0 Tips for Newbies
10-17-2013, 10:53 PM
Well...34...I've been aware of the red pill now for about a year and a half. It changed my life. I ended up here kind of by accident after I let some worthless ho stomp all over me because I had no clue about reality, but now I do thanks to the manosphere. I haven't collected a ton of notches in this past year, but I have successfully boned and had mini relationships with a bunch of cute girls - all thanks to my new found knowledge of red pill game. This is some basic advice some of you newbies might learn a thing or two from, you veterans will probably not find anything new here. Hope someone finds it useful.
1) Don't be needy. Always act like you have a harem of bitches who want to suck your dick even if you haven't seen a vagina in months. You're a sexually satisfied alpha male - at least that's your story until it is your story.
2) Take Charge. Women say they want to be your equal. They do not. They want you take them on a fun ride. You plan shit out. Make sure it doesn't suck. You don't have to spend mad money, but you are going to spend a little in the beginning.
3) Never apologize or accept shame for wanting sex. You have testicles. They make testosterone. Never apologize for that.
4) Be overconfident. Don't talk yourself up like a clown, but don't ever be self deprecating. Ever. You only share victories. Never failures. Maybe later on in a relationship with a girl you can show a little vulnerability - that time is not prior to the bang.
5) Never indulge girl's stupid ideas. Call them out on their shit. She says something dumb, comment on it wryly. They want you to do that - it isn't being rude. Women like a man who disagrees, and offers his own point of view. 90% of men will never ever do this with a girl- but you will and she will see you as different.
6) Never let a girl disrespect you in a glaring way. Showing up a little late to a date happens. Get over it. But if the bitch crosses the line in a serious way, call her out. Make her pay. If she flirts with another guy in front of you on a date, tease her about it. If she doesn't apologize, leave.
7) Always be teasing. Shes you're little sisters bratty friend. Treat her that way. Observe something she does that suggests insecurity and point it out in a playful way.
8) If you get a no, but shes got that slutty twinkle in her eye, say ok. Then try again in 60-90 seconds.
9) Master the art of being laid back, but engaged and alert in conversation.
10) Body language is important. Don't slump. Have proper posture. A man who is confident carries himself like hes ready to engage.
11) Make physical contact quickly when you meet a new girl, anywhere. Touch her forearm or her shoulder when talking to her, and then make sure you make eye contact. Not like within 5 seconds, but after about a minute or 2. Its a great way to gauge her natural interest level before you're mouthpiece has a chance to have any effect. If she stiffens up, shes not as good of a prospect as a girl who doesn't stiffen or recoil.
12) If a girl offers to pay, say thanks and let her. Discussion over. You're worth it. Guys get hung up on this - don't over think it.
13) Don't get cutesy with the texting. Logistics only till you bang her. Then more room for commenting about inside jokes or other stuff. But even keep that to a minimum.
14) Always have rubbers in your car, in your jacket, whatever.
15) Girls who want to get fucked are dressed like sluts. Prioritize them when you go out to the club/bar/scene.
16) Don't give fat bitches the time of day. Why? Because they won't leave if you do.
17) Girls love humor. If you suck at being funny, watch the delivery style of the masters of comedy. Chris Rock, Richard Pryor, George Carlin, Louis CK, Bill Hicks, or whoever you like - some of it will rub off on you. If you like Dane Cook, you don't deserve to live, let alone to get laid.
18) It's supposed to be fun. It isn't warfare. You're not undercover for the CIA. Showing up is half the battle. Chill out. Of course we all want to get laid and dating can be nervewracking, but the more you do it the less nervewracking it becomes..
19) Jealousy can only be overcome once you've banged a couple decent girls in a relatively short back to back time. You're gonna have pangs of paranoia and jealousy. It's natural. Keep on approaching. One day you won't feel jealous at all - one day - and only if you put in the work to get there.
20) 99% of the time women cannot be trusted to give good counsel to men on dating and sex. Maybe you'll have a red pill female friend. I do. You probably don't. Rely on the game gurus you like and red pill male friends who get laid. Mine are Heartiste/Roissy, Roosh, and Rolo. Shout out to alpha game plan too.
21) Befriend some natural alphas. You can internalize a lot of shit seeing how game congruent their lives are.
22) Move slowly with the whole relationship thing, if that's what you're looking for. She gets to be your girlfriend. You do not ask her to be. You do not buy her flowers or jewelry. You do not take her on a vacation. She earns this shit. She doesn't get the perks till you're sure you're the only cock shes riding and you feel some genuine appreciation.
23) They more you give her too quickly, the less she values you. This goes for both your money and your time.
24) Loser friends will emit loserish vibes that will infect you. Friends who win will emit winner vibes that will infect you. Which kind of vibe do you want?
25) Trim your cock and ball hair. It'll look bigger, and it'll look more delicious to the ho. Especially if you want your balls licked. Which you do - do you not?
