[Flossie]

G'day Guys,

I thought I would take this opportunity to tell you about some of my observations and experiences iv'e had with one of the girls I was seeing. It's a bit of a read. TLR bitches be crazy.

I met Blondie at work about 24 days ago.
She approached me hard. Initiating all sorts of conversations that were about sex, and her sex life. I played it cool, was disinterested, aloof and focussed on my work. I also occasionally escalated, by throwing out comments that exaggerated my sexual prowess.
The funny thing is, the more disinterested I was in her, the harder she fought for my attention. Fast forward a few days, and we end up sleeping together. It continues on like this for a while. Then she starts saying things like "I really Like you" "What do you think of me" "what do you want from me?"(she said this daily, especially after we had sex), "would you date me?". And then she started saying things like "I dont know if i could date you" "im starting to see you as a fuck buddy". I ignored this, and just kept on sleeping with her. She tried the "I dont want to fuck people im not dating" routine, so I pulled away and gave her less attention. She lasted all of 12 hours before she came back. She also told me how her friend who we will call R was interested in dating her, and "extremely protective" of her.

I wouldn't say I started developing feels for her, but I could definitely see her as LTR material. That is until I went out to a bar with her and her best (male) friend, R. So Blondie had been at my place the night before and that morning. We banged and we organised to see each other that night. She later drops the bombshell that she is bringing her mate R with her, I brought my best mate with me so he could keep this guy away from me while I was talking to blondie.
She introduces me to R as "her friend from work" and introduces R to me as "her friend" . R doesn't know that we are sleeping together. My friend ask's R if him and blondie are dating/seeing each other. He says no. My friend asks R if him and blondie are sleeping together. R gives my friend a Look, that to him gave him the impression that yes they are. According to my friend, the scene at the bar looked as if both myself and R were going for the same girl. She later bounced early with R back to her place because "she felt uncomfortable".

We banged the next morning and I told her what my friend said to gauge her reaction, and she "got upset" it looked like such a farce, the performance was lackluster. At this point I dont care, pussy is pussy.
We have hung out and banged a few more times since then, culminating in us going on a "date" 2 days a go. We get home, bang, she tells me she "really really likes me" i drop her off and BOOM. She changes into a full blown psycho. she gets out of the car and doesnt even hug or kiss me. I drive home and basically ghost her for the next few hours, before getting invited out to a club. Her mates are there, all guys, including R. Who is buying her drinks, holding her bag, and "protecting her" buy holding her hand or dancing near her to "shield" her from the horrible hordes of men. At this point she decides to tell me she "just wants to be friends" and then goes and holds R's hand. I wasnt cut up by the fact that she told me this, I didnt see her as LTR material anymore, she is far to unstable, insecure and something is off about her. I ended up bouncing to a different club without saying anything to her. Within 2 minutes my phone is blowing up with messages from her asking where I have gone, am I okay, how she feels shit and this isnt the way to get her to like me. She goes all ghost on me, makes her replies very short, and basically just "K's" me. I return the favour.

In order to not make work weird for us, I extend the olive branch and invite her to mine to hash things out, at first she is evasive and says she needs to be somewhere at 11, before agreeing to come to mine at 9am today.
It's currently 10:10 and she is a no show/no text. I haven't messaged her asking where she is and I'm not going to hang around waiting for her, as ive got shit to do.

Just curious what you guys would do in this situation? I would like to get in a few more bangs before I let her go, but im not going to go beg her, or subject myself to being a bag holder for her.

[Built to Fade]

If you really wanna get her pussy wet.

Go no contact on her.
Start banging other chicks.
(or go dark triad & fuck R up, but let's not go there)

She'll cave, women are weak in that sense.

But dude, I might be the first but I won't be the last to tell you...

You are shitting where you eat (fucking a girl from work)
Worse than that, she's unstable & blatantly disrespectful.

If she's willing to play mind games at a bar, she may very well do the same at your work place.

