I'm writing this to document my trip in Scandinavia, which is mainly to see some concerts and also travelling, but I'm also gonna be approaching and clubbing any my spare time. This is also kindoff a journal so I can learn what I have to work on while you giving you on information on the places I travel through.
June 27 and 28- Tallin
I spent a night in Tallin. Great city with cheap food and awesome architechture. One of the most beautiful cities I have seen.
The women are hot but I didn't have time for approaching. Old Hansa is one of the most interesting restaurants I have ever had the chance to eat at. This seems like a great city to visit for a week or two and soak in the place. Very touristy though since its cheap.
We took a ferry from Tallin to Stockholm. It had a disco where I hung out with some Estonian guys and girls. One of the guys had great game and basically took the girls I was chatting too. I learned the hard way that I have to ensure all conversation is in English otherwise I get cut out. The Estonian girls have very cute accents and are friendly. The guys are also cool but make sure to chat to them in private if they are also cold approaching your girls to make sure they only talk to the girl you are not talking to. I made a mistake of not letting them know that.
Lessons Learned- Figure out logistics ASAP, find out who they are with. Work with any cool local guys to make sure boundaries are clear and you know who is chatting up who. Also make sure to take phone numbers for partying in Stockholm which is something I should have done.
June 30th
I've only been here in Stockholm for two nights, went out clubbing out one night. This was my first time in a nightclub(I didn't go clubbing in Toronto due to age). Its a tough environment(Since it was my first time clubbing and I couldnt' hear myself) but the local Stockholm RSD crew helped make it a party. All the girls I chatted with were friendly and hot, and I also learned some basic dance floor game and the vibe of the club. I met a smoking hot as hell 18 year old that was one of the hottest girls I have ever met but her boyfriend/friend whisked her away and I never saw her again.....
The club we went out to is called Collage and was filled with gorgoues Swedish blondes. The girls here are stunning compared to Toronto's women. An average girl here would be considered a hottie in Toronto. The girls in the club were also friendly and I encountered no bitch shields.
Solid dance game will help you out hugely. My friend was meeting girls on the dance floor and then venue changing to a quieter area to chat them up which was a solid plan. Basically we just hung out with the girls and occasionally went to the dance floor. I learned some very basic dance moves and was spinning girls around.
For a first night in the club, it was a great experience. I learned a lot and felt the club vibe and I also got to know what I have to do to push the interaction forward(grab girls and take them to dance, etc.)
As for day game, Stockholm is amazing for it. There are literally 4 to 5 times the number of hot women walking the streets here than in Toronto. Women here dress stylishly and are far more feminine. However, I felt that the different environment affected me and I had increased AA compared to Toronto. I guess it was just the fact that this was a new city and I felt out of place. I still did a decent number of approaches and the girls were friendly but I wasn't aggressive like am in Toronto. I feel this would auto correct if I spent a week here and got comfortable with not giving a shit about what other people think. I look forward to going back Stockholm and pushing myself hard next time I'm here in the day time so I can truly see how well I can do here.
Funny fact, me and a friend approached a group of two girls in the mall. The hot one was Swedish and the mediocre one was American. The American one would be considered cute in Toronto but was a 6 here. She also gave of a less friendly and more masculine vibe. The Swedish girl in contrast was much more pleasant to chat to.
Also, the word on the street is that Swedish girls love having sex. An experienced player who knows how to escalate things in the club could probably do very well here.
Lessons For Myself- Be more aggressive in the daytime in places you are not comfortable with and take more risks. I have to push harder in interactions. In night game I need to learn how to lead girls and take risks by escalating more and faster. I also need to work on dance game.
June 27 and 28- Tallin
I spent a night in Tallin. Great city with cheap food and awesome architechture. One of the most beautiful cities I have seen.
The women are hot but I didn't have time for approaching. Old Hansa is one of the most interesting restaurants I have ever had the chance to eat at. This seems like a great city to visit for a week or two and soak in the place. Very touristy though since its cheap.
We took a ferry from Tallin to Stockholm. It had a disco where I hung out with some Estonian guys and girls. One of the guys had great game and basically took the girls I was chatting too. I learned the hard way that I have to ensure all conversation is in English otherwise I get cut out. The Estonian girls have very cute accents and are friendly. The guys are also cool but make sure to chat to them in private if they are also cold approaching your girls to make sure they only talk to the girl you are not talking to. I made a mistake of not letting them know that.
Lessons Learned- Figure out logistics ASAP, find out who they are with. Work with any cool local guys to make sure boundaries are clear and you know who is chatting up who. Also make sure to take phone numbers for partying in Stockholm which is something I should have done.
June 30th
I've only been here in Stockholm for two nights, went out clubbing out one night. This was my first time in a nightclub(I didn't go clubbing in Toronto due to age). Its a tough environment(Since it was my first time clubbing and I couldnt' hear myself) but the local Stockholm RSD crew helped make it a party. All the girls I chatted with were friendly and hot, and I also learned some basic dance floor game and the vibe of the club. I met a smoking hot as hell 18 year old that was one of the hottest girls I have ever met but her boyfriend/friend whisked her away and I never saw her again.....
The club we went out to is called Collage and was filled with gorgoues Swedish blondes. The girls here are stunning compared to Toronto's women. An average girl here would be considered a hottie in Toronto. The girls in the club were also friendly and I encountered no bitch shields.
Solid dance game will help you out hugely. My friend was meeting girls on the dance floor and then venue changing to a quieter area to chat them up which was a solid plan. Basically we just hung out with the girls and occasionally went to the dance floor. I learned some very basic dance moves and was spinning girls around.
For a first night in the club, it was a great experience. I learned a lot and felt the club vibe and I also got to know what I have to do to push the interaction forward(grab girls and take them to dance, etc.)
As for day game, Stockholm is amazing for it. There are literally 4 to 5 times the number of hot women walking the streets here than in Toronto. Women here dress stylishly and are far more feminine. However, I felt that the different environment affected me and I had increased AA compared to Toronto. I guess it was just the fact that this was a new city and I felt out of place. I still did a decent number of approaches and the girls were friendly but I wasn't aggressive like am in Toronto. I feel this would auto correct if I spent a week here and got comfortable with not giving a shit about what other people think. I look forward to going back Stockholm and pushing myself hard next time I'm here in the day time so I can truly see how well I can do here.
Funny fact, me and a friend approached a group of two girls in the mall. The hot one was Swedish and the mediocre one was American. The American one would be considered cute in Toronto but was a 6 here. She also gave of a less friendly and more masculine vibe. The Swedish girl in contrast was much more pleasant to chat to.
Also, the word on the street is that Swedish girls love having sex. An experienced player who knows how to escalate things in the club could probably do very well here.
Lessons For Myself- Be more aggressive in the daytime in places you are not comfortable with and take more risks. I have to push harder in interactions. In night game I need to learn how to lead girls and take risks by escalating more and faster. I also need to work on dance game.