26) Workout and eat right. Muslces are born in the gym, but raised in the kitchen. You're T levels will go up, your belly will go down. Feeling confident around the pool means access to half naked girls. Half naked girls are half way to being naked. See where I'm going with this?
27) Don't be a player hater. There's always some white knight faggot who wants to get in the way of your roll. Don't be that guy. And viciously excise motherfuckers like that from your social circle, or clown the fuck outta them if they get in your way during a social interaction. Be ruthless. Fuck em.
28) Remember that there once was a time when only the physically strong, socially dominant man got to breed. That time never left, we just invented agriculture, antibiotics, and TV so there's a need to be somewhat civilized in these static societies we live in today. But that core fact hasn't changed. Show me a physically strong, socially dominant man and I'll show you someone who knows what vagina tastes like.
29) Roissy is a fucking nut bag - but goddamn it if chateau heartiste isn't the best source of practical game knowledge on the interweb (no offense Roosh lol), if you can find it amidst the white nationalism and fixation on alternative right politics. He will pry your eyes open and expose you to the absolutely fucking debased sexual nature of these hoes.
30) Don't feel terribly bad about missing out on any one approach, but if you miss out on a good one, make sure you don't skip the next good one. One approach probably doesn't mean much in the great scheme of things - that's how you'll rationalize it and it's not completely wrong. But the fewer approaches you do the fewer chances you're gonna get laid. Get some discipline. If you find yourself in a pattern of passing on approaches, stop and ask yourself why. Is it because you've got a girl who's currently draining your balls and the girl in question is merely ok? That's understandable. But if you don't have any steady puss and you're passing frequently, you gotta sack up man. The squeaky cock gets the poon.
31) Dress well. Girls have told me on the first date that the reason they said yes to my approach was that I was dressed nicely. You don't have to suit up, or "peacock" - you just have to be clean, smell good, keep you hair looking good and stylish, and wear clothes that fit.
32) Keep the public kissing down to a bare minimum. It may feel alpha to grab your girl at a bar and start making out with her, but save it for a more private moment walking to the car or something like that. If you're gonna do it, do it only once in the public environment.
33) Fuck like a champ. Most guys who haven't gotten many opportunities to bang aren't gonna be great at sex. You only get better with practice, so accept that you probably aren't going to knock it out of the park and beat the pussy up on the first bang or two with a new girl. In fact, you may not get another chance because of it. You'll get over it - and if that happens you will go back out and find another girl to fuck until you find one who likes getting fucked by you.
34) Aloofness does not mean being quiet or boring. The quiet brooding guy gets as much puss as the sperg in mom's basement. Aloof means being emotionally reticent when women are expecting you to be the opposite. Shes just one of many play things in your world; not the center of it. She doesn't want to be anyway.
1) Don't be needy. Always act like you have a harem of bitches who want to suck your dick even if you haven't seen a vagina in months. You're a sexually satisfied alpha male - at least that's your story until it is your story.
2) Take Charge. Women say they want to be your equal. They do not. They want you take them on a fun ride. You plan shit out. Make sure it doesn't suck. You don't have to spend mad money, but you are going to spend a little in the beginning.
3) Never apologize or accept shame for wanting sex. You have testicles. They make testosterone. Never apologize for that.
4) Be overconfident. Don't talk yourself up like a clown, but don't ever be self deprecating. Ever. You only share victories. Never failures. Maybe later on in a relationship with a girl you can show a little vulnerability - that time is not prior to the bang.
5) Never indulge girl's stupid ideas. Call them out on their shit. She says something dumb, comment on it wryly. They want you to do that - it isn't being rude. Women like a man who disagrees, and offers his own point of view. 90% of men will never ever do this with a girl- but you will and she will see you as different.
6) Never let a girl disrespect you in a glaring way. Showing up a little late to a date happens. Get over it. But if the bitch crosses the line in a serious way, call her out. Make her pay. If she flirts with another guy in front of you on a date, tease her about it. If she doesn't apologize, leave.
7) Always be teasing. Shes you're little sisters bratty friend. Treat her that way. Observe something she does that suggests insecurity and point it out in a playful way.
8) If you get a no, but shes got that slutty twinkle in her eye, say ok. Then try again in 60-90 seconds.
9) Master the art of being laid back, but engaged and alert in conversation.
10) Body language is important. Don't slump. Have proper posture. A man who is confident carries himself like hes ready to engage.
11) Make physical contact quickly when you meet a new girl, anywhere. Touch her forearm or her shoulder when talking to her, and then make sure you make eye contact. Not like within 5 seconds, but after about a minute or 2. Its a great way to gauge her natural interest level before you're mouthpiece has a chance to have any effect. If she stiffens up, shes not as good of a prospect as a girl who doesn't stiffen or recoil.
12) If a girl offers to pay, say thanks and let her. Discussion over. You're worth it. Guys get hung up on this - don't over think it.
13) Don't get cutesy with the texting. Logistics only till you bang her. Then more room for commenting about inside jokes or other stuff. But even keep that to a minimum.
