Sorry for the wall of text. Would appreciate some advice.
Background:
I met a girl on Tinder back in January. She's not your typical girl on Tinder - she downloaded it, I met her, and she deleted "that stupid app" (her words) shortly after.
We banged on the second date. She's was a university student in a city several hours away. Her parents live in my city. She visits them once every month or so and always sets aside a night to hang with me and bang.
I text her every few days or so following good text game principles (no emoticons, short statements, taking longer to respond, etc.). Most of the times she texts back immediately, and her text is always the last one (I end the convos). If I don't hit her up for a few days longer than normal she'll send me a feeler text.
Whenever we are together, she is very affectionate, often initiating short makeouts throughout the date activity.
Having graduated over the summer, she is planning to move to my city in the fall for work, and we have discussed our mutual excitement at being able to see each other more frequently.
Issue:
About a month ago, I sent a few messages over what's app over the course of a week and received no response. The app said she hadn't checked my messages. She was travelling at the time, so that may explain it.
I sent her a hail mary text "Hey girl, still alive?" and got an instant response "Hello! Yes, alive and abroad for a few more days how goes?"
I sent her 2 more messages over the course of the following week which have not been responded to. She may still be abroad, so that may be the reason.
Question:
How should I proceed from here?
This fuck buddy relationship is most likely over, but I am certain I could turn it around if I could wrangle a date once she moves to my city. I would like to keep pushing until she confirms its over, but in a manner which isn't needy and that will drive her to that conclusion.
Note: This is not a case of oneitis. I have been dating and fucking multiple other girls in my city the entire time we've been fuck buddies. I don't rub it in her face, but she is aware of this. I don't believe she is fucking anyone else regularly, but I have not asked as I do not care.
Cliffs
I have a fuck buddy that lives in a different city
We bang when she is in town every month or so
I have run strong text game to date to keep this arrangement going
Fuck buddy is always very affectionate when we are together
Fuck buddy has lately grown non-responsive, but there may be mitigating circumstances
How should I proceed?
Background:
I met a girl on Tinder back in January. She's not your typical girl on Tinder - she downloaded it, I met her, and she deleted "that stupid app" (her words) shortly after.
We banged on the second date. She's was a university student in a city several hours away. Her parents live in my city. She visits them once every month or so and always sets aside a night to hang with me and bang.
I text her every few days or so following good text game principles (no emoticons, short statements, taking longer to respond, etc.). Most of the times she texts back immediately, and her text is always the last one (I end the convos). If I don't hit her up for a few days longer than normal she'll send me a feeler text.
Whenever we are together, she is very affectionate, often initiating short makeouts throughout the date activity.
Having graduated over the summer, she is planning to move to my city in the fall for work, and we have discussed our mutual excitement at being able to see each other more frequently.
Issue:
About a month ago, I sent a few messages over what's app over the course of a week and received no response. The app said she hadn't checked my messages. She was travelling at the time, so that may explain it.
I sent her a hail mary text "Hey girl, still alive?" and got an instant response "Hello! Yes, alive and abroad for a few more days how goes?"
I sent her 2 more messages over the course of the following week which have not been responded to. She may still be abroad, so that may be the reason.
Question:
How should I proceed from here?
This fuck buddy relationship is most likely over, but I am certain I could turn it around if I could wrangle a date once she moves to my city. I would like to keep pushing until she confirms its over, but in a manner which isn't needy and that will drive her to that conclusion.
Note: This is not a case of oneitis. I have been dating and fucking multiple other girls in my city the entire time we've been fuck buddies. I don't rub it in her face, but she is aware of this. I don't believe she is fucking anyone else regularly, but I have not asked as I do not care.
Cliffs
I have a fuck buddy that lives in a different city
We bang when she is in town every month or so
I have run strong text game to date to keep this arrangement going
Fuck buddy is always very affectionate when we are together
Fuck buddy has lately grown non-responsive, but there may be mitigating circumstances
How should I proceed?