[Suits]

(01-19-2015 04:19 AM)FilipSRB Wrote:  

(01-19-2015 02:54 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Don't make the mistake of thinking that you need three years to get to know someone. If people were serious about getting marriage (in their prime) and serious about honouring their marriage vows, you wouldn't need three years. You'd need about three months. Maybe six.

In my experience, girls are not very good at hiding who they are, at least if you are red pill and know to read between the lines. They just blurp it out without a single thought that they are revealing a red flag. In three months 99% of them will weed themselves out of the running.

99% of them weed themselves out of the running for me in about 3 minutes.

[Duke Castile]

It wouldn surprise me a bit if most of this was made up and she published it to advertise that she has a "good pussy" in order to make up for her aging ass.

Also I can't stand how she tried to be clever when shes talking about doing thr electric slide. Then she talks about moving to New York, her true "first love" as if shes found redemption.

Does every dumb bitch on the planet think they are cary bradshaw or whateverthefuck her name is?

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(01-19-2015 07:00 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

Does every dumb bitch on the planet think they are cary bradshaw or whateverthefuck her name is?

Yes - they do - I met 20yo girls in Poland who watched Sex and the City as their bible replacement. It fucks them up as they are all about clothes, high-value men, carousel riding and New York. That girl was a 7 with a notch-count of 2-4, but was completely deluded already.

The only difference is that if a High Value Westerner with Game stayed with her in Poland, she would be a more or less decent girl being able to ride that Hamster-bull, but woe him who thinks he could do the same while moving with such a girl to the West. Chances for a good LTR fall instantly.

And I don't believe that the story is that rare - it happens all around the world at varying numbers - what is new is that women advertise it all with their real names, Twitter and Facebook accounts included in complete and utter open hypergamy. In the past women hid that part of themselves and most men were clueless about it. Now I guess the women think that the gloves can come off.

[folx]

(01-19-2015 07:07 AM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  

And I don't believe that the story is that rare - it happens all around the world at varying numbers - what is new is that women advertise it all with their real names, Twitter and Facebook accounts included in complete and utter open hypergamy. In the past women hid that part of themselves and most men were clueless about it. Now I guess the women think that the gloves can come off.

And this is why, Facebook and the other social media, are bad publicity for men and should be used at the minimum and always with the goal of finding more pussy. Never just "because i want to show the world how i am"

And to this guy Paul, who life has offered him the red pill, still wanted to get married (or LTR'ed) like the following year, still wanted to post all his life in the internet. My guess he did this out of some revenge to his ex-wife, that clearly states that is not over her and LTR'ed the next one right away.

1st post here and already competing for Player Hater Award

[Apollo]

* indicates a name change because…duh

As a writer, you use fake names to protect the identities of the party's involved. But because she used her real name and has zero social media savvy, I was able to find out her ex-husbands real name with the effort of a single Google search. So the whole "Paul" mystery was solved in less than a minute.

Bryce, on the other hand, is a digital ghost since he only communicated with her via text message (which is corroborated by the story) and stayed smart enough not to involve himself in her social media circus. Still a slight possibility that he slipped somewhere, but it would take significantly more effort to find out who he really is.

Once again further confirmation of stuff that members of this forum have been saying for years. Eliminate OR minimize your social media presence as much as possible, because in a public domain, all information can and will be used against you if shit ever goes south. Getting played by a woman is hard enough, you don't need that nonsense following you around/hindering your prospects for the rest of your life.

[RouteBackwards]

The moral of this story is be a Bryce, not a Paul.

When Paul's confronted with a woman upset at him, he cries.

When Bryce is confronted with a woman upset at him, he says "you have a good pussy."

That's not even game, that's just being the man.

[bojangles]

Scorpions posts should be gospel for every leader and man on this planet.

[Game_Started]

You can find a lot about her and her past in the blog: dreambigapple.com

Bryce was/is a, as described, "military boy." Always the guys in uniform.

And she has a model mayhem profile.

(insert gif of Roosh laughing)

[void]

5 Points for riding the "Hamster-Bull", aka Alpha of the month.

[Dark Knowledge]

(01-19-2015 02:04 PM)bojangles Wrote:  

Scorpions posts should be gospel for every leader and man on this planet.

After reading that post I was so happy I found this forum.

So she's in NYC now and riding the carousel hoping that she'll meet the right guy again and fall in love just like in the movies!

