[runsonmagic]

Under what circumstances have you said no to a girl who wanted to have sex with you?

Not hypothetically, "I'd never have sex with anything below a 9.9, because I'm such an internet player" but real world, actual personal experience times you've said no to a girl?

I was reflecting recently on a very attractive girl I ran into who was a) younger than me, but divorced, and b) a gender studies major who'd done some Jezebel level academic work. She had a fake way of flattering a man's ego, under which I could detect a lot of wounding. At the end of the night, I knew I could go for the bang but didn't. I'd had sex earlier that day, and she knew a people in my social circle. I saw the crazy lurking, and couldn't bring myself to close because of it. She was touching my leg as we pulled up to my house, but I just said "it was nice talking to you" and walked inside. She invited me out later and flaked on before I could even text her back.

[JayMillz]

[WestIndianArchie]

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[FrenchCanadian]

More often than not. Slutty drunk chicks are at the bottom of the arousal food chain.

Also, when a woman sees you turning down another girl, you gain respect, and admiration.
If I was with a lot of different girls, hitting on one... to then turn her away in front of her friends, could be perceived as a decent strategy.

[Kickb]

-I disqualified a chick with lupus and a somewhat crippled hand. She was giving me a handy on a trampoline and said she was getting cold. I said go into the bedroom and warm up the covers for us. I'll be in in a minute. She went into the bwdroom and I dipped out.

- I've also turned down an IED for my friend so he could get some play from her hot friend. Got her into my room and didn't give it to her. Good thing I had my bomb suit on; she was mad.




-I turned down another fat girl one fateful evening. A friend of mine had banged her and came out and told me to go in there after him. He wound up getting an std from her.

- I turned down a chance to participate in what some would consider a light rapeing. (She drank way too much and had hit her head a couple tikes while we carried her to a bed)

-A girl threw up at my apartment and I refused her kisses/groping after she felt better.

-Met a chick at the pool, she was very touchy feely. I was supposed to meet up with her later that night. I took a nap, sobered up,and no called no showed. She still sends me snapchats every now and then.

-There was a chick named Timber at a party who kept saying TIIIIMMMBEEEERRR! in that annoying valley girl voice. I did a disapeering act on her.

I think that's all.

[augen sehen]

There's only been one that I consider really saying "No" to, when I was young and accidentally seduced an older woman (she was 23 and I was like 17). We lay down and we were both naked (she had been giving me a massage) and I had to put my hand over her pussy to stop her from putting my dick inside.

Obviously I started it and escalated it, but at some point her urge took over and I had to stop it. I didn't bang because I was afraid of AIDS and getting her pregnant and I had no condoms

A few months later she turns up with a baby. Whew. Dodged that bullet.

In other cases I simply haven't initiated or taken it that far, so I've said "No" to lots of potential sex but without knowing how many of those would actually have become lays - nothing is certain. I remember one time my friend was going to get laid (we were all 19) but the girl was coming with her friend and my other friend took first dibs, and she turned out to be a total grenade - and he took her inside, and still didn't get laid. He said they talked all night.

[Aziz Nuts]

One of my former best friends (kind of a herb) spent over a year on hardcore compliment & cuddle game with this trashy single mother he knew from work. If you saw her in the dark you might give her a 7, but once the makeup and other trickery came off she's rocking like 4 territory. She'd fucked literally every straight male in the place (roughly 15 guys) except him, and she was making him work for it because she knew he was a solid provider who would put up with her ADD bastard spawn.

She'd occasionally ditch her rugrat and go to the bars with us. This bitch didn't have an off switch. It was either "dead sober" or "vomiting underneath the table", usually option B. At the end of the night I'd usually wind up having to physically haul her drunken carcass back to our place so she could black out on the couch. On three different occasions she was grabbing my dick on the walk home straight up asking to sleep in my bed. She was always so sloppy and disgusting that I couldn't even do it for the notch.

Eventually the herb and this drunk slut started dating. I had an "intervention" with him that he can't get serious with a single mother with a triple-digit notch count. Lost a friend instead. Good riddance. Just checked on Facebook, looks like they have a kid on the way now. lolzozlzolzzzz

[FrenchCanadian]

LOL Aziz!! Good intervention though.. I mean, what else you wanna do? #Betas

[blkgatsby]

I can think of a few that I did unknowingly back when I didn't have game…

Way long time ago like in high school some girl was trying to "see" how long I was. I declined.

