Quote: (12-05-2014 05:31 AM)Zelcorpion Wrote:
Leaving morals aside - men do fuck their way up since time immemorial. Great fortunes have been created by now world-famous men who decided to marry an ugly fat, but very wealthy broad.
That is still the number one wealth accumulation game for women and men should not be ashamed for doing the same. Besides - you can always leave her later on. You fucked her before, so there is at least some physical attraction.
Men have been marrying women for their wealth for ages - the entire global elite is scattered with plenty of those unions. Many ambitious young men got their head-start like that. And even the fathers of those brides were not mad about it, since a money-focused husband who increases the family fortune is sometimes better than a slacker who actually loves his daughter.
Continuing to see other girls openly with her won't fly. Don't mention it with her.
I never had such an arrangement myself, though I fucked my boss when younger, but that was for fun, since she was 34 and in great shape - fucking in her office was fun too.
But would I date or even marry a girl who is a relatively good looking multi-billionaire? Depends on her and her family. This is one case in which I would actually consider marriage. But there are many co-factors and you would have to decide on a case by case basis.
Yours is not so bad - you get mostly connections out of it and a little boost. Keep it amicable between you and roll the dices as long as they last.
yea that's an interesting point there mate, and it's probably quite true. the only difference in this case is her wealth is actually self-made. her connections came from her ~10 years in the biz. she got a job after HS and worked her way up, then went off on her own. so her family/father is a nonissue here.
and i'm shuddering at the prospect of marrying her. it's nowhere near that stage yet. though with bitches today, you never know...
i have a feeling she'd drop my ass and never talk to me again if she catches me with other women. even now she's suspicious, in that, "if he fucks me this good, he's probably fucking tons of women out there too" kinda way.
so what i'll have to do is stay monogamous initially, then go one of 2 ways: either i slowly turn her out into my own slut who is willing to do some truly depraved shit with me or i see girls on the side without her knowledge. she won't be open to it now, but if i can get her to look more like what i'm sexually into (maybe have her get fake tits, change her hairstyle, her way of dressing, etc...) it would definitely help keep the relationship monogamous.
Quote: (12-05-2014 05:40 AM)Dr. Howard Wrote:
Let me throw an idea out there, I have never battle tested this so its pure theory.
If she is average, and rich and you've unleashed her inner sex demon can you leverage threesomes? From there leverage the threesomes into some sort of 'open relationship'?
If she is horny and depraved it should be pretty easy, and the wealth may compensate for the looks for you to draw in better looking women for the threesome..ie they may overlook average annie if they get to hang out on a yacht all day.
She won't be initially, but your suggestion actually gives me some ideas. She's horny, but not depraved (not yet anyway). And she's pretty vanilla in bed. so 3somes are off the tables for now, but I'm going to start turning her out slowly by pushing her boundaries just a little bit each time.
maybe get her into reverse cowgirl with a mirror she can look into next time, get her comfortable with her exhibitionist side. then a sextape maybe. then, fucking in public spaces. slowly get her into the idea for 3somes and sharing ourselves with strangers.
but to get the better looking women into 3somes, she's going to need to be at a high enough level of attractiveness first. pretty girls like other pretty girls. i'm gonna have to give her some kind of makeover.
Quote: (12-05-2014 07:03 AM)VolandoVengoVolandoVoy Wrote:
George Washington did it. When he shacked up with Martha, she had something like 5 plantations in Virginia on the best land, plus a shit ton of cash in the bank.
I see no problem with it. Sure, it isn't ideal, but plenty of men whore themselves out to other men by spending 12-16 hours a day in some office, and never see any real benefit, and remain wage slaves for their entire lives.
Just make sure you get benefits that can't be taken away when you break up with her, and get enough ass on the side that you stay sane in the meantime.
I see no problem with it either. I'm not trying to rationalize what I'm going to do.
Just wondering if some of you guys here have found a way to juggle this with the need for variety and hotness.
Quote: (12-05-2014 11:07 AM)Carlos100 Wrote:
Frame. It's your reality, not hers. You act like what you want is natural and right.
as with any woman/situation, it's about frame, i agree.
i think this situation is similar to guys who are trying to get their wives to lose some weight.
the ones who do it successfully probably don't guilt her into it. i reckon they assure her of her inner beauty or some shit like that, how they will always love them no matter what, and use good frame control to get her to want to do it to please her man.