Quote: (01-02-2015 08:25 AM)Charmingomar Wrote:
I try to say Sincere Compliments and always stay groomed. Always wear nice "expensive looking" shoes to the club. Get some jewerly (chain, watch, bracelet etc). Some people say don't buy drinks, I say it depends on the situation. If she is giving you 110% co-operation, why not buy her a drink to "better the mood/situation". ....
Treat her like a lady/"daddy's baby girl". Only talk to women that you have a high sexual interest in. If you talk to a women that you have to think too much about approaching, that women is not for you. You should only talk to women that, "When you think to your self, I just had to say something to her". This will lead to more natural conversations and interactions. When you have to think too much about talking to this woman, the conversation will usually come off as forced. "Negging" does not work, A true Dime who has come from a good house hold and has a good upbringing and is very attactive, will look at you crazy if you neg her and she has done nothing to achieve that sort of behavior.
Never talk about sex, until you are in a private location, act as if it is not even on your mind. If the woman brings it up, change the topic. Don't even touch the women until you are in a private location. Kino doesn't work, most girls will consider you "touchy feely" or too sexual and she doesn't even know you yet.The conversation is always about them and never about you. If they ask you about you they really don't care they are just waiting for a time that they can get in, to talk more about themselves, so just change the topic back to them.
All things a woman would say - bitch has been reading up on Game and now started to tell us what works on her and what does not.
I estimate she is an immigrant, low IQ, a 6-7 or a fat 5-6 - due to the crazy market place in the US and DC she thinks she is an 8, while in EE she would be a 3-5 due to her weight. It really freaks her out, when Betas get all touchy feely too early. She has not experienced pure unadulterated Alpha desire on her, so she does not know that kino would be great if the guy knew what he was doing and was really into her.
Only approach when interested in her - well - true - many lumpy overweight girls have that problem, because guys approach her out of sheer lack of options, but are not really into them. She may have even experienced limpy dick syndrome created by her fat rolls.
And she is right - negging is brutal when done on an overweight 5 with body issues and a butterface.
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All the people that I see as "natural" players always seem to really have a sincere love/interest in women.
See as natural players - yeah seeing is all you do. Most women have usually met only very Good Looking guys who fucked a few girls while being in solid Beta land. That is not Game and guys know pretty fast that such a bloke will be divorce-raped and a shadow of his self before he hits his 30s. That is usually neither Game, Alpha-state nor anything.
I've condensed her advice into a fitting meme: