[brianmark]

This seems to be one of the biggest debates in Game.

Which do you get more enjoyment from?
1. chase or hunt to get laid
2. kill, the sex.

And Why?

Seems like all guys have different opinions. If you like one more than the other, do you prefer the hunt 60% and kill 40% or are they 50% / 50%. Is there a big difference in which one you like more? Why?

Thanks for the info!

[nek]

(03-05-2013 07:58 PM)brianmark Wrote:  

This seems to be one of the biggest debates in Game.

Which do you get more enjoyment from?
1. chase or hunt to get laid
2. kill, the sex.

And Why?

Seems like all guys have different opinions. If you like one more than the other, do you prefer the hunt 60% and kill 40% or are they 50% / 50%. Is there a big difference in which one you like more? Why?

Thanks for the info!

I'd say the chase b/c during a dry spell i feel alive like a predator when i'm trying to get some. i thrive off the pursuit, whether it pans out or not. On the other hand, the first bang after the dry spell quickly reminds me how overrated sex is. don't get me wrong, i enjoy it, but it's overrated.

[Ovid]

I would enjoy the hunt more if there were more prey in my area. Because there isn't, I have to stalk prey much more judiciously. Consequently, my innate desire for some strange is seldom completely satisfied, so I enjoy the kill that much more. Meat tastes better when getting it fresh involves hard work. If there were less pressure not to fuck up, I'd relish and enjoy the chase a lot more than I do. My biggest challenge is gaming with an abundance mentality, when I know that for practical purposes, pussy may be abundant but I don't want to burn through the available supply too fast.

[Fredster]

The kill, because that is where the true enjoyment is. the hunt seems like too much effort and there are better things in life to dedicate effort to.

[philly22]

The kill. The chase is just a means to an end for me.

[Aliblahba]

The chase, hands down.

The chase is like fly fishing, the kill is like a trout pond.

[Nomad77]

The Wanting is always better than The Having.

[Sargon of Akkad]

20-30% hunt
70-80% kill

I go out 'hunting' in order to get laid, just like I go job-hunting to get a job.

With women, a minor challenge makes things a bit interesting, but it is essentially like icing and a cherry on the cake. In the end, I'm doing all of this to get laid. If I notice that the effort I'm putting into it greatly excedes the amount of sex I'm getting in return, I realise something has to change (either I need to move, change my game, or both).

[Downunder]

HUNT

Love the thrill of the chase / challenge

[Sargon of Akkad]

I guess it can also depend on whether you're going through a dry spell or "rainy season". If you're getting laid enough through a rotation of girls, you may approach other women just for the thrill of it. However, if you're not getting laid regularly (or not getting good sex regularly) your dick may be a bit more impatient and want down to get to the point as quickly as possible.

[NoBalls]

Once I have sex with a girl I usually don't want to have sex with her again and instead want to go out and find another girl.

For me it is the hunt.

[brianmark]

(03-06-2013 10:58 PM)NoBalls Wrote:  

Once I have sex with a girl I usually don't want to have sex with her again and instead want to go out and find another girl.

For me it is the hunt.

Wonder if she is great looking like an 8+? You don't like to repeat it with her?

[NoBalls]

(03-06-2013 11:30 PM)brianmark Wrote:  

Wonder if she is great looking like an 8+? You don't like to repeat it with her?

If she is really hot I'd be more likely to want to repeat. I think there is complex shit going on inside my head and it would be more about the ego boost and less about the actual sex. I would still have the desire to seek out new women.

[LucienM]

All good points, but on this topic, it reminds me..

In Devil's Advocate, Al Pacino as the Devil says something like 'for the drug addict, the best moment isn't after he takes a hit - it's the moment right before.'

Point being (I'd say) that our truly best moments aren't those affected, or clouded, by outside 'stimuli' or whatever you want to call it, maybe because they aren't truly ours to begin with because they exist in reaction to something else, instead of being the result of true action.

So with the devil in mind, I'd say with the Frauen, it's the moment right before..

[Kitsune]

Depends on the quality of rohypnol I'm using at the time.

(On a more serious note, the result. If I didn't have to, I wouldn't game. It's a necessary evil to deal with bitch-shields, flakes, texting etc. )

[Samseau]

The kill.

[Nomad77]

Ok, I have figured out a way to explain it: the difference is like having a woman do a strip tease for you before having sex vs just taking off all of her clothes immediately. I like the pleasure of anticipation, I like the nuance of each stage of a relationships, it seems like such a waste to me to just skip all of this foreplay for some vapid sex. For me a woman is like a delicious meal to be savored piece by piece instead of just shoving it all down your mouth in a few spoonful. The truly sensual woman is a dying breed and, in America, an almost extinct specie.

[Sargon of Akkad]

(03-11-2013 02:36 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

Ok, I have figured out a way to explain it: the difference is like having a woman do a strip tease for you before having sex vs just taking off all of her clothes immediately. I like the pleasure of anticipation, I like the nuance of each stage of a relationships, it seems like such a waste to me to just skip all of this foreplay for some vapid sex. For me a woman is like a delicious meal to be savored piece by piece instead of just shoving it all down your mouth in a few spoonful. The truly sensual woman is a dying breed and, in America, an almost extinct specie.

I don't think most will disagree with you. Everyone likes some anticipation, however, still, in the end I'm thinking about getting laid. The 'chase' is a nice suppliment to sex, but for me, in the end, sex is the main course. Ideally, it's good to have both the chase and sex resulting from it.

[bojangles]

the kill.

[Nomad77]

Don't misunderstand me, I like good sex as much as the next guy but if you go for the ONS you automatically lose all of the stuff I am talking about. In a way, it's the price you pay for it.

[Grayham]

Option C: Both.

I like challenging myself in getting the girl and then relishing the reward.

Some times the girl is really fun to chase but not fun to fuck, other times it's vice versa.

[Nomad77]

Very true, some girls are just good for a good bang.

[Sargon of Akkad]

(03-11-2013 10:17 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

Don't misunderstand me, I like good sex as much as the next guy but if you go for the ONS you automatically lose all of the stuff I am talking about. In a way, it's the price you pay for it.

I wouldn't say that. I love the anticipation I get before bringing a girl home.

[Nomad77]

Let's get real here. How many ONS happens without the girl being pretty drunk? In addition it usually happens late into the night by that time I am usually tired from talking, dancing, and interacting with this girl the whole night. So we are talking about both me and girl being tired and somewhat drunk. I don't know about you but that's not a good combination for great sex in my experience. Then it's not usually for the girl to feel guilty after and then you have that to deal with.

[Sargon of Akkad]

Kind of depends on how drunk and how tired. Usually, we've been making out on the dancefloor for a while before I take her home, and the whole vibe created by the music, the grinding, the rythm, the sweat and the slight intoxication, plus the thrill of knowing your about to bang a girl you quite literally just met make for quite a potent cocktail of addrenalin and sexual tension.