Reviving this epic thread! ))
Anyway, I thought since the girls I'm talking about in this post are women I actually met when out with Slubu and his buddy I should put it in here.
So I met the 21-year old sexy brunette "Ferris Buehler girlfriend" lookalike I mentioned in the thread awhile back finally tonight. To recap, I met her with Slubu's buddy the 2nd to last night they were here, and the night before I went to Greece. Got some good guidance from his buddy and he was like "ah, I'm only here one more day, u take her, she's yours, go for it pal etc." If that isn't the mark of a really solid wingman I'm not sure what is.
We make plans to meet up at Strelka on the Island around 8 so that we can hang and (finally) have our first date (it's literally been 3-4 weeks since we met, but we've kept in touch, perseverance!!!).
I arrive late, she's at a table, looking hot in a sort of 21-year old petite, brunette, sexy slender body kinda way. She's an 8.5+ in America, probably a 7.5 here. That's good bc I feel like that level is pretty damn sexy, but just enough below the radar screen in Russia for them not to have attitudes and think they are supermodels/need to be dating millionaires etc. It's a fine line and she's seriously pushing it, but make no mistake this is a beautiful young woman in a lot of ways.
Anyway, since I've been tied up lately with one of my regular girls plus this other sexy 23-year old brunette I banged all last night (who I met at Barbados with Slubu btw - he had a nice rapport with her blonde friend but ran out of time) my 'I don't give a sh*t you've gotta prove something to me" frame is pretty good at this point. But by the same token upon arrival I can't help but realize this girl demands respect - and ta boot she's less than half my age (!!). But no way will I let than bother or distract me.
I have a couple of beers to start and some apps, she's not eating (as expected, she doesn't eat after 7 and is on a strict diet - eat sh*t fat, arrogant American girls!!!). Her English is abysmal, but its kinda fun to help her out, use the translator, and for each of us to help one another out in our respective languages.
So the date goes pretty perfunctorily, but I do notice a decent rapport developing after awhile. She is at first is a bit uncomfortable with her language inabilities, but then I try to soothe them and also not to laugh/tease too much. Eventually she starts to play with her hair a bit from time to time, and gives me some nice IOIs. Then she starts to loosen up a bit and have a fun time, even despite the fact that it's pretty hard to focus on speaking another language that you don't know all that well for hours.
I'm also playing it pretty beta mostly too (remember we're in Russia, and she get's Alpha dudes trying to bang her in 30 minutes every day I gather). She's a student and lives in a dormitory, and needs to be home by midnight (or she's literally shut out til 6am!!). So around 10pm I start planning my exit strategy. I'm also pretty zonked from my late night romp with the sexy 23-year old I mentioned earlier and am thankfully ready for an early exit.
So we keep talking, inevitably she starts speaking more than me and I just go with it, letting her make mistakes so she can just speak. And she gets better, and I try to help out when I can. It always amazes me how shy/uncomfortable these girls can be about speaking English. Believe me, its a huge issue for them, and if you don't let them try and cut them some slack (and not tease them too much) you can seriously scare the cat!
Anyway, we are having a nice time. Just two people somewhat interested in one another having fun. (Admittedly, this story isn't going to turn into 'she blew me in the bathroom' by any means
but it does have somewhat of a happy ending (so to speak!) so bear with me, sorry if it's a bit slow).
Around 10:00 she informs me that she needs to go soon as she need to be back at the dorm before closing time at midnight.
I ponder that for a minute (it was more a matter of fact sort of statement, not an indication that she isn't having a good time) then suggest we leave immediately as I'm also tired and have a big day of work tomorrow (partially true) but that we should take a nice walk to the subway. She agrees.
I've done very minimal kino at this point, indeed, practically nothing as I don't feel that she's open to it much. But I have done a couple slight hang holds when we were using her iPhone for translation. And so far so good, we've got a decent rapport, but it could go either way. I'm also a bit out of practice as I've been caught up in my other girls and haven't approached much recently. But, funnily enough (and I forgot to mention) when we first met when I showed up she seemed like she wanted to kiss me on the mouth (which was kinda awkward) but I took as a good sign (first date, WTF?).
As we leave, I'm really thinking it could go either way. I'm clearly not going to go home with her and shag her in her dorm room with her roommates next door, but am intent on getting a good kiss close to set up the next meeting and create a little intrigue. I've got all the time in the world and can wait her out forever if I have to. She's a quality young woman for sure.
So we have a nice little walk to the metro, some small chit chat, but nothing special. And I just don't feel like she's all that open to me grabbing her arm or trying to act too affectionate, so I play it cool and carry her umbrella for her, sorta keeping my distance. It's about a 15 minute walk to the metro. I'd say a neutral sort of vibe, but I'm definitely seeming confident and in no rush to try to get close to her.
We finally get to the metro entrance, I tell her 'well, had fun, I'm going to grab a taxi this is your stop.' She says yes and looks at me. I go in for the kiss and she doesn't hesitate - I knew it!
We have a couple really nice long kisses - that would have been enough for me a couple years ago but I know better now. So I go in again and again and she's fully receptive. Then we start sticking our tongues down each others throat and she's really into it. Ok u get the idea, but I do a little 'push-pull' and let her seek me out too, and it's pretty nice. Good ending to the night.
Anyway, I feel like a million bucks after that!! She's a beautiful young 21-year old and I'm working it like I'm in my 20s. Can't complain!!!
And for the record, that's 2 seriously solid leads/bangs I've gotten from staying out late with Slubu and his buddy when they were in town. So for all the haters out there it can be done and 'last man standing' is a very valid way to go if you can do it. Nuff said!!
Stay tuned the story will hopefully have a happy ending!!