Quote: (06-09-2010 06:20 AM)InternationalSwagger Wrote:
Quote: (06-03-2010 06:45 AM)MiXXmaster27 Wrote:
Quote: (06-01-2010 11:40 PM)deebow Wrote:
How would the scene be for black guys? Are there any elements of racism there?
eeeh....just on looks alone and nothing else; not good. Deebow, what appeals to Colombian girls are the white skin, blue/green eyed "look" aside from their own latino looks. Then of course, after you have that basic down, how you dress, social status and vibe are all heavily considered. If you don't speak spanish, the odds stack up against you even more.
Now, YMMV if you are social, fun, and dress really nice and trendy (Not Ed Hardy, or thug rapper -- I'm talking GQ).
Blacks in Colombia, especially Cali are not sought after by white, or tan skinned latinas - of course if you go there tossing $$$ around like you just won a championship, that's another story, and another set of women to look out for.
Nacirema is a 6'+ clean cut white boy, and is the typical foreign look that local women find a novelty in Cali.
Cali has a huge black community, and 90% of that community is made up usually of poor farmers, and hard labor workers.
Your best bet is to go to Germany, or EE - black guys are celebs over there. Or even better, head on down to Fort Lauderdale - I cannot even begin to tell you how many times i see brothers with an incredible beautiful white girl at their side.
I have a lot of black friends in Miami/Fort Lauderdale, and they do very well - especially since they dress nice and suit up when going out.
Mixx
Definitely not true...I've been to Colombia over 10 times since 2005 (Cali, Bogota, Medellin, Cartagena) and I clean up with all the chicas and I'm clean cut, attractive, dress well, well traveled all the etc's. I have more of a Dominincan/Arabic look so I can blend in very well in most places with a mixed black population.
To Deebow: Line up some honies on http://www.latinamericancupid.com before you arrive alot of cool ones on there ready to meet up. I tend to find the olive/tan/mixed Colombians finer than the straight white ones anyway (not many to begin with).
Your comparison and theory of Colombian "black poor farmer types" not being attractive could be applied and compared to white women overall disliking the Red-Neck/Meth-ed Up look and lifestyle of many I see all over America so not a good comparison IMO when your comparing upscale brothas from the US who travel abroad who have game, language, dress and social skills. I just get tired of people on here stating their tired uninformed opinion on how a Black Men (I'm talking mostly from a US perspective) would do in Latin America when they obviously arent Black and can't relate and really just don't know.
In general If your good looking, dress well and know Intermediate Spanish and can Dance Salsa and your from the States you will clean up regardless in Colombia. Don't worry about any racism down there just do you.
I'm going to post some pictures later of me and one of my 19 y/o hot girls in Medellin who is what they consider "White" in Colombia. Look for it attached under this very post. I met her on LatinAmericaCupid as well and it's been on ever since.
I was in Cali a couple of months ago, and pounding the streets with Nacirema - a girl at a mall came up to me and said "I like your friend" - and I smiled and asked "why do you like my friend" - she flat out told me - "he is white, and has green eyes". She Did not even mention his clothes, height or anything else about him...just that he was white, and it was enough to find out more about him....
I have seen that happen in the last 15 years I have lived and breathed Colombia. Even my girls friends would ask me to find them a "mono" (white american). I would reply, "y un negrito", and they would answer "gaaaaaasss, no". Of course, these were very high status girls that drive BMW's in medellin, and whose parents were doctors.
Latin Cupid is a website of Colombian women looking for foreign men - period (yes, I have used it myself) : whether you are black, white, hell even another colombian living abroad as long as you are a FOREIGNER looking for a serious "girlfriend" who will eventually trade sex for paying some of her bills and taking her out to places like another beta male for the time you are in the country, and she immediately finds your replacement before you are even on the plane back home.
Getting average girls on LatinCupid is not solid game - sorry. It's like signing up for so called "marriage agencies" girls - looking for a gringo to sucker into her pathetic life.
IMO, It's not really accurate to say that LatinCupid girls represent the highly sought after 9's 10's that you'll dream of meeting through social circles clubs/cafes and Universities. The 10's will not do it, nor wil they post a profile on LatinCupid - they get hit on by rich men from the entire country, and your foreigner status means nothing wether you are black, latino, white or tan. That's who I am referring to - of course Latin Cupid girls will bang anyone of any race, height, weight. BUt, they come with a ton of baggage and live in lower stratus neighborhoods looking for "baby daddy" or looking for someone to buy them mediocre things they cannot afford themselves like Dinners in Parque Lleras, and buying her clothes - which I never do. I've experienced enough colombian women to know why not to do so.
I've also posted that being a white foreigner works AGAINST you with the high status 9's 10's of Colombia. So, being black, and offering nothing else, is like being white, latino or albino and offering no social proof. Again, it works against you with the 9's and 10's.
Now, with that said - if numbers is what you're after, then you should definitely hit up Latin Cupid and Colombian Cupid to hit the ground running. I personally like to hit Three 10's vs hitting twenty average 6's. Which is what you'll find on LatinCupid - nothing ever above a 6 - see for yourself guys.
I used LatinCupid many years ago, I was not impressed with quality.
But, thats just me...
Mixx