14) Always have rubbers in your car, in your jacket, whatever.
15) Girls who want to get fucked are dressed like sluts. Prioritize them when you go out to the club/bar/scene.
16) Don't give fat bitches the time of day. Why? Because they won't leave if you do.
17) Girls love humor. If you suck at being funny, watch the delivery style of the masters of comedy. Chris Rock, Richard Pryor, George Carlin, Louis CK, Bill Hicks, or whoever you like - some of it will rub off on you. If you like Dane Cook, you don't deserve to live, let alone to get laid.
18) It's supposed to be fun. It isn't warfare. You're not undercover for the CIA. Showing up is half the battle. Chill out. Of course we all want to get laid and dating can be nervewracking, but the more you do it the less nervewracking it becomes..
19) Jealousy can only be overcome once you've banged a couple decent girls in a relatively short back to back time. You're gonna have pangs of paranoia and jealousy. It's natural. Keep on approaching. One day you won't feel jealous at all - one day - and only if you put in the work to get there.
20) 99% of the time women cannot be trusted to give good counsel to men on dating and sex. Maybe you'll have a red pill female friend. I do. You probably don't. Rely on the game gurus you like and red pill male friends who get laid. Mine are Heartiste/Roissy, Roosh, and Rolo. Shout out to alpha game plan too.
21) Befriend some natural alphas. You can internalize a lot of shit seeing how game congruent their lives are.
22) Move slowly with the whole relationship thing, if that's what you're looking for. She gets to be your girlfriend. You do not ask her to be. You do not buy her flowers or jewelry. You do not take her on a vacation. She earns this shit. She doesn't get the perks till you're sure you're the only cock shes riding and you feel some genuine appreciation.
23) They more you give her too quickly, the less she values you. This goes for both your money and your time.
24) Loser friends will emit loserish vibes that will infect you. Friends who win will emit winner vibes that will infect you. Which kind of vibe do you want?
25) Trim your cock and ball hair. It'll look bigger, and it'll look more delicious to the ho. Especially if you want your balls licked. Which you do - do you not?
26) Workout and eat right. Muslces are born in the gym, but raised in the kitchen. You're T levels will go up, your belly will go down. Feeling confident around the pool means access to half naked girls. Half naked girls are half way to being naked. See where I'm going with this?
27) Don't be a player hater. There's always some white knight faggot who wants to get in the way of your roll. Don't be that guy. And viciously excise motherfuckers like that from your social circle, or clown the fuck outta them if they get in your way during a social interaction. Be ruthless. Fuck em.
28) Remember that there once was a time when only the physically strong, socially dominant man got to breed. That time never left, we just invented agriculture, antibiotics, and TV so there's a need to be somewhat civilized in these static societies we live in today. But that core fact hasn't changed. Show me a physically strong, socially dominant man and I'll show you someone who knows what vagina tastes like.
29) Roissy is a fucking nut bag - but goddamn it if chateau heartiste isn't the best source of practical game knowledge on the interweb (no offense Roosh lol), if you can find it amidst the white nationalism and fixation on alternative right politics. He will pry your eyes open and expose you to the absolutely fucking debased sexual nature of these hoes.
30) Don't feel terribly bad about missing out on any one approach, but if you miss out on a good one, make sure you don't skip the next good one. One approach probably doesn't mean much in the great scheme of things - that's how you'll rationalize it and it's not completely wrong. But the fewer approaches you do the fewer chances you're gonna get laid. Get some discipline. If you find yourself in a pattern of passing on approaches, stop and ask yourself why. Is it because you've got a girl who's currently draining your balls and the girl in question is merely ok? That's understandable. But if you don't have any steady puss and you're passing frequently, you gotta sack up man. The squeaky cock gets the poon.
31) Dress well. Girls have told me on the first date that the reason they said yes to my approach was that I was dressed nicely. You don't have to suit up, or "peacock" - you just have to be clean, smell good, keep you hair looking good and stylish, and wear clothes that fit.
32) Keep the public kissing down to a bare minimum. It may feel alpha to grab your girl at a bar and start making out with her, but save it for a more private moment walking to the car or something like that. If you're gonna do it, do it only once in the public environment.
33) Fuck like a champ. Most guys who haven't gotten many opportunities to bang aren't gonna be great at sex. You only get better with practice, so accept that you probably aren't going to knock it out of the park and beat the pussy up on the first bang or two with a new girl. In fact, you may not get another chance because of it. You'll get over it - and if that happens you will go back out and find another girl to fuck until you find one who likes getting fucked by you.
34) Aloofness does not mean being quiet or boring. The quiet brooding guy gets as much puss as the sperg in mom's basement. Aloof means being emotionally reticent when women are expecting you to be the opposite. Shes just one of many play things in your world; not the center of it. She doesn't want to be anyway.
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and thus the reason why I try to escape at least a few times per year overseas.
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