[Spikeball]

Says she is 2 and a half months behind on her period. I am shitting bricks naturally. I am suspicious and do not know how to handle this. What should I do?

[Bushido]

Just ignore the message.

[blkgatsby]

Did you hit it raw?
If she is pregnant, pay up for a paternity test. $200 or so, but if it isn't yours it's money well spent.
If it is yours, well...you're at her mercy.

[Spikeball]

I responded with concern for her and probing questions but I didn't freak out in the messages just so I can say I NEVER FUCKED THIS WOMAN if it comes to that.
I'm trying to keep a cool head but this is very upsetting. I'm very young and obviously not ready for this shit.

[Bushido]

No reason to talk to her or engage in any contact. It was a ONS.

[vinman]

All you can do is wait and see. A lot of broads run scams so you can pay half for an abortion. They get the cash and buy shoes because they were never pregnant in the first place.

[Tuthmosis]

(01-07-2014 12:39 AM)dreambig Wrote:  

Just ignore the message.

This was the correct move. Now, all you can do is send this link:

[commiejoe]

Well, does she know where you live? Does she know your first/last name? What does she know about you specifically?
Can you just get a new number?

[Spikeball]

We go to the same university see each other just walking from time to time. She knows my name.

[bacan]

I see you are in Mexico? How are the laws there if she proves that it's your bebe?

[Beyond Borders]

I would ignore the first one - she'll keep sending them if it's for real, but this might filter if she's trolling. Why hasn't she gotten a pregancy test yet is what I'm wondering...?

If she does keep contacting and turns out to be "seeded," time for a paternity test. If it's yours, take care of business.

There's consequences to fucking.

[kinjutsu]

A new number would be pointless now. If she takes you to court for child support...
A court order will compel the cell phone provider to give the name of the person who had this number at this certain date.

I use a prepaid phone for new girls that I'm unsure about keeping around. Best $50 I've spent.

Do not admit to knowing who she is at all.

Plausible deniability.
Say to her that you just got the phone 2 weeks ago so you have the wrong guy.
Never agree to meet her in person for any reason...If she really doesn't know what you look like then the likely hood of her being able to take you to court for child support.

A few years ago my friend went through a similar situation with a rando at a club. She slept around alot...
She pulled the same crap calling him up 3 months later saying she was later etc.
So he agreed to meet her and talk about what to do next. I went in his place pretending to be him, i've never met her or had sex with her so she instantly realized that she had the wrong guy and quickly excused herself to avoid further embarrassment.

[username]

(01-07-2014 01:32 AM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

A few years ago my friend went through a similar situation with a rando at a club. She slept around alot...
She pulled the same crap calling him up 3 months later saying she was later etc.
So he agreed to meet her and talk about what to do next. I went in his place pretending to be him, i've never met her or had sex with her so she instantly realized that she had the wrong guy and quickly excused herself to avoid further embarrassment.

You sir are amazing. Great job.

[Scott Free]

(01-07-2014 01:32 AM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

A few years ago my friend went through a similar situation with a rando at a club. She slept around alot...
She pulled the same crap calling him up 3 months later saying she was later etc.
So he agreed to meet her and talk about what to do next. I went in his place pretending to be him, i've never met her or had sex with her so she instantly realized that she had the wrong guy and quickly excused herself to avoid further embarrassment.

Genius.

[WesternCancer]

(01-07-2014 01:32 AM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

A few years ago my friend went through a similar situation with a rando at a club. She slept around alot...
She pulled the same crap calling him up 3 months later saying she was later etc.
So he agreed to meet her and talk about what to do next. I went in his place pretending to be him, i've never met her or had sex with her so she instantly realized that she had the wrong guy and quickly excused herself to avoid further embarrassment.

[Wayout]

Yeah, real genius. Possibly leaving some poor girl to take care of your child!

[Beyond Borders]

(01-07-2014 05:58 AM)Wayout Wrote:  

Yeah, real genius. Possibly leaving some poor girl to take care of your child!

I agree with this guy - it's a fucked up move to strand a bitch in some poor country with your kid (or any country).

Don't bone out on your own spawn. Not very manly, in my opinion.

Would it suck to knock one of these girls up?

Sure it would. But you can't tell me a bunch of international playboys who run around the world bragging about their raw-dogging exploits haven't considered it's a distinct possibility.

All this talk of redpill around here... Here's a pill for you to swallow. One of the main reasons genders roles are so fucked up in the United States is because of the single parent home. Because the fathers of our generation so often weren't around to show us how to be men. Or the ones that were just didn't have the time thanks to modern work demands. And now we're facing the consequences - a couple generations of people who have forgotten how to be men and women.

And now you just want to perpetuate the cycle abroad? Leave a kid to his own defenses with his broke ass, floozy mom (if that description even fits her)?

If it's a girl, there's a good chance she'll be some hypergamous slut, hell, maybe even a hooker. If it's a son, he'll probably end up emasculated, gameless, and weak without you around to show him the ropes. Or overcompensate by becoming some degenerate thug.