Women like this are destined to be miserable

[Kizman]

Just like they say " You can't make a hoe a housewife".

[Troll King]

(01-19-2015 07:00 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

Does every dumb bitch on the planet think they are cary bradshaw or whateverthefuck her name is?

Yup, they do. This was one of my "awakening moments" as you might say when it comes to the red pill. I had it years before I even heard of game or the manosphere. I had just gotten to college in the early to mid 00's and was already a few years behind and a bit older while living in the dorms. I also had a GF at the time.

Anyways. I had heard about Sex and the City before but never really thought much of it. Then it became quite apparent that all the girls were acting like Cary or Miranda or whoever. It wasn't until I was hanging out with my then GF and some of her dorm mates, we had sex-segregated dorm halls, and I was trying to move the whole situation into a threesome with my girl and one or two of her friends that she had a crush on, and I obviously wanted to bang. Then this group of about 10 chicks pile into the room and they fucked up my plans by drinking my booze that I had snuck in (dry campus and I was 21 my freshman year which made me plenty popular) and they announced that we would be watching a SATC marathon. So, I chilled and smoked a bit of dope and drank and then they started the marathon and my face went something like this



and then this



and then something like this



and finally



I had quite a few more "awakening moments" in the following years after that bitch cheated on me and I started playing the field but the Sex and the City generation and how it has rotted the minds, or maybe more accurately simply peeled off the social veneer of female respectability , is something that I still have a bit of trouble getting past. It was especially sad and disheartening to go from being single and hooking up on a semi regular basis with a good group of guys while living in an off-campus party house, to then studying abroad and dating three foreign and feminine women at the same time to then going back and realizing just how fucking horrid most western women are, even the hotter and more feminine southern girls have nothing on non-western feminine women. It truly is just heartbreaking and sad when I think about it...and also enraging at the same time .

The thing I really don't understand, outside of the SATC generation of women and the influence that has had on them (I would characterize the Sex and the City generation to be late boomers, all gen x, and at the very least the first half of gen Y but that last bit is only open to debate if you want to create a SATC/Girls generation or SATC 2.0 or something), is why they are all so hooked on NYC?

I really don't get it. I have only been there a few times and I have never lived there and the few times I have been there I was mostly passing through and I admit I didn't get to see the site or night life but I still don't get it?

Is it really that great? The one time I actually got out into the city for a few hours...well, I wasn't impressed at all. The place smelled like piss and garbage and there were tons of homeless and drug addicts. Granted, this was late 90s or maybe early 00s and I was only there for a few hours on a layover but still. Why are so many women so enamored by the place?

[Paracelsus]

(01-19-2015 05:30 PM)Troll King Wrote:  

Is it really that great? The one time I actually got out into the city for a few hours...well, I wasn't impressed at all. The place smelled like piss and garbage and there were tons of homeless and drug addicts. Granted, this was late 90s or maybe early 00s and I was only there for a few hours on a layover but still. Why are so many women so enamored by the place?

A disclaimer because I've never been to the place, but may I present this piece of rubbish as suggesting some answers:

http://guestofaguest.com/new-york/scene/...ti-stanger

What strikes me most is that New York like it or not is one of the hubs for fashion, entertainment, and the arts. These facile, vapid industries draw women like flies to shit because in large measure they cannot be judged objectively, and women are masters at subjectivity -- especially when it comes to each other. A proportion of them may be mercenary when it comes to men, but when it comes to each other they lack all sense of objectivity at all: a sister can decide she hates a hard-working woman solely because of her hairstyle, but can think fucking Imelda Marcos was an acceptable figure because she had great taste in shoes.

New York doesn't do anything to actively prevent the SATC stereotype because it's fucking great advertising for the place, and all those fashion houses and overcrowded restaurants have to sell their shit to somebody. Vicious cycle, perhaps.

[Grange]

I think the allure for women is everybody in your small town already knows all your bullshit, but in NYC a girl can always meet a rich, handsome stranger who doesn't know what a whore you are and maybe he'll fall for you. While you wait for him you can fuck a string of other hot dudes that you don't have to see around all the time. They love wealthy/powerful men, and they hate responsibility.

I have visited a number of times. It's great fun. There's always something to do that you haven't done yet. I wouldn't want to live there without making $300k+/yr though.

[RexImperator]

Part of it must be that the size of it is very anonymizing in a way, so it frees them of social constraints.

[Designate]

(01-19-2015 05:18 PM)Kizman Wrote:  

Just like they say " You can't make a hoe a housewife".

