Quote: (01-16-2014 08:50 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:
Have any of you guys ever banged an older broad? Just curious.
Banged my ex-GF when we were about 55. She's now officially a cat lady, never gets laid and has little hope unless she visits Africa or Jamaica.
She was quite hot, maybe an "7" two decades before I met her, but for some reason, genetics or illness, her face really collapsed and now she's basically just an old woman. I'd say if you hadn't known her during that aging interval she'd be unrecognizable.
She went through a period of horrible irrational bitchiness at about 53 during which we broke up and she started estrogen supplementation. She was almost like a totally different person after the hormone treatment, instead of escalating every tiny disagreement, she'd let them drop. I do NOT believe it was because then I had "hand" etc, it was too deep and automatic.
Political correctness often prevents people from mentioning, accepting, or treating the reality of "menopausal bitch." I think it can be discussed under the rubric of "hot flashes" however. If you ever are stuck with a woman who's aged into that range, watch out for bitchiness at a whole new level, and be prepared to fight it medically.
This Brinkley preservation project level stuff is about as common as a moon shot, but a few wrinkles aren't that bad if she doesn't gain a lot of weight.
I have cute 18-30 YO Filipinas writing me every day, just hoping for a decent man to pay for a mutual baby. I had one explain to me in charming broken English I can't duplicate, "I want to serve the man, I don't want to be a source of stress..." Can you imagine that from a USA chick?
Me and the 55 year old keep in touch, she is still very in love with me, and was seriously happy I was willing to fuck her.
The feeling of making someone really happy is great, and you don't get it with a spoiled bitch who thinks she's God.
Sometimes she had to use some lube, but was still able to orgasm pretty easily, there were the obvious signs, I could tell it was real by the bright red chest flush she got.
Certainly her skin and body are much less appealing but it's hard to describe the good side-- she really KNOWS, that if you fuck her you LIKE her, because she's not really hot. Women really need that.
As you get older, and aren't so much of an object of desire yourself , I hope you learn to appreciate the feminine, nurturing side of yourself. It is one of the only good parts about getting older. In Jung's psychology this happens in the second half of life-- after about 35-- and ais called the development of the Anima and is considered a necessary step in full maturity as a human being.
Thinking of that, being a really hot girl is like being a rich guy, you never really know who your friends are and who just wants your assets, unless your friend is also rich and has no need of your stuff.
There's an interview with Jack Nicholson where he describes fucking women he's known for decades and are now old. He could hire 18 YO hookers one new one per hour if he wanted to. He still likes fucking people he's known a long time.
But to be honest, if I had to pick between fucking women under 23 or OVER 23 only for the rest of my life, I'd definitely pick under 23, because my ultimate need as a man is POWER, and access to fertile women is the ultimate form of power if you not a creative genius writing Beethoven Symphonies.
Also when you're young you think it's all an uphill trend, you've never known anything else. Despite the rah-rah stuff on PUA forums, your value does NOT continue to rise indefinitely. At 55 now, there are girls I've turned down ( e.g. a 7 i looks 20 year old medical student in Russia, stupidly I see now) that would have married me, now I can probably never get their equivalent.
Candy Store Syndrome. Every day at 5, the candy store closes. You may be 27, it's only 1 PM. That business day is your life passing.