Some girl I used to talk to all the time in Hugh school, she was into me, but I didn't get it at all on how to escalate. Long story short, she banged a bunch of dudes on prom night. This happened to multiple girls too over the years until I "got it"

Freshman year of college or so, some girl was into me, but I passed out before I could get her tit out and escalate. Friends laughed at me when they saw that my hand and mouth was over her chest. This is one of the reasons why I don't drink heavily anymore.

More recently, on Tinder, I matched with a very openly slutty girl. (I'm talking calling and playing with her dildo/vibrator while on the phone). Comes time to meet her, and she's much larger than the pics suggest. I got SIF'ed.

[Snotwheels]

There was this one girl who was my intellectual equal.

Smart, adventurous, could hold her drink, funny and creative.

We'd hit it off when we were 12 and had stayed in touch for like 10 years. She always had bfs and I always had gfs so we nev really went beyond friendship and mutual affection.

Then one day m ex dumped me.

I had no one to drink at that time(afternoon) so I called this chick. She came, we went out drank a LOT of beer(bec it built a good vibe and I didn't want to get completely sloshed after a rejection and end up drunk diallin ex).

About 5 hours we drank and walked the streets went in drank somemore walked out again etc. It was awesome conversation. Finally came home and started making out, this chick had small boobs and a flat ass. She was good lookin otherwise. I couldn't go past second base bec I have a thing for big boobs and ass(those are the only two criteria)....and I said no after that.
I was polite and put it gently but was drunk so maybe wasn't as smooth as I thot....

She cried and called her friends to pick her up and left.
Stole a fuckin tshirt of mine(which I found out later).

Have spoken only 3 times after that....fuck man feels bad. If she had big boobs and ass I'd probably be married to her nw.

[Ternarydemonite]

A girl I picked up at a party, started to make out on street, I was drunk. Got into my car and then a motel. At motel, I made the mistake of heavily making out and fingering her, instead of fucking her fast.

The alcohol effect blew off, and then I realized the little monster I was with. No way I could get it up. She wanted to raw dog. My wallet was more or less empty, so the nuclear option of calling room service for four jager bombs was out. Turned on tv, hardcore pornography didn't help. Took her home.

She cried on the way home. I couldn't care less about that, but I cared about spending the money on the motel. Got home, heavily jercked off to nasty porn.

Turns out a year later she got purposely pregnant, then dumped by her boyfriend. She ended up living in his aunt's house, penniless and with her little spawn at 24. It was destiny that I rejected her that night.

[MMM]

In my blue pill days, i fought off a buttah face with a smoking (and i mean on fire!) body because i was in another relationiship and "wanted to do the right thing." I had hit it before, so i wasn't a complete moron. The denial just drove her even crazier with desire and to this day i can tap that anytime i want.

[roberto]

Refused a straight up 8 who looked like Avril Lavigne. Had previously fingered her, she was the tightest ever and I regret it to this day. I can still see her crestfallen face, saying 'Well, I guess I won't need this then' and holding a johnny out.

Reason? She had just split up with her boyfriend, who I had been talking potential business with earlier in the week. Wasn't sure if they were through through or what, besides it just felt wrong. Also, she was kind of drunk, I was stone cold sober. Beta? Maybe. Live and learn.

[nek]

Breath gets me every time, even if it's subtle. One of the reasons I've never done dinner dates (I don't really do dates period, but it's especially true for dinner dates). There's been more than a few times where the scent of alcohol, food, or just plain bad breath has caused me to find the exit. No matter how slight the scent. Cigarette smoke is bad too, however if I've been smoking I seem to be able to overlook it.

[SeanBateman]

My friend's ex girlfriend who texts me constantly straight up asking me to bang her.

My friend's wife's friend who was 44 and had a nice body but that's just too old.

I'm mostly done with social circle banging unless it's something exceptional.

[Frontenac]

Turned down two that I remember.

1). Former FB that was one of several in the rotation in March last year. After a couple bangs, I started getting bored as I wanted some new tail. I also started picking out bad traits that she had (ie. busted face, not great body). Originally got with her because she was available, and she was sort of friends with my ex. Met up with her again in the summer and turned her down flat (Thank goodness for abundance).

2). Buddy's sister who I've known since I was about 12, and she was 7. Again, wouldn't have been a great notch, but I don't mess around with exs or sisters of my close friends.

I probably turned down a few pre-red pill when I had some mis-placed sense of loyalty to my LTR's.

