Quote: (09-02-2014 10:48 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:
I agree but there is one problem with your math. It's a lot harder to find a 9 and than a 7. In any given sample of women there will a significantly higher number of 7s than 9s. So let's assume that out of every 10 women there is one 9 and four 7s. To find 20 7s you will need to go through 50 women. To find 20 9s you will need to go through 200 women! And this is assuming an even distribution which in most cases it won't be. So just finding the 20 9s to approach will be exponentially more difficult than the 20 7s. Also I am not a "high value" male. So I am going to assume that that would put me at a disadvantage since you already stated that a 9 will be looking for a high value male.
Do you have game? Then you are a high value male.
Stop referring back to society's model of money and cars. Those are logical concerns, women were designed by evolution during times when these things did not exist. To survive they needed tribe leaders, but they were unintelligent animals and could not classify who was leader and who was not. So their emotions were designed to respond to traits or leadership, the emotions did all the work for them. The emotions of a 9 are not different from the emotions of a 7, she is a person with the same fears, weaknesses and emotions as everyone else.
A girl today is an outdated machine. As far as her emotions are concerned, she is still that unprotected savage looking for protection from a man who can provide it. Thankfully, game has allowed us to identify what traits need to be transmitted to set these emotions off. If you take these on, then you are a high-value male. Period.
Look at the sexual history of your average 9. Sure, of course she has fucked men for their money. If you had rich girls throwing themselves on you, you would do the same. BUT, they have all had romances, long term relationships and even fallen in love with dirt-poor alphas. Again, put yourself in her shoes. If you could use women for money, you would. But, if you find an incredibly sweet pretty girl who has no money, she is on a different track. Women are not angels, if men throw money at her she will happily take it. She has many needs and wants, whether that be cold cash, one-off sex or strong emotions. Who would you rather be, the beta she fakes love for in exchange for cash, or the alpha she falls in love with? A 9 will have a mixed sexual history of both.
I agree that it is harder to find a 9 than a 7, which is why it is so important to approach when you find one, or go somewhere with an abundance of them. It is adequate to say that getting a 9 is harder because it is harder to get the approaches in. It is not correct to say that they, as individuals, will be more inaccessible or more likely to turn you down.