Quote: (07-10-2015 04:38 PM)Lumbre Wrote:
I am a 26 year old male from Yorkshire (UK) and have lived here in my hometown for most of my life. However, I have also been fortunate enough to have lived abroad for a few years in my early adulthood.
As many of you will already know, British broads rightfully hold a highly negative reputation internationally. Quite frankly, they are disgustingly awful and I am wholly convinced that they could very well be the worst female collective on the entire planet.
Not only are they physically plain and lacking in esthetic charm, the great majority of British girls of my generation are unbelievably unfriendly, notoriously cold-hearted and downright nasty. To put it bluntly, they are just umbearable. They display a strong sense of entitlement and show zero respect for the humanity of men. They are particularly unfeminine and most of them suffer from alcoholism to some degree. British chicks have to be the most uncultured in Europe. Their conversations are so mundane and boring. Most of them don't seem to have interest in anything other than mindless binge-drinking and stupid reality TV shows. And don't forget that this country has one of the highest obesity rates in the world.
I have not slept with a local girl since I was 15. All of my girlfriends since have been foreign women. I often say jokingly that the only attractive girls in the UK are young enough to land me in jail because after highschool most British bitches start to live a reckless lifestyle and sooner or later (but usually sooner) the years of unbridled alcohol consumption and drug abuse begin to take their toll. Only a decade has elapsed since highschool graduation and many girls I knew have aged hideously.
This culture is so aristocidal and nihilistic. British broads don't care about your personal achievements or your cultivation of virtues. Britain's sickly society looks down on excellence and embraces mediocrity. British broads are utterly solipsistic and are wholly incapable of understanding anything outside of their immediate bubble of drunken idiocy. I find it almost impossible to connect with them in social settings.
I saw British females for what they are when I was only 15 years of age. I have shunned them since. My friends used to laugh at me and tell me that I was crazy, but now the same guys come to me and tell me that I was right about the evil of Western women all along. I was way ahead of my time.
Fastforward some years and I find myself abroad. In my late teenage years I really work on my foreign language skills and my eyes are opened to several new cultures which span the sphere of the Earth! I discover that I am no longer that pathetic loser that I was made to believe I was and I begin to enjoy the company of much better females. I have a much better time with women in the faraway lands of Asia and Latin America and I am made to feel respected and loved as a man. I feel that those cultures bring out the most alpha traits inside me and I no longer feel inhibited by the negative climate of disgusting British society.
Back home, I speak about my experiences a lot. I tell my stories to other guys who are still caught up in the Blue Pill matrix of Western society. I have noticed that this seems to bring out the most vitriolic bitterness in Western feminist females and their mentally emasculated White Knights. When they hear that I can do much better for myself abroad, they almost always proceed to attack my person with a snide comment and insinuate that I have to go abroad to get laid because somehow I am not good enough to get a normal girlfriend here in the West. When I tell them in response that I don't like English girls and that I prefer foreign women for their superior feminine qualities, dumb feminists almost always flatly state that foreign girls only like me because they perceive me as wealthy and they want my money. They are just so cunt-hurt that a smart Western man knows that he has broader options and no longer needs to put up with their feminist bullshit.
All of what they say is total nonsense. Foreign girls didn't pretend to like me for my supposed fortune; they just gave me a chance, got to know me and saw my virtuous qualities. Western men are not importing foreign wives by the thousands because they are too weak to get a girlfriend of their own culture; they know that foreign females are vastly superior to the umbearable feminist trash of their own towns and so they decide to go where they have much better options. Your typical feminist or femi-washed male inhabits a dream world which couldn't be any further removed from reality. It seems to me that the real reason for which they are so vehemently opposed to men who date and marry foreign women is because deep down they fear the competition that these superior Asian and Latinamerican women bring to the arena and so they resort to yet another shaming tactic.
Has anyone else experienced this as deeply as I have? Please write your experiences.
