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Is There a Biological Reason Men Shame Other Men for Taste in Women?
04-25-2014, 10:52 AM
I think it is very simple. It is trying to maintain social hierarchy as defined by the ability to get women by shaming guys who hack the system.
It's the saying "It's not enough that I succeed, others need to fail".
It's a very primitive (in the primal sense) power play. These guys might have some social credit from getting the most women in a smaller social group/niche or they might have much of their identity invested in their ability to get women. In any case, the fact that someone who would get less women than them in their preferred hunting grounds, can go somewhere else and get laid, challenges either their social standing or self esteem.
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04-27-2014, 06:32 PM
I think they aren't totally confident about their own choice so they aha me the other guys choice to bolster their confidence: "he's wrong, and therefore I'm right and special"
But some times the shaming is necessary. I don't think it's healthy for guys to be going out with fat girls I general because it bolsters fat acceptance.
That said, it seems like butterface girlfriends are ok, if the guy comes from low class background, it make sense. But if they guy comes from class or is trying to increase his game or class, it's seems off.
But hey, I shouldn't talk maybe because i did bring a one armed girl back to
My house and get tits out and she punched really hard with her other fist. Reminded me of a fiddler crab.
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04-28-2014, 01:58 AM
It's a natural male desire to compete. To feel validated about their own life decisions by subtly (or not so) taking down some other guy's point of view and/or actions.
To me, I just laugh it off. Try this: when you're with a guy state a quality dish you like to make. Chances are, he may retort by (maybe) replying to what you said, but I bet he'll mention his own favorite dish...which is a sly way of trying to one up you. It'd be better if the man in this scenario would not feel threatened and instead just shared his input on the dish at hand, like any other normal conversati
Now, take this idea and put it to when a guy says something like, "I just hooked up with this amazing new girl." He's happy and excited to share the story to his buddy...and the buddy will probably reply with his own recent victories or try to talk up his own game skills.
Just be aware of it, don't take it personally, smile quietly and don't make a fuss. Some men just need to boast. If they truly try to bring down your action or the girls you find appealling, then they're not someone of character worthy for a long-term friendship. Friends support each other, they don't try to one-up each other continually. That just gets exhausting.
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04-28-2014, 02:24 AM
Everyone likes to feel relevant to everything, and promoting your own preferences over someone else's makes you more relevant. It's just basic libido justification and one-up man-ship.
It doesn't affect you, so who cares?
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06-21-2014, 01:58 PM
It's not women in particular, it's anything. If you like indie music and I like heavy metal, we don't talk to each other, and we will argue indefinitely over which music is better. It's not the right way to be, it's just easy to mentally reconcile and behave, as though everything were either 1 way or the other with no space in between. The mark of a simple, unadventurous, typical person.
Not that I'm hating. That's just the truth as I understand it.
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06-22-2014, 10:15 AM
In the military, I was the one always getting ragged on about the women I picked up. I I remember one time, I picked up a Puerto Rican in her late 40s at the Fort Benning NCO club, she was more than twice my age at the time. And a bit chubby. But a nice face, hair and pleasant company in English or Spanish. The next morning, I met her son, who was my age and in the Navy. That was awkward. Anyways, the other guys were on about what a "beast" she was. Guess what? I got laid, they didn't.
A few times I was directly propositioned by women. Some were fat, some were old, coke bottle glasses, etc. I didn't say no if I had the time.
I always thought the guys who were holding out for a particular type or a very high standard (and never got it) and went on about who I just fucked just had low libido. I had crappy game, but I would approach and try, anyways.
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06-23-2014, 12:00 AM
I think there is a biological reason and perhaps I can explain what it is.
Real simple: For the same reason sluts shame each other. They want to increase the price of their pussy.
Likewise, if men are sleeping around and fucking anything, does that help other men? Or will the value of the ugly pussy increase because she is getting a young handsome man to dote on her? Dick is already pretty worthless, but when you see a ripped shredded man fucking a fat beast, other women see it and think to themselves - "If that fat ugly woman can get that level of a man, that means I can do at least as good too."
So when men slum it up, it makes it harder for guys to get the hotter pussy. Thus men will shame each other in order to keep the price of dick higher.
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06-24-2014, 07:12 AM
It's just a pissing contest and a ridiculous attempt for whoever is doing the shaming to increase their sexual market value in front of other men. I suspect those who do it are a) insecure or b) not getting any, because if you're getting laid on a regular basis you couldn't give a fuck about what other men's tastes in women are.