Well, over-investing too early is crazy. In my earlier, less mature times, I would not look a gift horse in the mouth, but this woman I talked about above, she said something along the lines of "why should I go looking for another guy when I have [insert my real name]?"
This was on the first real date.
I mean, I like commitment, but the two of us were just trying to get a lay of the land still, and obviously things didn't work out.
The reason she was already planning so far ahead was that despite being a 7, most guys bail for the same reason I bailed. So she is kind of like a SIF only instead of hiding her fatness she's hiding her unattractive mental issues.
Most guys will waive women being dumb or uninteresting as long as they are hot and compliant. But this kind of personality exudes asexuality. Imagine trying to bang Sheldon from Big Bang Theory in the body of a moderately hot woman. Sure, personality is a lot LESS interesting than looks, but I damn well knew that if I got through all of her defenses I'd be dealing with a starfish in the sack, despite me applying black-belt level technique.
So I just don't get the attitudes of some that are willing to take this kind of chick to completion.
A woman like this just wants to talk about science and philosophy all night. They can only intellectualize what love and passion is. They can't experience it.
This was on the first real date.
I mean, I like commitment, but the two of us were just trying to get a lay of the land still, and obviously things didn't work out.
The reason she was already planning so far ahead was that despite being a 7, most guys bail for the same reason I bailed. So she is kind of like a SIF only instead of hiding her fatness she's hiding her unattractive mental issues.
Most guys will waive women being dumb or uninteresting as long as they are hot and compliant. But this kind of personality exudes asexuality. Imagine trying to bang Sheldon from Big Bang Theory in the body of a moderately hot woman. Sure, personality is a lot LESS interesting than looks, but I damn well knew that if I got through all of her defenses I'd be dealing with a starfish in the sack, despite me applying black-belt level technique.
So I just don't get the attitudes of some that are willing to take this kind of chick to completion.
A woman like this just wants to talk about science and philosophy all night. They can only intellectualize what love and passion is. They can't experience it.