What is the forums view on situational openers? Who uses them and to what extent and results?
I have read both Bang and Day Bang but has still opted to mostly go direct so far.
For my latest batch of approaches I went *very* direct but now I want to start trying situational openers more since I so far am getting different (better) reactions.
Last time I went out I used two good situational openers IMO. First I accidentally bumped into a girl and said sorry which caused her to smile at me. Then I went back to her and said something like "you know maybe it was destiny that we crashed into each other" with a slight smirk/ironic touch to it.
The second was when I saw a girl in line to the bathroom who looked bored so I just asked her "are you bored?".
Also, this is a bit of an odd question, but is there a way to improve your ability to come up with good situational openers? I find that being in the moment and enjoying yourself is key, but I mean is there a way to train yourself to come up with innovative and effective situational openers?
Edit: Good blog post by Roosh from 2007: http://www.rooshv.com/hung-up-on-the-opener
I have read both Bang and Day Bang but has still opted to mostly go direct so far.
For my latest batch of approaches I went *very* direct but now I want to start trying situational openers more since I so far am getting different (better) reactions.
Last time I went out I used two good situational openers IMO. First I accidentally bumped into a girl and said sorry which caused her to smile at me. Then I went back to her and said something like "you know maybe it was destiny that we crashed into each other" with a slight smirk/ironic touch to it.
The second was when I saw a girl in line to the bathroom who looked bored so I just asked her "are you bored?".
Also, this is a bit of an odd question, but is there a way to improve your ability to come up with good situational openers? I find that being in the moment and enjoying yourself is key, but I mean is there a way to train yourself to come up with innovative and effective situational openers?
Edit: Good blog post by Roosh from 2007: http://www.rooshv.com/hung-up-on-the-opener