I'm getting jaded by dudes tolerating low quality women, just for another shot at pussy.

Honestly, you could let this one go.
You've already had your fair share.

Quitting whilst you're ahead is not the same as quitting.

[Flossie]

Done and done. She came past Yesterday, and we had a talk that ended with her leaving my house very upset.
I didn't contact her. She called me a few hours later to apologise for her behaviour and asked if we could remain friends.

As far as im concerned she has already been given the flick and relegated to the pantheon of conquered pussy. As for work, she is only there till the end of the month, she is on a short term contract which wont be renewed.

I posted this more so for a laugh, but I appreciate the input and advice.

[TheMaleBrain]

Girl is good Fuck buddy material.
Do not make her more.

If the sex is good - keep her on your rotation.

[Flossie]

Just finished up my swing at work yesterday, and I have a few updates for you.....unfortunately.
This girl has essentially alienated herself from everyone at work, making me her one and only "friend" at work.
She has done this through a combination of backhanded compliments, by telling certain people things like "you're quite active for a larger fellow" "your work clothes make you look a lot fatter than your regular clothes" . This was in regards to watching a co worker playing sport when we were back at camp. At this point, she has known this bloke for all of make 3 weeks. She also rubbed an indigenous fellow the wrong way by apologising for her ancestors killing his.....that was an awkward day.

In regards to her and me. When we returned to work, she told me that she was happy just being friends, and getting dick occasionally. I was happy with this outcome because she told me she wanted to just be friends, the sex was pretty good and I was working on some other girls but she is a good back up. At least, I thought this was a good outcome. At least 5 times a day she would ask me "what do you think about me?" "would you date me?" it was relentless, non stop and annoying as fuck. It almost got to the point that I would rather take contact lenses out with a rusty fork, than have to listen to that bitch harp on any longer.

Her dad is quite high up in the mining world, and she has pretty much everything handed to her on a silver platter. She is walking straight into a job with daddy dearest when she graduates from uni, and has certain expectations,that everything in her life will go her way, or her father will hear about it and come and help her. This is a problem, as she has handed my resume in to his company and been talking about how she is going to hook me up with a wicked job. I took this with a grain of salt and continued doing what I was doing. Yesterday I got a call from his companies HR department inviting me for an interview. which is great and all, except blondie and I had a huge argument over FB messenger basically culminating in her claiming I was "using her" "leading her on" and fucking her around. She now no longer wants to be friends or have anything to do with me. I might just cry....if I actually gave a shit. Oh well, I have one more swing with her before she leaves our company. My next swing is going to be a barrel of laughs.
Because of her attitude, work ethic, actions and over all character she has orchestrated her own non renewal of her contract.

[SydneyD]

Personally I would have cut her off after the club incident with R. That's just plain disrespectful.

Why are you going out to clubs with a fuck buddy and meeting up with her friends? The only place I meet such girls is at my place or hers for "netflix and chill" sessions only. I never go out to public places with a fuck buddy or do anything that could be misconstrued as a date.

The best way to end her relentless nagging is to explain to her outright that you see her as nothing more than a fuck buddy. If she's not down with that then let her go.

[Flossie]

I only went with her to the city because I thought it would be a good opportunity to get out, have a few drinks and then go home and smash.I was under the impression that it was just going to be us at the club at first. I had told some other friends that I was also going to the city and might join them depending on where I was and how my night was going, and then I heard that she was there with her mates. At that point I was already in an Uber to the city, and wasn't about to change my plans because of her.
This morning she sent me a flurry of messages basically telling me how much of an asshole I am for "leading her on". I wasnt in the mood to even begin to try and placate her, so I called her out on her BS which lead to her saying that she was playing hard to get, and pulling back so I would chase her. I told her that I dont chase, I dont play games I'm an adult, not a child.
Because her contract isnt being renewed at work I only have to put up with her for another 8 days, and thankfully I have kept an electronic record of everything she has done. So even if she tries to get one up on me at work out of spite, im covered.