[Yeti]

- I turned down sex with the girlfriend of a mate of mine. They'd just started dating... well hot, she came up and kissed me at the end of a night out, had been calling me handsome... Perhaps not that night, but I could have pursued, but didn't out of respect for my friend.

They got married a few years back and are still together. As far as I know, he doesn't know about what she did.

- I also turned down sex with a lezzer who was desperate one night as she hadn't had poon in ages, being trapped in the Japanese countryside with no suitable females around. She invited herself out with us one night and, being away from her town and with no trains running, slept at my place. I knew what was coming. I did my best though. I tucked her into her bed and went to my own room. Sure enough, I hear a knock - "do you want to spoon?" She jumps into my bed and I do an admirable job of deflecting her pheromones. I just couldn't do it with so desperate a chick, the after-sex guilt would have been awful.

About six months later I had my first threesome with her on a massively drunken night out in Tokyo.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

When I was in college, I had a g/f and even though I cheated, I turned down at least a handful of offers I shouldn't have.

My advice to college guys reading this: don't do what I did. Go for it. You might find flaws with these women now. But one day you'll no longer have easy access to women in this sought-after demographic and you'll look back and say, "I turned down 19-year-olds for petty bullshit reasons??? WTF?!?!"

My rationale for walking away from easy sex was usually because the girl smoked. I was particular about smells. But I also blew off someone* because (get this) she had a rep for being kinky and I was, er, kind of scared, actually. Another time, I blew off a foreign chick because I felt it was too easy and she didn't know better and was naive (or something like that).

I regret every example, remember the names and faces, and hope that if there's a heaven it will be comprised of me in a "Groundhog Day"-like time loop for that period of my life. Maybe then I can get it right.

* She later became something of a college legend since she got naked at every spring break contest. HUGE fuck-up on my part. It was never the same after I rejected her. Even years later she behaved like I insulted her which, I guess, I did. Be forewarned about a woman scorned as well as all the above.

Addendum: As an addition to the many "short guys" threads that pop up on here, I'll throw in that two of the examples I cited were with much taller women. I felt, at the time, awkward about the height difference. Yeah, that was well adjusted, wasn't it?

[Distant Light]

Many times, due to having so much choice now, a woman has to catch me at the right moment. Just a few...
- Her place was too far for my liking...would take about 3hrs just to get back home
- Having too much fun partying especially when it's a good DJ or I'm with friends (this used to happen 1-2x a week)
- To drunk to personally enjoy it (this one is the worst, chicks will BE PISSED)
- Chick switched up "social masks"
- Attractive BUT some personality trait "sexually" wasn't up to par (chicks who aren't affectionate enough or passionate)

Last girl, I had to say "no" to was someone who I felt was too drunk AND once the "moment" is over I don't feel the urge to rekindle the "moment" in the morning.

[CarCrashKid]

-Women I work with.
I can see a shit storm if I ever got with one over the others. The place I work has a ratio of 44 women to 14 men . A ratio of roughly 3:1.
Constantly telling myself to go for it and then re-telling myself not to go for it. I've seen enough destruction to know to keep work and pleasure separate.

-Baby Mommas
Girls younger than me with kids because they "forgot" to take their pill one day. Subsequently break up with their boyfriends who don't want a kid and try to hook other fish. Ones that look like they have some semblance of order and success in their lives i.e Myself.
These are worse because they know what men want and offer it to them super easy.
I was saying "how women want to be equal and yet are in outrage that they have to pay the same insurance as male drivers" now due to new legislation and followed that up with how men and women aren't the same. This Baby Momma agrees with me and I kind of look at her like "Shit, you are good but I'm better"

[ChocolateCockOfZeus]

I was in the VIP with a stripper. She was drunk as hell, said she'd been drinking all day. She probably weighted about 100lbs soaking wet, so if she was in fact drinking all day it's no surprise she was as fucked up as she was. Midway through some of the most uncoordinated, sloppy lap dances I'd ever received, she tells me to whip it out. I look up at the camera, and she drunkenly mumbles not to worry because the cameras are never on. What she didn't know was that I was just looking at the camera to make sure it was pointed directly at me, because I'm a thrill seeker who loves to whip it out (even when I'm not in doubt), and I thought it would be cool to be able to say "somewhere there's a video tape of me fucking a stripper in the VIP".



