LIFE requires lots of energy!
Especially, if you want to accomplish something great, something that few men will ever do, or even try to do.
Make a lot of money, build a business, build a great body, learn a language, raise a family, maintain a career.. Which one of these things does NOT require lots of energy?
If you want to accomplish great things, you must invest energy!
I must disagree here..
The better my game has become, the less energy I have had to use.
When my game was bad, I wasted a lot of energy.
Now that my game is much better, I have learned to use my energy more efficiently.
I must disagree again..
As a man gets older, he should learn to better control his mind.
As a man gets older, he should learn to better regulate his physical and mental energies.
As a man gets older, he should know himself better and know what he wants.
As I have gotten older, I have learned to save my energy for the things that are really important to me and NOT WASTE ENERGY on things that I do not value.
I might have less total energy than I did when I was younger, but, the energy that I do have, I am able to distribute much more efficiently and effectively.
Not for me.
As a 40 year old man, boxing and basketball require huge amounts of energy. Physical energy.
Game is more about mental energy.
At 40, I am much better at managing, conserving, and channeling my mental energy.
At 40, talking to a pretty, young girl is refreshing.
What wears me out is trying to play basketball with guys in their 20s.
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I suspect that you are wasting a lot of energy because you are trying to entertain the people around you.
Stop trying to entertain THEM. Start entertaining YOURSELF!
This is much more invigorating and refreshing and it will cause you to reveal your authentic personality, which will in turn make you more attractive to girls.
Especially, if you want to accomplish something great, something that few men will ever do, or even try to do.
Make a lot of money, build a business, build a great body, learn a language, raise a family, maintain a career.. Which one of these things does NOT require lots of energy?
If you want to accomplish great things, you must invest energy!
Quote: (05-09-2015 01:15 PM)RedParadigm Wrote:
It doesn't matter how good you are
I must disagree here..
The better my game has become, the less energy I have had to use.
When my game was bad, I wasted a lot of energy.
Now that my game is much better, I have learned to use my energy more efficiently.
Quote: (05-09-2015 01:15 PM)RedParadigm Wrote:
as you get older 30+ it becomes increasingly difficult to maintain the energy
I must disagree again..
As a man gets older, he should learn to better control his mind.
As a man gets older, he should learn to better regulate his physical and mental energies.
As a man gets older, he should know himself better and know what he wants.
As I have gotten older, I have learned to save my energy for the things that are really important to me and NOT WASTE ENERGY on things that I do not value.
I might have less total energy than I did when I was younger, but, the energy that I do have, I am able to distribute much more efficiently and effectively.
Quote: (05-09-2015 01:15 PM)RedParadigm Wrote:
It's actually worse than a boxing match or a basketball game.
Not for me.
As a 40 year old man, boxing and basketball require huge amounts of energy. Physical energy.
Game is more about mental energy.
At 40, I am much better at managing, conserving, and channeling my mental energy.
At 40, talking to a pretty, young girl is refreshing.
What wears me out is trying to play basketball with guys in their 20s.
***
I suspect that you are wasting a lot of energy because you are trying to entertain the people around you.
Stop trying to entertain THEM. Start entertaining YOURSELF!
This is much more invigorating and refreshing and it will cause you to reveal your authentic personality, which will in turn make you more attractive to girls.