Quote: (06-09-2011 11:43 AM)playa_with_a_passport Wrote:
Like I said before, you had me at "Hello" Brah. I grew up in the hood so I have a slightly different perspective. It's all a question of semantics to me. You say the problem is Black American women, I say the problem are those damn hoodrats. Now the question is what % of sistas are hoodrats but that's a debate for another day. I am convinced that hoodrats are the root of all evil in the Black community, I can guaranteed you that behind every other shooting in the hood a hoodrat is involved somehow, somewhere.
At least in NYC I disagree with you that immigrant Black chicks are any better. Some of the biggest fattest, disgusting, loudest, double Dick cloutching hoodrats I have ever seen have actually been FOB West Indian. Again I can only talk about NYC but I dare anybody to go to any west Indian and /or African club or social gathering and find even one chick whose above a 4 and isn't fat. Furthermore, Hoodratism is an Equal Opportunity virus, you literally see it now from all hues, nationality, and creeds no bitch is immune. But I digress, about Black women and materialism, I don't really agree with that either even when it comes to hoodrats. If that was true then taking sistas to "Shrimp Lovers Tuesday" at Red Lobster and buying them a Boost Mobile phones would be all it takes to get laid like a champ in the hood. But we all can agree that tricks get almost no ass in the hood unless the chick is a bonefide prostitute. If you look closely to whose getting all the ass in the hood, it ain't really the local dope boy or the stick up kids but the pretty boy with "good hair" whose 30 and lives with his mom. I will go as far as saying that Black thugs get way less ass than they would have gotten if they were White "bad boyz" I know quite a few of them, none of them are fucking even ahoodrat pieces. They have all been reduced to fucking grenades with 3 kids for 3 squares and a cot. Like Tariq Nasheed said, "that ain't mackish"
LMAOOO@fcuking grenades! What is a grenade exactly?
On a less jovial note, you make some valid points in regards to what percentage of black American females are actually hoodrats.
In regards to the good hair..are lizards still on that in this day and age? 21st century deep and they still concerned about that paperbag theory??? So guys looking like Rick Fox are still slaughtering chocolate lizards all day every day in the US, generally speaking?
On a side note, are educated black females also as hypergamous as studies show?
For instance, if a guy went out to an event in Atlanta i.e black lawyers or a black doctors event, where you have a high congregation of successful well to do black people, do the women still seek the same ridiculous qualities in their men?
Again, I have never worked or lived extensively (on my own) in the US so I am unable to offer an accurate analysis to this American perspective.
I can see where Athlone is coming from. I've always been a studious cat. I saw lots of no good cats growing up and by 16 (the time in the UK were mandatory education ended) a lot of these cats would be already doing bird for gun and/or drug charges.
Being intelligent and interested in a lizard's mind got me nothing worth writing home about.
I used to seethe watching some coca-cola bottle shaped dyme being escorted into the flats by some rizla rolling, avirex jacket toting hoodlum who would sneered at my efforts in procuring my GCSE's.
At the end of the day, educated or not, we all have the same needs and I wanted to pound out some puddy.
So how did I deal with this? For the intellectual type as myself, I would merely go to an area where I was a novelty (even if I was targeting the sistas). London is saturated with blacks and lots of dudes hollaring incessantly. As a result, a lizard's head is inflated and you need to come with a whole lot of extra for a whole lot of less (similar to the DC male residents's complaints).
Going to other areas resulted in much easier lays. The sistas were a lot more keen for attention and were willing to be a lot more accomodating to procure a partner.
If one cannot travel, play the part as much as you can.
Even though I am not and I have NEVER been a bad boy (UK style), I know how a bad boy behaves. I've seen them growing up and I can impersonate them if need be.
So, one summer, I had enough. I rocked some fake jewellery, threw on the wife beater and I went in with the perma scowl. The tone of voice. The swagger. The blatant and obvious objectification of the target.
Results?
It was a joy/pain revelation. The joy was, I had pussy flowing like River Jordan. The pain and sadness was that I had to resort to that to address a basic human need where as being myself, a kind loving human being was invalid?
My advice to Athlone
So, dear Athlone, your passion seems to stem from that anger from being ignored as a high school nerd which still stems today into your twenties.
My advice to you is, you won't be able to change the situation no matter how angry you get.
By the time your target audience (the black American females) listen to your information, they will have already hit their sellby date (too old, damaged goods, oodles of children and enough baby father drama to script a saga).
The only people that can influence the fertile hoodrats are the men with deemed power around them.
Those men are the thugs or guys with good hair.
They don't care about your message because they eat whenever they want as much as they want (fcuk all the hoodrats and exhaust all sexual fantasies with them).
It's a bit like advising Dwight Howard on the art of catching an alley. He will smile and shut you out mentally since he catches alleys whenever he wants.
Bottom line is, I'm not sure there's anything that can be done.