Lumbre's description of UK women, however hyperbolic-sounding, really does hit the nail on the head. As a native 40-year old Brit, I've experienced all of those facets which the OP detailed: the solipsism and utterly shallow materialistic mindset of the overwhelming majority of UK women, whose interests seem to be wholly devoid of anything other than a concern for celebrity gossip and material goods and for whom a concern for ideas as such is wholly alien; their "cuntyness", for want of a better word - a generally toxic demeanour towards men which is fashioned from an admixture of aloofnees, distrust, disdain and haughty contempt; their plain to downright hog-like appearance in a large number of their kin ... the list really is almost endless and scarcely without a single redeeming feature.
Like Lumbre, it was not until I started to encounter foreign girls whilst at university that I was struck by the contrast with British women - not just in terms of their looks, but especially in terms of their more agreeable character and pleasant temperament. I noticed, for example, how the Italian and French girls that I would talk to were much more open to being approached and how the interaction was much more on the same eye-level and reciprocal in terms of conversational input, in the sense that I wasn't made to feel that the woman was doing me a favour by gracing me with a minimum of inane and puerile "banter", as would have been the case with nearly every British girl I approached and attempted to engage in conversation. Furthermore, these foreign girls would contribute interesting points to the conversation and would actively move it along by asking me questions in return - a form of verbal exchange that was starkly at odds with what I was observing around me with the British student girls, who would expect me to do all the rowing in the conversation and contribute little, if anything at all, other than infantile and snide asides. By way of an example to illustrate this contrast: a surprisingly large number of these foreign girls - mostly European - eyes lit up when I told them I was studying philosophy and some of them even mentioned that they had read some philosophers themselves and were interested in discussing what they'd read with me, even though they'd never formally studied the subject before. In contrast, not only did the English undergraduate females barely even understand the concept of philosophy, but their attitude towards the intellectual realm in general was one of scarcely concealed contempt, despite the fact that they were themselves students. I might add here that there is a pronounced streak of materialism and a concomitant anti-intellectualism that runs through modern British society that is very much at variance with societies that I've lived in in continental Europe, such as Germany. On mainstream British TV, you'll find the schedules are awash with programmes covering celebrity gossip, home improvement, gardening, antiques and, above all, sport - all concerned with the material, but not a single programme devoted to an exploration of ideas. On the continent, in France and Germany, I experienced the complete reverse of this to be the case, with programmes on literature, philosophy, the arts generally aplenty and with a much lower regard for crassly materialist topics. Needless to say, I had far more success with continental girls during my time at university than with the Anglo-American homegrown generic garbage and still continue to do so outside of university. For example, I have a profile on Match.com that is written wholly in German even though I'm based in north east England, so as to make clear that I wish nothing to do with British women.
Lastly, although Lumbre didn't address this, I would like to add that British women are extremely hypergamous (yes, all women are hypergamous to some degree or other but in the UK it has reached extreme proportions), such that even the 80-20 rule of 80% of the women only being interested in 20% of the men is too conservative an estimate for younger women, in my experience. The overwhelming majority of British women find 90% of men simply unattractive and, moreover, unworthy of their interest, such is their level of entitlement. In contrast, a woman from the continent, even if she is not immediately attracted to a man, will at least give him the time of day and behave in a civil manner towards him, unlike here in the UK, where a woman needs to get the tingles from the get-go in order for her to confer on the man in her presence that minimal degree of courtesy and respect that I would expect from most interactions with women from continental Europe. As a consequence of this, I very much believe that the number of guys in the UK who are locked out of their local dating market is higher than in continental Europe (or, for that matter, SE Asia/Latin America); in this respect, the UK really does seem to be mirroring the developments of the US in terms of having a hellish dating scene for most men. How long we will have to wait before our own home-grown George Sodinis and James Holmes make their appearance I cannot help but wonder, since the conditions for their emergence, unfortunately, are highly fertile on these shores.