]

(08-27-2012 04:20 AM)XXL Wrote:  

hand of god

i say "hi / hello / excuse me / hey!" (depends on the situation) reach out my hand as if i want to shake her hand with my palm rather up (it's more like 'give me your hand', not like official handshake) and when she give me her hand i gently but firmly pull her (more or less) close to me.

it's fantastic. at night i can pull her in super close so we're instantly up in our faces, in daytime i can pull her just a bit closer so we stand 0,5-1 meter from each other. the beauty of it is that

1) basically it bypassess the stage of building attraction/hooking cause the (gentle or hard) physicality does the job for me
2) it requires compliance from the girl so when done right the right frame is set instantly. in case of no compliance it's fun to make stupid faces as you look at her and your hand, signaling the girl to take it, it disarms that seriousness of the appraoch and conveys all the good things about you.

then i can say just the simplest thing ever like "hi / nice to meet you / who are you / i like your ____ / i'm ______ / etc" however something too indirect (you come her often?) is doesn't go well with that innitial direct strong impression and it fucks up the whole magic

PS. good stuff for stealing chicks from guys since at first it looks like just a handshake but then swoop *pull in*, you got girl with you and from now on she might just forget/ignore that guy

@7:05

Shit, this guy is money. I love the 0 hesitation and though. Something that I have been working on for a while now. Do you have the second part to this video?

[blackglasses]

-what time is it
-do you understand this
-wow this class is fun

*keep in mind im in college

[soup]

If you are at a party and a have a huge dick, take it out and start smacking it on the nearest table.

Otherwise, you can open with almost anything if you say it right. In the daytime, I often just use "Do you know what time it is?"

[hamburgerandbeans]

(08-26-2012 02:48 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

"You don't have to just stare. You can say hello" [If you catch her staring] This one actually works pretty well. They get a little bashful.

I like that one. I may have to try it

[Screwston]

(10-14-2012 11:34 AM)hamburgerandbeans Wrote:  

(08-26-2012 02:48 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

"You don't have to just stare. You can say hello" [If you catch her staring] This one actually works pretty well. They get a little bashful.

I like that one. I may have to try it

Sometimes I say "You can say something, don't be shy". They either look at me mad or start laughing.

[The Fantasist]

The opener I use 99% of the time is 'hi' with a smile on my face. It's so simple but for street game is best. I then say stop and tell them directly that something about them intrigues me. I like to be direct,pet shop opener and indirect day game isn't something I have nearly as much success with and I find it boring as it's low energy. I want to know quickly if she has interest in me and if I have interest in her. Going direct achieves that.

[XXL]

(08-27-2012 06:25 AM)gandt Wrote:  

Shit, this guy is money. I love the 0 hesitation and though. Something that I have been working on for a while now. Do you have the second part to this video?

the whole scene @ 4:57

quick related story:

XXL Wrote:

for less smooth dancefloor game it's key to hold frame like a motherfucker. yesterday i did that 'hand of god' move (reaching out hand palm up and pulling the girl in close to you if she grabs it), i got good EC, i reached out my hand and she just froze looking at me for good 5 seconds. i didn't flinch but inside i was like 'oh shit she's strong' and she finally gave in, cool little scene in the middle of the dancefloor.

[MidniteSpecial]

Met an actress girl on a job today. Very good looking, nice body brunette. She was very bubbly said hi to me first with a big smile. ioi ? Well I decided to have a smoke while I noticed she was leaving. Took the elevator down with her. Now she asks my name. Another ioi? This is what I'm thinking... We chit chat the 20 floors down and on the walk outside. Continue chatting for like a minute or so before she says she's leaving and it was nice meeting me. I ask for her email before she leaves. She goes, "yeah why don't I just take yours."

Ouch. So I give it to her and act unaffected. Get back up stairs and google her. Find her imdb and twitter. First picture on her twitter is of a meal her bf made her. Haha. No pictures of him anywhere though, and no pictures of them together. But she's got my email and maybe will contact when they break up. (Which they will). This is called the layaway. No pun intended. But the lesson here is just because a girl doesn't give you the digits or email in this case don't be discouraged or own it up to her not liking you.
There are many variables and never let one approach get you down for your next one.

My favorite opener is , "hey! hey, yeah you, you have toilet paper on your shoe."

[eljeffster]

Extremely situational, but I think it could work on non-black women as well.

I don't game at the office, but this one just came out. Was in the break room getting coffee and a black chick was in there. She was putting in the creamer and sugar and I teased her on how much she put in her coffee. So when she scoots over so I can pour my cup, she asks me "how do you take your coffee." I stop, look her in the eyes and deadpan "I like it black." She got flustered and dropped a sugar pack in her coffee cup. I turned and walked out without another word.

[Nightwing]

Me: Is your momma a drug dealer?
Her: Wtf? No why? *Look of amazement*
Me: Cause you dope girl!

[harveyspecter]

(05-23-2015 06:51 PM)Nightwing Wrote:  

Me: Is your momma a drug dealer?
Her: Wtf? No why? *Look of amazement*
Me: Cause you dope girl!

[MrRoundtree]

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