I regularly hear people talking about wanting to date people because they will have desirable future states such as more income. Well my question is, can you date someone on the basis of future looks based on genetics?
My thoughts: It makes sense to enter a relationship thinking about the investment you will make and the rewards/risks to follow: how good will the sex be? Will she turn into a super bitch? Likes sex alot/little? Too needy? Cool, and can chill with your boys? Cheater?etc,.
If that's the case, then the future of the persons looks matter just as much if not more than the current. (If compounding the rate of return... yeah I'm putting my degree to work lol) However, there is no guarenttee that your assumptions/estimates will be right so this is not a basis for entry/dismisal so all you can do is estimate just like other posible categories such as loyality. So your best estimate is using her parents as a proxy/baseline for estimation for looks. If they are lazy and have low selfworth... odds are she will to. If they are hard working, active and honest people, odds are she will be too.
As time goes on, one can see the first estimate made's correlation to the true outcome and ultimately their true genetic makeup. If the estimate proves faulty, meaning she is trending toward an outcome that is unfavorable such as one of her parents looks, is it justified to end it?
I think most people here would say yes because the basis for this forum is bag the hottest bitches and show no love to the ugly ones... which is how I think too. But if you say yes, can you use this 'forecasting' to end it with her prematurely?
I began thinking about this in depth yesterday after having sex with my ltr. I like having her in my life because she is good to me, sex is great, and I don't mind having her do stuff with me. I hit it and then let her ride me the 2nd time, but when we were done the bed had moved signifcantly. Now, I dont see her as fat but she has some sweet love handles/hips, great tits and a nice face... but a gut is definitely starting to show and thats only gonna get worse. She may follow like her family is what I began thinking and her dad is huge, mom is not but very plain (3 at best, ltr is an 8.5). I thought, "man if this is true, I should just end it now". We have been dating for a 6 months and wouldn't mind seeing her long but the future is what scares me. Ever heard of a woman breaking up with a man because he lost his job? Of course... I'm thinking this is the same concept.
My thoughts: It makes sense to enter a relationship thinking about the investment you will make and the rewards/risks to follow: how good will the sex be? Will she turn into a super bitch? Likes sex alot/little? Too needy? Cool, and can chill with your boys? Cheater?etc,.
If that's the case, then the future of the persons looks matter just as much if not more than the current. (If compounding the rate of return... yeah I'm putting my degree to work lol) However, there is no guarenttee that your assumptions/estimates will be right so this is not a basis for entry/dismisal so all you can do is estimate just like other posible categories such as loyality. So your best estimate is using her parents as a proxy/baseline for estimation for looks. If they are lazy and have low selfworth... odds are she will to. If they are hard working, active and honest people, odds are she will be too.
As time goes on, one can see the first estimate made's correlation to the true outcome and ultimately their true genetic makeup. If the estimate proves faulty, meaning she is trending toward an outcome that is unfavorable such as one of her parents looks, is it justified to end it?
I think most people here would say yes because the basis for this forum is bag the hottest bitches and show no love to the ugly ones... which is how I think too. But if you say yes, can you use this 'forecasting' to end it with her prematurely?
I began thinking about this in depth yesterday after having sex with my ltr. I like having her in my life because she is good to me, sex is great, and I don't mind having her do stuff with me. I hit it and then let her ride me the 2nd time, but when we were done the bed had moved signifcantly. Now, I dont see her as fat but she has some sweet love handles/hips, great tits and a nice face... but a gut is definitely starting to show and thats only gonna get worse. She may follow like her family is what I began thinking and her dad is huge, mom is not but very plain (3 at best, ltr is an 8.5). I thought, "man if this is true, I should just end it now". We have been dating for a 6 months and wouldn't mind seeing her long but the future is what scares me. Ever heard of a woman breaking up with a man because he lost his job? Of course... I'm thinking this is the same concept.