Quote: (01-18-2015 05:55 PM)Geomann180 Wrote:
Quote: (01-18-2015 03:04 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
It's not that alpha made her cum the most, or had the biggest dick - but he left the biggest mental/emotional impression on her.
When alpha widows talk about their Mr. Big's, they reflect on how he made her feel. Sex is just a small part of that equation.
And complimenting her and making her believe in herself is usually not part of the equation either.
Even dudes who've been in the game for a minute, still think the way to a woman's reptilian brain is through making her feel good.
It's not
WIA
So - fuck her mind?
Or is that simplifying it too much?
G
In my experience, you have to keep adding chips to the pot.
We talk about this a fair amount on RVF, and I hear it from my peers as well.
But it's eternal vigilance.
The mistakes I've made in the past, is that I let the small things slide.
Keep letting the small thing slide was my failure.
The next step was being a hard ass.
I was basically totally unforgiving and uncompromising.
It kept the chick on the tip, but I could see the pain she was in.
So the last step as far as I know is
- you set the rules early on
- do not divulge
- you catch her when she infracts
- you punish and scold
And then
- you correct her thought process
- you lead
- you reward (intermittently)
Here's an example from pop culture - Lil Wayne - No Worries.
She want me to eat her sugar,
I say "Why you in a hurry?"
She say "Why you asking questions?"
I say "Bitch you trynna be funny!"
^Basically he's willing to lick her pussy, but on his time schedule. (wayne is a filthy bowcat)
He shuts down her request with a question.
but rather than chill, She responds with a question
He upends the game, with his answer - which of course moves the ball away from oral sex to knowing her role.
This is maybe 4 lines of dialogue, but thinking behind it is what the player needs to grasp.
These chicks keep trying to take something, keep trying to get more power.
Your job is to push them back and remind them of their roles in your enterprise.
It just never ends.
Now if you're like me, like most men, inherently lazy.
It's just easier to replace the chick than to meet all of her challenges. Even if you've only got the one broad, it's way easier to restart with a new chick than try and fix the old chick.
Sometimes you don't have the reset option.
WIA