I don't know, the only times I have gotten ONS is when I have had to make it happen. I felt I had to carry the whole interaction all the way to the bed and then continue. It never felt like it just happened and it was tiring. But I also understand that I do not represent most guys in this regard. I have literally turned down hot girls simply because it was late in the night and I was just tired.
Which do you prefer: the hunt or the kill, and why?
I think that as I get older, the hunt is much more thrilling whereas before I just wanted a hot wet hole to stick it into. I think it used to be 80/20 kill/hunt in my 20's but the ratio is probably the inverse now I'm in my 30's. and yes, I'm a big fan of the Pareto Principle.
Quote: (03-11-2013 05:04 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:
I don't know, the only times I have gotten ONS is when I have had to make it happen. I felt I had to carry the whole interaction all the way to the bed and then continue. It never felt like it just happened and it was tiring. But I also understand that I do not represent most guys in this regard. I have literally turned down hot girls simply because it was late in the night and I was just tired.
That's often how I feel when banging girls from dates, like I have to sit there for hours listening to their stories and making every step happen. Maybe it's different for everyone.
I would say its about 50/50. But that changes sometimes. Like when I think i'm getting an OK girl, only to learn she has the perfect ass or rack. It bumps it up to 80% kill/ 20% chase. Or on the other hand when you think a girl will have a nice body and be good in bed, but she is terrible... then it will do the opposite. So a large part really has to do with the girl and the circumstances, but overall I'm right at 50/50.
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I know this is a game forum, and guys here are serious about the craft, but I got to break with popular opinion and say the kill is all I really care about. Sure the hunt and when your game is really on point and you are walking on water, that can be a real rush, and a great feeling in and of it's self. But, I am a lazy as motherfucker, while I'd say I have decent game, and am slightly above average in terms of looks, I often endure long dry spells, deal with tons of rejection, and got to put in serious work to get laid. Do I enjoy these thing? Fuck no.
I'd much rather be like my friend who is 6 ft 5 in., naturally muscular, and classically handsome, all he has to do is go to the bar, get drunk, and some girl will approach him, and he'll litterally stumble into some pussy. You could argue that the less attractive man, is more accomplished and savors the bang more, when he runs good game, but I say fuck that. All we are trying to do is get pussy, getting pussy feels amazing, and is gratifying way more, than being some smooth Don Juan who charms a girl with all the right lines.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I suspect a lot of guys who say they prefer the chase are guys who most girls want to fuck anyways. When you struggle and have long dry spells, the game kind of loses it's shine. Maybe I sound like a downtrodden, cynical bastard, but I have seen and experienced both sides of the coin. I got to say those nights when you are "walking on water" and say and do everything right, the bangs are that much more gratifying. But if I had the choice of being an average looking guy with good game who has to hustle and grind chasing pussy, or a tall good looking guy who girls gravitate towards and throw themselves at, I'd take the easier option, no questions asked.
I'll reiterate that I am a lazy motherfucker, but it's not that I shy away from putting in work on things that are worthy and require hard work for success, like putting in work at the gym, or making money... But, if I had the choice of being a natural genetic freak with a great body, or a guy with shit genetics who has to grind it out for 5 years at the gym, guess which one I would pick. If I can get something easy, without the work and hassle, that will always be the better option to me.
I'd much rather be like my friend who is 6 ft 5 in., naturally muscular, and classically handsome, all he has to do is go to the bar, get drunk, and some girl will approach him, and he'll litterally stumble into some pussy. You could argue that the less attractive man, is more accomplished and savors the bang more, when he runs good game, but I say fuck that. All we are trying to do is get pussy, getting pussy feels amazing, and is gratifying way more, than being some smooth Don Juan who charms a girl with all the right lines.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I suspect a lot of guys who say they prefer the chase are guys who most girls want to fuck anyways. When you struggle and have long dry spells, the game kind of loses it's shine. Maybe I sound like a downtrodden, cynical bastard, but I have seen and experienced both sides of the coin. I got to say those nights when you are "walking on water" and say and do everything right, the bangs are that much more gratifying. But if I had the choice of being an average looking guy with good game who has to hustle and grind chasing pussy, or a tall good looking guy who girls gravitate towards and throw themselves at, I'd take the easier option, no questions asked.
