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05-16-2016, 08:43 AM
No worries man! Last time I used CC was in 2014 and had AMAZING success, I also used latinamericancupid many Colombian girls were using that too. But my question is, what has changed since that time, is it more users now then before? And does anyone know if still it is worth making account at latinamericancupid, or are most of them only on CC?
What about tinder, badoo, happen in Colombia?
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05-09-2017, 04:17 PM
I had a tremendous success during my 4 weeks in Colombia thanks to CC, keep in mind i had been talking a few months with these women. Even though I am 23 years old I still managed to pull off 30+ years old hot women and 13 notches during 2 weeks in Bogota and 2 in Medellin.
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05-12-2017, 03:09 PM
Quote: (05-12-2017 02:59 PM)Going strong Wrote:
Macron does Bogota.
Seriously man, why would you be proud to "pull" women older than you, especially in a country full of available, pretty young women.
Some of the older ones are more curvy in the right places, compared to many younger ones and the percentage of fake tits is higher of course.
Just saying, the oldest one that I had here claimed to be 28, but the milfs (10yo and plus :-D ) seem to be hot too.
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05-13-2017, 11:52 PM
Quote: (05-13-2017 07:04 PM)ghormesabzi Wrote:
What can I do if i generally find women older than me to be attractive, and they actually know how to talk, I cannot go out with someone retarded who cannot keep a conversation haha.
But those MILFs are looking fine as wine, plus they seem quite easy.
And yes, the curves are on point. I mean imagine having a 35 year old, body like a 20 year old with huge tits and a perfect ass. Getting nostalgic, good I will be going back in 3 weeks!
You do you, man. If you like women that aren't airheads, you certainly have my support. I can't deal with that shit either. And girls under 30 these days are fucking stupid. Sometimes you'll find a 20-something that's not a pinhead, but for some reason they always have baggage. So, you'll meet a 24 y/o girl that's smart and has her shit together, but then again she's still out of her fucking mind.
35 year old women need love, too. There's no shame in it. Have fun, bro.
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05-14-2017, 10:51 AM
How quickly and easily do 30+ year old Colombians hook up with guys their own age? Let me explain. In the States, if I go out on an online date with a women my age (35+) she is almost always looking for a LTR and/or a provider. She will therefore insist on several dates before sex. If I online date a younger woman she usually has a fantasy of hooking up with an older guy. So if I can get a date with a much younger woman, sex usually comes easily. The older woman is easy to get a date with but hard to sex up. These rules do not apply to night game btw.
Is anyone experienced with how this dynamic plays in Colombia? My experience traveling is that I can usually get the top 30+s into bed rather easily when I am away from home because they realize I am leaving so stop testing for LTR and/or provider characteristics. Not that I am going to exclusively focus on older but I usually find I am relegated to 5s-7s with younger women, while with older women I can easily access top tier.
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05-14-2017, 12:28 PM
^^Robert, the oldest Colombian chicks I've hooked up with were 29, 30, and 32. Another one may have been 34 or 32; I was really fucked up that night. I know your question is about 35+, but at least with the ones I'm talking about in their 30's were the EASIEST and the quickest to jump into the sack. They play way less games than the 20's ones. They're not flaky as hell like the regular Medellin 20-something. They're certainly less of a headache to deal with. This is just speculation on my part, but maybe they know that there's so many Colombian 20-somethings willing to date an in-shape middle age guy with his shit together that they figure they better grab it while they can.
And GS, the Macron reference made me gag a bit. That's gross, bro.
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05-14-2017, 12:33 PM
I dont post much....but adding my experiences after living here long term as a 40 something....
It has actually gotten even better for me as an older established man living y working in Bogotá. I have the conversation about age all the time with the younger (21-27) Colombianas I date. They have NEVER said they see me as old in fact they prefer my age over the younger "inmaduro" men. I never detect smoke being blown up my ass....they really don't find the age difference that big of a deal.
