[jcrew247]

(03-13-2019 05:25 AM)Tall_asian_guy Wrote:  

(03-12-2019 08:00 PM)jcrew247 Wrote:  

(03-09-2019 04:47 PM)Tall_asian_guy Wrote:  

I am an Asian guy in Sweden, I grew up here and I speak the language. Asian guys don't get any love here, period. I've tried endless times to get a (8+/10) Swedish girl and it's pointless. Outside of Sweden I'm hugely popular and have no problems to get a pretty girl. Other European girls are more open to Asians.

Have you ever been to Goteburg, Malmo, Coepenhagen,
or Oslo? Have the girls there been cold and reject you the same as in Stockholm?

I lived in Malmö and Gothenburg and visited Copenhagen a lot. Oslo never been but they are more friendly and receptive compared to the Swedish girls based of the girls I'm met from there.
The funny thing is, I've never been rejected in my life. They are just not replying on Tinder and them not showing direct interest in me in school and work. I grew here so I know what the average Swedish girls like. It's rarely Asian guys when they they describe their type.

Thanks I just heard that Goteburg and Malmo were more diverse,
so it would probably be easier to talk to liberal white girls.
I don't think you should just rely on Tinder to meet the hottest girls.
They have the pick of the litter and aren't going to choose a "fob-looking guy" from a dating app.

I think when white girls look at foreign-looking guys they don't think they speak English/Swedish no matter how good their photos.
Even for myself, when I look at Asian women on Tinder, I wonder if they are fobs or if they can speak English fluently. Its really annoying
trying to have a conversation with someone who speaks slow broken English and a bit of a waste of my time, unless I just want the quick bang and leave. I assume white girls in America and Sweden have the same apprehensions when they assume an Asian guy is fob who doesn't know how to communicate and have a conversation.

Basically, what I am saying is that Tinder is not going help you get the top 10% of girls. You have to approach them in real life at the mall, at school, wherever and show them that you are an alpha male. From what I hear no one does cold approaches in Sweden, so there will be less competition from white guys and the girls will give you more of a chance to impress them rather than rejecting you outright because they are sick of the attention.

I aslo wonder if white girls like Asian men who dye their hair color, whether it be brown, blonde, red, etc. Most women in sweden dye their hair, so it would seem it would be a good to separate the styling k-pop hair style from the dorky fob hairstyle. Do you think Swedish girls like the blonde-asian K-pop look?

[JWLZG]

(03-13-2019 02:53 AM)worldtraveler3 Wrote:  

Another Asian guy in Sweden comment, so why is Sweden tough for Asian guys?

I really wouldn't take such a contention as Gospel; someone who has constantly betrayed such rabid persecution bias throughout all his posts can hardly speak on authority on how men descending from an entire continent can be perceived and treated by an entire country.

Not to mention that he paints this idealisation of Sweden as being some sort of carbon copy of America, exhibiting traits like for like:

(03-13-2019 05:30 AM)Tall_asian_guy Wrote:  

Because of Sweden is heavily americanized. Swedish girls also have a thing for the mediterranean look.

(03-13-2019 12:23 PM)jcrew247 Wrote:  

They have the pick of the litter and aren't going to choose a "fob-looking guy" from a dating app.

I think when white girls look at foreign-looking guys they don't think they speak English/Swedish no matter how good their photos.
Even for myself, when I look at Asian women on Tinder, I wonder if they are fobs or if they can speak English fluently. Its really annoying
trying to have a conversation with someone who speaks slow broken English and a bit of a waste of my time, unless I just want the quick bang and leave. I assume white girls in America and Sweden have the same apprehensions when they assume an Asian guy is fob who doesn't know how to communicate and have a conversation.

Why are you feeding the troll? This makes no sense whatsoever. Asian men aren't all "fobs" who are a world apart from western society. Who do you think we are, the Amish?!?

I've lived in the West for two-thirds of my life and never have had people mistake me for being a "fob" — whatever characterisation that is supposed to mean to you — and thus treated like some alien other. I look, act, and behave exactly like a Western person would, who just happens to have a different skin colour, and I'm not alone in describing myself as such.

(03-13-2019 12:23 PM)jcrew247 Wrote:  

I assume white girls in America and Sweden

"White girls in America and Sweden" aren't one and the same.

(03-13-2019 12:23 PM)jcrew247 Wrote:  

I assume white girls in America and Sweden have the same apprehensions when they assume an Asian guy is fob who doesn't know how to communicate and have a conversation.

And you're speaking from your experience as an American-cum-Swedish girl??

Because they're all that shallow as to automatically and irretrievably categorise any man with yellow skin as an asocial, uncommunicative fob who can't speak English and treat him accordingly. [/sarcasm]

Have you ever met a "white girl from America and Sweden"? I mean once you've met one, you've met them all, they're all peas in a pod eh

[Brosemite]

Is it me or has this forum gone full on ARTs inclusive of new & old members recently?

[Tall_asian_guy]

What do you mean.

[nicolahcm]

Honestly I think that some people have their own mind damaged from some contents talking of girls rather than helping them