Anyway, she told me to whip it out, and I complied. Then she stood up over me...getting ready to pull her g-string down, she put her crotch about a quarter inch from my nose...HOT GARBAGE! That's what it smelled like. Hot garbage & week old road kill.



I went soft instantly, and I didn't even have to put my dick back in my pants; it just slid back in on it's own, as if it were making the decision for me "fuck no". I pushed her off of me and bailed. Didn't even pay her for the VIP.

[Aziz Nuts]

(01-13-2014 12:08 AM)nek Wrote:  

Breath gets me every time, even if it's subtle.

Dude! That just made me think of the story of Crystal Shitbreath. This is gonna be long but worth the read I promise.

Used to work at a gas station with my buddy in college. The two of us ran that place like we owned it and had customers come in just to hang out with us. The two of us are eskimo bros a couple of times over because we thought it was funny to fuck customers.

One of the chicks in my buddy's rotation was total butterface customer chick named Crystal. She got kicked in the face by a horse and somehow lost her sense of smell, so her breath was fucking nasty all the time, thus earning her the nickname "Crystal Shitbreath."

One night my buddy gets way too drunk and passed out at the bar so he got thrown out, leaving me to drive Crystal Shitbreath and a couple other chicks home. I'm dropping Crystal Shitbreath (btw we would call her this to her face) off and she says "Hey, have you seen my new apartment?"

Instantly I know she wants my nuts but as I mentioned this chick has a fugly face and shit breath. However my buddy had confirmed she had 9/10 titties and to get a look at 'em if possible. I decided that I'd fuck Crystal Shitbreath but only if I didn't have to kiss her. If it came down to kissing her, game over I'm outta here.

We sit down on her couch and she's telling me whatever dumb shit girls talk about. I quickly tire of her monologue so I reach down her shirt and pull her tits out of her bra. Sho'nuff, 9/10 perky farm titties! Fuck yeah. I lean over and start sucking on her tits, which she's pretty into.

Then she leans over and tries to kiss me.

I kind of fend her off and go back to the tits, which kind of pisses her off. I start trying to take off her pants and she says "Hey, I don't know if I'm ready for this. Let's make out for a while." She tries to kiss me again and I'm all "nah" and feel her tits some more.

She pulls up her shirt, looks me in the eye and says "Why won't you kiss me?" Without a word I stand up, tuck my boner into my waistband and walk out the door.

A few days later some of her friends roll into the gas station to buy cigarettes. One of them asked me "Did you fuck Crystal?" I confirmed I'd only felt her tits and got up and left. Both of them started laughing hysterically and said I'd mindfucked Crystal Shitbreath so bad that she'd been talking about me for like a week straight. Good times.

[Mabina]

(01-13-2014 01:51 PM)ChocolateCockOfZeus Wrote:  

I was in the VIP with a stripper. She was drunk as hell, said she'd been drinking all day. She probably weighted about 100lbs soaking wet, so if she was in fact drinking all day it's no surprise she was as fucked up as she was. Midway through some of the most uncoordinated, sloppy lap dances I'd ever received, she tells me to whip it out. I look up at the camera, and she drunkenly mumbles not to worry because the cameras are never on. What she didn't know was that I was just looking at the camera to make sure it was pointed directly at me, because I'm a thrill seeker who loves to whip it out (even when I'm not in doubt), and I thought it would be cool to be able to say "somewhere there's a video tape of me fucking a stripper in the VIP".



Anyway, she told me to whip it out, and I complied. Then she stood up over me...getting ready to pull her g-string down, she put her crotch about a quarter inch from my nose...HOT GARBAGE! That's what it smelled like. Hot garbage & week old road kill.



I went soft instantly, and I didn't even have to put my dick back in my pants; it just slid back in on it's own, as if it were making the decision for me "fuck no". I pushed her off of me and bailed. Didn't even pay her for the VIP.

I was messing with this girl for a while and went over her house in late December and that vag smelled like November.[/quote]

she was like, I want you inside of me I said... Negative

[Bilboswaggins]

I have not actually said no out loud, but my pen0r didn't feel like gettin' hard for one - she was like a 5 aka nothing special in any way, more importantly she couldn't even flatter me with her personality which really gives me that extra hardness. I hate it when a girl is either overly aggressive or she just puts up too much resistance. Maybe its due to my inexperience in this field, but even the slightest details can make or brake the attraction I feel for a girl.

[horn]

I avoid all the crazy ones now, no matter how hot. If I can tell she's going to be a problem within 15-30 mins, pass.