To be honest, I rarely date women out of there 20's here....not that I am against it, I just find the 20 something's plentiful and a blast to be around.....the obvious criteria applies and helps me immensely...I speak decent spanish, dress above average, keep an easy going/fun living vibe, and more importantly is I have an established social network and job here...I simply know how things work here (and often dont work!) ....I dont sweat the 3rd world craziness and lack of order.
As a side note...I think right now has even more potential for all men but older men as well in Colombia with all the Venezuelanas streaming across the border (thats a whole other topic in itself). My advice to the poster below is just approach women you find attractive or interested in....you will be suprised how receptive Colombianas are....flaky as well but light years ahead of western women in accepting a man's advances.....again just my experience!
The real shock to my system will be my first trip back home this summer after being away for a few years. I can only imagine that the fat farm is making U.S.A women larger, louder, and more obnoxious towards all men but especially the men in my age bracket....Safe to say I am never going back long-term!
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05-14-2017, 02:29 PM
Quote: (05-14-2017 01:25 PM)ghormesabzi Wrote:
Out of curiosity, can someone explain who and what "Macron" has done?
Since I seem to be macron-relatable haha
He's a handsome guy that is now France's youngest president at 39. His wife is 64.
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05-14-2017, 11:36 PM
"The real shock to my system will be my first trip back home this summer after being away for a few years. I can only imagine that the fat farm is making U.S.A women larger, louder, and more obnoxious towards all men but especially the men in my age bracket....Safe to say I am never going back long-term!"
Yes it will be a shock, but you should get some satisfaction out of how little you will care. After 5 weeks in SE Asia last summer I was depressed as hell but was able to hook up with American women with ease. My confidence was through the roof and the American women could smell it. I gave such little of a fuck that I would straight up tell them stories of my SE Asian adventures (including details) on first online dates. I expected them to leave in disgust but no, I was 3/3 in the first 3 weeks and I live in a difficult town for online. The problem was that it was kind of difficult to get turned on by these cute/hot but masculine American girls.
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05-15-2017, 07:13 AM
Hey man do you have any experience you can share about maintaining multiple open relationships in colombia?
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No magic answer....I just am brutally honest...I tell all girls I am not looking for a serious relationship....I enjoy having fun and want minimal drama. If that works for them, great....if not there are thousands more for me to hang with....it's not hard to meet available women.
Even if they don't like it....they know the score here....unlike the USA or the West they have been dealing with a culture that is filled with a large percentage of attractive women they know they have to adapt or they will be replaced.
Often what will happen to me when I am juggling a few girls is the girls will just disappear and reappear weeks/months later. It's a flaky culture, times, dates are not respected....it drives lots of men crazy, but if you can roll with it and have a back up to your back up your gonna enjoy yourself.
If your looking for a serious relationship your fighting a tough battle!
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05-18-2017, 03:09 PM
So how many people are/will be in Medallo during June ?
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05-31-2017, 09:06 AM
So I've messaged about 15 women in Medellin. About 10 replied initially and 7 keep replying. One even sent her number right away. The problem is their replies are short and boring. They answer my questions in Spanish with a few words then ask Como estas? or something similar. Has anyone had luck keeping an online conversation relatively interesting with Colombianas?
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05-31-2017, 10:07 AM
Ha, I've had the same problem with their 2 word answers. I usually try to flirt with them pretty early, ask them if they have any more pictures and compliment them. I also ask them where they would like to travel and if they like to dance. That approach increased my success rate, but I am by no means an expert. Just remember that Medellin girls are pretty shallow and don't understand sarcasm.
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05-31-2017, 09:42 PM
Thanks Nalgas and Ghorm. That's super helpful.
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02-24-2018, 08:00 PM
I’ve had plenty of luck on CC. I copy and paste the same Spanish line to all the girls, follow up with a simple question about hobbies, blah blah. I try to line up 3 or 4 dates at once so that I have someone if the others flake or I cancel on some. It’s been too easy so far. HOWEVER, I think I Med to start venturing out into the real world and picking up women the more traditional (and more satisfying) route.