[Valhalla]

mostly, I'm slightly getting bored of just coming over and fucking.

[chexmix]

make them laugh and smile while you're cooling off during that intermission sex period.

[Parlay44]

(10-05-2013 08:26 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  

mostly, I'm slightly getting bored of just coming over and fucking.

Life is hard huh?

I try to see how much I can get away with. See what you can get them to do for you. Ask them to cook for you, do your laundry. Shit like that.

You gotta keep them busy. Give them little missions to complete. And cock is their reward.

[el mechanico]

(10-05-2013 08:26 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  

mostly, I'm slightly getting bored of just coming over and fucking.

Have you considered stalking them and going through their phones and computers?

[GoodTimer]

(10-05-2013 09:20 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(10-05-2013 08:26 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  

mostly, I'm slightly getting bored of just coming over and fucking.

Have you considered stalking them and going through their phones and computers?

This is a deep question, addressed in other posts. However, yy experience is: if you go through emails and texts, you will confirm red pill beliefs.

[Hades]

Try getting free concert tickets, rides to places, nudie pictures, or even candy bars.

[ralphi]

Yeah, you need to make them feel like your the one doing them a favor.

That is accomplished by giving them tasks that make your life easier. Also, it's probably better if they don't know about each other and also assume your not the only dude in their life. They probably have a bunch of guys on their rotation as well. Just keep up the quid pro quo and you should be good for a while.

Slowly they will start to disappear without explanation as they get long term boyfriends so you need to keep adding to the Queue. That's why you can't get lazy with game.

[AneroidOcean]

I make a connection with them. I try to give them things that they've never experienced before. I am thoughtful in small ways, mostly I let them know they can rely on me to be me. I am solid. If they ever ran into a shitty situation I would help them sort it out.

This does not mean I will bend over backwards for them, but it maintains the qualities they are attracted to long term versus what they might be attracted to short term (that I obviously also gave them or they would've never dated me in the first place). I also give them tasks as others have said. I might hang out with them and do a "date-type" activity but I give them jobs to do and find ways they can help me before a date or in the middle of it if we hang out at my house.

An example would be I might introduce them to a unique spot to eat but they come by to my place beforehand and then we drive in their car (so I don't have to lose my parking spot) and they usually wait for me to do a couple things around the house or finish getting ready. I'm not a prima donna but I think it's a VERY good dynamic to enforce that you're slightly more important or that they need to wait for you to get ready, not the other way around.

I can be very warm and caring, but I can also be very direct and boss them around. I try to maintain a similar frame with female friends. The ones that treat me well are treated in kind. My current friends with benefits needed some cash the other week and I peeled off a $100 to loan her. She got it back to me ASAP and was profusely thankful. She knows I don't have to do that and she knows not to expect it from me.

[CJ]

If you're getting bored with a girl, it is time to replace her in your rotation.

[Bacchus]

(10-08-2013 07:54 PM)CJ Wrote:  

If you're getting bored with a girl, it is time to replace her in your rotation.

Yeah, either that or push her to do more degrading activities.

[reaper23]

(10-08-2013 11:07 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  

(10-08-2013 07:54 PM)CJ Wrote:  

If you're getting bored with a girl, it is time to replace her in your rotation.

Yeah, either that or push her to do more degrading activities.

always push until they break and leave on their own

[Spider]

(10-11-2013 01:54 PM)reaper23 Wrote:  

(10-08-2013 11:07 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  

(10-08-2013 07:54 PM)CJ Wrote:  

If you're getting bored with a girl, it is time to replace her in your rotation.

Yeah, either that or push her to do more degrading activities.

always push until they break and leave on their own

Why not leave on your own terms?

[reaper23]

(10-11-2013 01:58 PM)Spider Wrote:  

(10-11-2013 01:54 PM)reaper23 Wrote:  

(10-08-2013 11:07 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  

(10-08-2013 07:54 PM)CJ Wrote:  

If you're getting bored with a girl, it is time to replace her in your rotation.

Yeah, either that or push her to do more degrading activities.

always push until they break and leave on their own

Why not leave on your own terms?

that is your own terms

if you force them into leaving, same difference

i like to push and push and push until they cant take it

[Valhalla]

So reaper, what do you personally do to keep a girl in your rotation?

I derailed my own thread with my "I'm getting bored" hahaha.

[reaper23]

To keep? Gotta see her at least every three weeks. And when you do fuck her so good she can't imagine ever settling for some on else.

I've got chicks that I see only on Wednesdays at 800am for pre work bangs. No dates. No phone calls. Some sexy texts here and there and then blammo fuck her good

[CJ_W]

only bang her once a week.

[Too_Gallus]

I'm with this. You need to give them duties, and things to do. They should be carrying out all the functions of a girlfriend. This wont only keep them and you entertained but it will make her feel valued and she'll probably keep coming back for more.