I'll reiterate that I am a lazy motherfucker, but it's not that I shy away from putting in work on things that are worthy and require hard work for success, like putting in work at the gym, or making money... But, if I had the choice of being a natural genetic freak with a great body, or a guy with shit genetics who has to grind it out for 5 years at the gym, guess which one I would pick. If I can get something easy, without the work and hassle, that will always be the better option to me.
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Quote: (03-11-2013 05:08 PM)booshala Wrote:
I think that as I get older, the hunt is much more thrilling whereas before I just wanted a hot wet hole to stick it into. I think it used to be 80/20 kill/hunt in my 20's but the ratio is probably the inverse now I'm in my 30's. and yes, I'm a big fan of the Pareto Principle.
Yep, I think age plays a big part on whether you are more into the hunt or the kill. A guy in his 20s is looking to prove himself. A guy in his 30s is looking for ease and enjoyment.
The hunt -- while I'm hunting. The kill -- while I'm..
I need both. I can have both. I'll take both. Why not?
I enjoy them both, separately; and as an extension of each other.
I need both. I can have both. I'll take both. Why not?
I enjoy them both, separately; and as an extension of each other.
Quote: (03-11-2013 08:41 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:
I know this is a game forum, and guys here are serious about the craft, but I got to break with popular opinion and say the kill is all I really care about. Sure the hunt and when your game is really on point and you are walking on water, that can be a real rush, and a great feeling in and of it's self. But, I am a lazy as motherfucker, while I'd say I have decent game, and am slightly above average in terms of looks, I often endure long dry spells, deal with tons of rejection, and got to put in serious work to get laid. Do I enjoy these thing? Fuck no.
I'd much rather be like my friend who is 6 ft 5 in., naturally muscular, and classically handsome, all he has to do is go to the bar, get drunk, and some girl will approach him, and he'll litterally stumble into some pussy. You could argue that the less attractive man, is more accomplished and savors the bang more, when he runs good game, but I say fuck that. All we are trying to do is get pussy, getting pussy feels amazing, and is gratifying way more, than being some smooth Don Juan who charms a girl with all the right lines.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I suspect a lot of guys who say they prefer the chase are guys who most girls want to fuck anyways. When you struggle and have long dry spells, the game kind of loses it's shine. Maybe I sound like a downtrodden, cynical bastard, but I have seen and experienced both sides of the coin. I got to say those nights when you are "walking on water" and say and do everything right, the bangs are that much more gratifying. But if I had the choice of being an average looking guy with good game who has to hustle and grind chasing pussy, or a tall good looking guy who girls gravitate towards and throw themselves at, I'd take the easier option, no questions asked.
I'll reiterate that I am a lazy motherfucker, but it's not that I shy away from putting in work on things that are worthy and require hard work for success, like putting in work at the gym, or making money... But, if I had the choice of being a natural genetic freak with a great body, or a guy with shit genetics who has to grind it out for 5 years at the gym, guess which one I would pick. If I can get something easy, without the work and hassle, that will always be the better option to me.
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The country/location you are in also has a big impact on this topic as Roosh has found out.
Quote: (03-05-2013 07:58 PM)brianmark Wrote:I've lost a couple lays before because I was so satisfied with the hunt.
This seems to be one of the biggest debates in Game.
Which do you get more enjoyment from?
1. chase or hunt to get laid
2. kill, the sex.
And Why?
Seems like all guys have different opinions. If you like one more than the other, do you prefer the hunt 60% and kill 40% or are they 50% / 50%. Is there a big difference in which one you like more? Why?
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