As well elaborated by T.I.

[runsonmagic]

(01-19-2015 02:04 PM)bojangles Wrote:  

Scorpions posts should be gospel for every leader and man on this planet.

Scorpion called the UVA rape story first, when I was still in denial.

Agreed. Man drops a lot of red pill knowledge.

+1

[Veloce]

Stories like these are outrageous to blue pill adherents, but if you're wise to the ways of the world you can see this shit all around you on a daily basis.

There was this chick I worked with for a couple years. Pretty cute for her age (like 44 or something) but I wouldn't bang even though we partied a couple times and she came onto me. When she drank she turned into a total slut.

Anyway she used to get a kick out of guilt tripping me for being a cheating asshole and I would always turn it on her. Her FAVORITE fuckbuddy is a guitarist for a famous rock band. When he's in town, he hits her up and she drops anyone and anything she's doing to fuck him. And the very next day she would come into work looking like her tail was between her legs and I'd smirk and say, "Good night huh?" She'd rant and rave about what an asshole he is for cheating on his girlfriend that he lives with, and SHE was the one fucking him, along with several other girls that wanted a piece of the action. Meanwhile she told me all about the guys that have proposed to her and how much she liked them and what good boyfriends they were but when they proposed she recoiled in horror and turned them down, in a couple cases breaking their heart. And all through the years, whose cock does she crave? The rock guitarist, while full knowing that she'll never tie him down.

It's normal to have a disgusted or angry impulse at this type of behavior, but with the right perspective that emotion easily transitions to one of bemusement.

I'm reminded of a Calvin and Hobbes quote:

"I imagine bugs and girls have a dim perception that nature played a cruel trick on them, but they lack the intelligence to really comprehend the magnitude of it"

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(01-20-2015 02:14 AM)Veloce Wrote:  

Stories like these are outrageous to blue pill adherents, but if you're wise to the ways of the world you can see this shit all around you on a daily basis.

There was this chick I worked with for a couple years. Pretty cute for her age (like 44 or something) but I wouldn't bang even though we partied a couple times and she came onto me. When she drank she turned into a total slut.

Anyway she used to get a kick out of guilt tripping me for being a cheating asshole and I would always turn it on her. Her FAVORITE fuckbuddy is a guitarist for a famous rock band. When he's in town, he hits her up and she drops anyone and anything she's doing to fuck him. And the very next day she would come into work looking like her tail was between her legs and I'd smirk and say, "Good night huh?" She'd rant and rave about what an asshole he is for cheating on his girlfriend that he lives with, and SHE was the one fucking him, along with several other girls that wanted a piece of the action. Meanwhile she told me all about the guys that have proposed to her and how much she liked them and what good boyfriends they were but when they proposed she recoiled in horror and turned them down, in a couple cases breaking their heart. And all through the years, whose cock does she crave? The rock guitarist, while full knowing that she'll never tie him down.

I have started to meet girls like that in Eastern Europe too. The elite knows that women are the same the world all over just like men are.

Sure there are constraints of poverty, demographics (very important in EE & FSU), no sufficient welfare (makes it necessary to tie down a man for survival), also increased social shaming for being a slut - but at the end of a day she is just a girl living in a big city trying to copy the SATC dream of fucking exciting strangers and trying to hunt down Mr. Big. If she does not catch herself early enough and has excellent genetics like the girl you mentioned above - she is doomed to become cold, jaded, slutty and ultimately alone.

In EE your girl would likely be a cat-lady by now, while in the West she can still get a wealthy 65 year old Beta to wife her up at age 45.

Feminism is like a toxic light to the female bug psyche - it looks all pretty & mesmerizing from afar, but it ultimately burns them all.

[WestIndianArchie]

(01-18-2015 05:55 PM)Geomann180 Wrote:  

(01-18-2015 03:04 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

It's not that alpha made her cum the most, or had the biggest dick - but he left the biggest mental/emotional impression on her.

When alpha widows talk about their Mr. Big's, they reflect on how he made her feel. Sex is just a small part of that equation.

And complimenting her and making her believe in herself is usually not part of the equation either.

Even dudes who've been in the game for a minute, still think the way to a woman's reptilian brain is through making her feel good.

It's not

WIA

So - fuck her mind?

Or is that simplifying it too much?

G

In my experience, you have to keep adding chips to the pot.

We talk about this a fair amount on RVF, and I hear it from my peers as well.

