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02-24-2016, 08:27 AM
The more I read the classics, the more I realize that RVF is much better at the macro aspects of game/dating.
The fine grained details, the nitty gritty of what, when, how, and why to do things isn't really here. The inner game and mental change is here but the practical
Do this
Then do that
Now do this
And if I'd she starts to do X...
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02-24-2016, 10:09 AM
Good stuff, WIA. It got me thinking about a key detail of the OP. They actually finished the movie, and he asked what to watch next.
If the vibe is good going in, I have it in my mind that there is no way we are finishing this movie. Having done some of the things you mention, more often than not, she'll say "we're not going to be able to finish this are we?"
I usually reply that we will, hit pause, and say "let's take a quick break" and immediately escalate. If I have to back off, I hit play again and I go back to the process.
Another thing I do is avoid interesting movies she or I want to see for the first time. I think I've tried to watch Planet Earth on Netflix about 20 times. Still haven't seen it all the way through. Always wait until after the Grizzly or Polar bears, then check her temperature. That's usually as far as we get and the rest is background noise for sex.
