Let's see-
-You used to do heavy drugs and EDM. Plenty of girls in TO are into that and its easy to build a social circle if you're into that kind of stuff.
-You went to University in Toronto, instantly plugging you into social circles.
-You mentioned in your data sheet about waiting for IOIs, which I rarely receive in Toronto. Maybe you're really good looking but I don't look for IOIs at all because I just don't see them that often.
Anyways, it's not a surprise you did well.
No one really denies you can have fun if you're in an ideal situation in Toronto. But in general, the people of Toronto are cold... and the women are difficult. Yes if you're a drug dealer or heavy in the music scene you are hooked up... but the whole point of the hate towards Toronto in this forum is that it sucks for cold approach.
Like dude... the fact that literally 80 percent of the girls who respond well to me in TO are generally new to the city either from a small town or outside the country. Girls who grew up in Toronto think that getting approached is "creepy" and "weird" unless its by a super handsome guy and have their bitch shields up. That's what real life experience shows me.
Even girls from Mississauga are significantly friendlier. The difference is extremely noticeable and many guys have reported the same thing.
Not to mention the fact that many girls and guys from outside Toronto say the same thing, that Toronto is unfriendly.
The whole point of what I say isn't to be negative, but to dissuade people from moving here. Way too many people hype Toronto and convince people to live here... and then set up them up for disappointment.
Quote: (12-13-2014 03:55 PM)Big Country Wrote:
I have no illusions about how Toronto compares to better cities, all I meant to say was that if you fall into the right circles, it can be a lot of fun.
I was heavy into m and coke, and that certainly played a factor in my overall enjoyment of Toronto. For most guys it won't be as simple, I just got lucky. Being friends with a few dealers didn't hurt.
I never said I was in the club district, my two main hang outs were on Queen West and King West. The EDM (mostly dubstep) craze was just getting started my first year there, and I rode that til it died. But after three years of getting fucked up every other day, I was happy to get out of it when it was infiltrated by the masses.
Would I recommend Toronto as a party city for someone who doesn't have connections? Absolutely not. Montreal is far superior, and even Ottawa is better.