But it's eternal vigilance.

The mistakes I've made in the past, is that I let the small things slide.
Keep letting the small thing slide was my failure.

The next step was being a hard ass.
I was basically totally unforgiving and uncompromising.
It kept the chick on the tip, but I could see the pain she was in.

So the last step as far as I know is
- you set the rules early on
- do not divulge
- you catch her when she infracts
- you punish and scold

And then
- you correct her thought process
- you lead
- you reward (intermittently)

Here's an example from pop culture - Lil Wayne - No Worries.

She want me to eat her sugar,
I say "Why you in a hurry?"
She say "Why you asking questions?"
I say "Bitch you trynna be funny!"

^Basically he's willing to lick her pussy, but on his time schedule. (wayne is a filthy bowcat)
He shuts down her request with a question.
but rather than chill, She responds with a question
He upends the game, with his answer - which of course moves the ball away from oral sex to knowing her role.

This is maybe 4 lines of dialogue, but thinking behind it is what the player needs to grasp.

These chicks keep trying to take something, keep trying to get more power.
Your job is to push them back and remind them of their roles in your enterprise.

It just never ends.

Now if you're like me, like most men, inherently lazy.

It's just easier to replace the chick than to meet all of her challenges. Even if you've only got the one broad, it's way easier to restart with a new chick than try and fix the old chick.

Sometimes you don't have the reset option.

WIA

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(01-20-2015 02:52 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

But it's eternal vigilance.

The mistakes I've made in the past, is that I let the small things slide.
Keep letting the small thing slide was my failure.

The next step was being a hard ass.
I was basically totally unforgiving and uncompromising.
It kept the chick on the tip, but I could see the pain she was in.

So the last step as far as I know is
- you set the rules early on
- do not divulge
- you catch her when she infracts
- you punish and scold

And then
- you correct her thought process
- you lead
- you reward (intermittently)

That's exactly true with what I meant by riding the Hamster-Bull or riding the Bronco-Hamster.

The Polish girl in my example above would be such a Hamster-Bull that Game-aware guys could deal with. She is tainted by feminism and poisoned somewhat by the "empowered" memes in media, but she is not too far gone because of her low notch count and youth (20).

She dated a feminized Beta before and he was crushed by her despite being 10 years older.

@WIA - the behavior you describe is absolutely correct - small things accumulate and every little shit-test has to be countered immediately. The good part is that if Game is part of your personality it can actually be fun and is no struggle, unless you have chosen a Hamster-Bull that is too wild or jaded and sadly you have to let it run free wreaking havoc among the Beta population.

The woman in the article is one such example - that Hamster-Bronco is already deep in la-la-land and any man best only jump on board for a quick-fun ride and let her stampede onward alone.

[WestIndianArchie]

(01-20-2015 03:11 AM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  

@WIA - the behavior you describe is absolutely correct - small things accumulate and every little shit-test has to be countered immediately. The good part is that if Game is part of your personality it can actually be fun and is no struggle, unless you have chosen a Hamster-Bull that is too wild or jaded and sadly you have to let it run free wreaking havoc among the Beta population.

The woman in the article is one such example - that Hamster-Bronco is already deep in la-la-land and any man best only jump on board for a quick-fun ride and let her stampede onward alone.

For me the jury is still out on that one.

You can break a chick before you get with her.
You can consistently break her attempts at breaking you.
You can change your environment.

I'm just thinking it's the nature of woman.

If Yin is the strong positive force, and Yang is the weak negative force - you'd think that Yin would dominate and Yang would cease to exist - but erosive power of yang over time keeps the balance.... I imagine.

" Yin supports yang and yang protects yin when harmony prevails."

WIA

[Pride male]

Whatever happened to anti slut defence?

[T and A Man]

Being called a slut is shaming methodology.

Shame for women to freely choose their sexual agency is being wound back.

Thus we now have virtually every cross gender decision in law, and moral opinion, is to protect women from the consequences of her poor choices of sexual agency.

[Daedmo]

(01-20-2015 05:43 AM)T and A Man Wrote:  

Being called a slut is shaming methodology.

Shame for women to freely choose their sexual agency is being wound back.

Thus we now have virtually every cross gender decision in law, and moral opinion, is to protect women from the consequences of her poor choices of sexual agency.

"Slut" is still the most powerful insult you can hurl at a woman, and they still really take it to heart, no matter how slutty they actually are.