I just finished No More Mister Nice Guy. Before when I read it on pdf I could not finish it since it caused so much mental suffering. I was able to read it with a more detached point of view and it had some good points. Its suggest to meet up with similar minded guys, however I think the No more mister nice guys tend to be beta since they emphasize sharing emotions in a nonjudmental way with women. I really do need to the meeting with fellow members of the forum. I don't have much game so I would assume that would be a turn off for meeting people though.
One thing I have noticed is that when I talk to several people I get nervous since its seems like its too much information is being said. I tend to just chime in at moments, but don't seem to to have the energy to be the life of a party and dominate the conversation to a degree. Its much easier talking to a person one on one. I will have to put myself in more multi-people conversations to make me relax more in the situation.
One thing I have noticed is that when I talk to several people I get nervous since its seems like its too much information is being said. I tend to just chime in at moments, but don't seem to to have the energy to be the life of a party and dominate the conversation to a degree. Its much easier talking to a person one on one. I will have to put myself in more multi-people conversations to make me relax more in the situation.