Enough bastards like this in these places and we only further accelerate the already-corrosive effect Americanization has on these places.

Not to mention you just ditched out your own kid and left him with a woman whose ability to provide has just gone down (local men in these places usually don't want soiled goods). Your own flesh and blood! Besides the ethical dilemna there, how about some self-respect?

Look, I feel you. Knocking up the wrong bitch is fraught with challenges, especially when you're young and there are international and intercultural boundaries between you and the mother. Especially when you have all these dreams and are still studying and aren't "ready."

Sure. But that's life... You chose to play the banging pussy abroad game. We make our choices and sometimes we don't like the way things turn out. There's an over-used cliche about lying in the bed you make out there somewhere that I'm sure I don't need to repeat word for word.

We want to be "alpha males?" Then we need to own up to our responsibilities even when they suck. Instead of being the soft, wannabe men our country has taught us to be.

Now, don't get me wrong, I understand the risk that this bitch is trolling or that the kid, if there even is one, isn't OP's. I'm not telling you to serve up your ballsack and wallet on a platter to her....not at all.

Use your head and your game to keep the situation in check. Fuck with her a bit first to see if she's just testing you for response, attention, or money. Get a paternity test if not. It's all part of an international sex life. And I'm no fan of abortions but you've got that option too and are probably in a better position to pay for it than her. Don't just cut off contact so that if it's yours you don't have to face the music.

I mean, what's your lifestyle plan now - infiltrate easy (or at least lower-maintenance) pussy abroad and then when shit gets real hide behind your passport and dodge back over the border...?

If you don't like your odds in these types of situations, maybe a good idea to start strapping and be more selective about the punanny you hit. In other words, if you skate through this, consider making different choices that don't cause you too sweat so much.

Personally, I have the same fears but I figure if shit happens I'll just have to step up to the plate. Raising a kid in one of these places isn't as expensive as it is in Merica, and you wouldn't be the first guy in the world to impregnate a woman he didn't want too. Sex is awesome but it leads to kids sometimes. Tough.

Sometimes the gap between what the manosphere bitches about and the standards guys within it have for themselves as men seriously boggles my mind...

[assman]

(01-07-2014 12:36 AM)Spikeball Wrote:  

Says she is 2 and a half months behind on her period. I am shitting bricks naturally. I am suspicious and do not know how to handle this. What should I do?

Just to be clear, you came inside her? Or did you pull out and spray elsewhere (implication being she was knocked up by precum - which is highly unlikely)?

If the former, WTF were you thinking cumming inside a college-aged chick?

Oh wait, I did the same thing a couple of months ago. Told me she was on the pill. I sure hope she was being honest.

[jimmypa]

Why hasn't abortion been mentioned yet? Make her go half on it and get this thing behind you.

[LEMONed IScream]

That's why you should wear condoms, sex leads to STD's like kids.

[Daddy]

The college girl knows you and she goes to the same university, so running away is not an option for you now.

I don't understand those who sympatize with her. She's doing ONS without the pill? Men don't get pregnant, women do. So they should be more careful about it. They should be scared.

If I were you, I'd convince her to get an abortion. Be prepared to be nice, listen to her feelings, act like a boyfriend. Make her feel loved. Talk about how the kid will suffer , bla bla bla. I know it's a real pain in the ass, but it will save you a lot of hassle and money down the road.

In the meantime, she has to be officially declared pregnant by an hospital. Do this ASAP, don't waste a single week. They will produce a document. On it will be written an approximate date when she got pregnant. Maybe you can find there she is lying if she got pregnant just one month ago.

[eradicator]

(01-07-2014 09:45 PM)jimmypa Wrote:  

Why hasn't abortion been mentioned yet? Make her go half on it and get this thing behind you.

Could be from any number of guys. She might not even be pregnant at all, just looking for money for an abortion from all of the guys that she had sex with.

[Bushido]

(01-07-2014 08:04 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

Personally, I have the same fears but I figure if shit happens I'll just have to step up to the plate. Raising a kid in one of these places isn't as expensive as it is in Merica, and you wouldn't be the first guy in the world to impregnate a woman he didn't want too. Sex is awesome but it leads to kids sometimes. Tough.

True, although just to be clear for the younger guys around here, this does NOT mean that you should marry the girl out of some sense of duty or "manning up". That would be an equally huge mistake. You can be supportive and be there as a father for the child. The frame needs to be set early on though . Don't take bullshit just to be able to see the child. It should seem to the mother as if you could walk any time, even if you won't. Many countries outside of the West have more father-friendly laws so you generally won't be forced to do much legally.

(01-07-2014 08:04 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

If you don't like your odds in these types of situations, maybe a good idea to start strapping and be more selective about the punanny you hit.

Weirdly enough, all of my scares until now have been while I was strapping up. I have never had any issues going rawdog. Probably to do with having less incentive to pull out when you wear a condom.

[Tuthmosis]

Another piece of advice: start practicing your solo dance moves.

[Merenguero]

Spikeball:
To maybe take your mind off this problem, is there any way that you could post a data sheet of the city in Mexico that you are presently in? Thanks in advance.