[tomtud]

(11-13-2012 01:36 PM)goodguy1867 Wrote:  

Relax. Don't be such a pussy. And man up. Kids are great. And being a good Dad is a great source of happiness. And if the player in you needs to be assuaged, tell him: children are fuck trophies -- a prize of your conquests.

How much do child import payments cost in these countries? But it's definitely proof that your boys can swim hehehe.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

Are you absolutely positive the baby is yours and that she hasnt slept around?

[Sourcecode]

Trololololol

[michelin]

0. Stay calm and make sure you can think clearly. Don' t decide upon anything in impulsive ways.
1. check if she is really pregnant. double check.
2. if yes, check the odds if it' s your child or someone elses.
3. check what options are possible: it all depends on how many weeks she' s pregnant. Abortion is only the last option
4. If abortion is necessary, check your options locally and abroad. As someone said here, there is definitely a way to resolve this

good luck

[germanico]

(11-13-2012 01:44 PM)freshcream Wrote:  

Not so sure how good of a father I'll be on the other side of the world, with no money to send.

Its ok to be a poor dad as long as you are not a ghost dad. Kids have been managing allright without money all over the world since forever.

And change that crap attitude. You are already expecting to be poor in the future?

Quote:

woo... she's coming to my house now... update you later..

Watch out. Celebratory sex is where they get pregnant. Rubber up or just rule out sex for a while, claiming that all this is "just too emotional for me, id rather just hold you"

Keep your eyes open.

[el mechanico]

(11-13-2012 03:16 PM)germanico Wrote:  

(11-13-2012 01:44 PM)freshcream Wrote:  

Not so sure how good of a father I'll be on the other side of the world, with no money to send.

Its ok to be a poor dad as long as you are not a ghost dad. Kids have been managing allright without money all over the world since forever.

And change that crap attitude. You are already expecting to be poor in the future?

Quote:

woo... she's coming to my house now... update you later..

Watch out. Celebratory sex is where they get pregnant. Rubber up or just rule out sex for a while, claiming that all this is "just too emotional for me, id rather just hold you"

Keep your eyes open.

Yeah listen to Germanico. How do you have money to travel/live and not a few pesos for a kid? You can raise that kid on cigarette money in Norway.

[WanderingSoul]

(11-13-2012 03:01 PM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  

Are you absolutely positive the baby is yours and that she hasnt slept around?

Let's just go ahead and say no to this one.

[SVK]

(11-13-2012 03:20 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(11-13-2012 03:16 PM)germanico Wrote:  

(11-13-2012 01:44 PM)freshcream Wrote:  

Not so sure how good of a father I'll be on the other side of the world, with no money to send.

Its ok to be a poor dad as long as you are not a ghost dad. Kids have been managing allright without money all over the world since forever.

And change that crap attitude. You are already expecting to be poor in the future?

Quote:

woo... she's coming to my house now... update you later..

Watch out. Celebratory sex is where they get pregnant. Rubber up or just rule out sex for a while, claiming that all this is "just too emotional for me, id rather just hold you"

Keep your eyes open.

Yeah listen to Germanico. How do you have money to travel/live and not a few pesos for a kid? You can raise that kid on cigarette money in Norway.

Nica is the second poorest country in the western hemisphere while Norway is one of the richest countries in the world (probably the richest if you exclude very small countries like Monaco or Luxembourg). If the average pay in Nica is $50 a month the child support can't be more than $20, I imagine that's what they pay burger flippers per hour in Norway. The situation still sucks, but it would suck way more if this would happened in Norway or USA or any western country.

But first step is to make sure she is pregnant and she is indeed pregnant then to make sure that it's your kid.

Another thing - do I understand it that she is open to abortion? I would imagine getting knocked up by a Norwegian is like winning a lottery for her and she would be absolutely against it, claiming religious reasons and what not....

[billbudsocket]

(11-13-2012 02:21 PM)bacon Wrote:  

i believe abortions are legal in costa rica so just cross the border with her. also just cause its illegal doesnt mean you cant find someone to do it.

also you are lucky because she doesnt have the legal right to get child support unless she goes to the us. at which point she can file for child support at a local office. basically unless she is very upperclass it will be impossible for her and baby to enter the us.

All she has to do is go to the US embassy in her country and give them his info. I've heard that the child support is like 25% of the fathers income, and apparently they take the enforcement seriously

[WanderingSoul]

(11-13-2012 03:56 PM)billbudsocket Wrote:  

All she has to do is go to the US embassy in her country and give them his info. I've heard that the child support is like 25% of the fathers income, and apparently they take the enforcement seriously

He isn't a US citizen and I don't believe child support is a flat 25% of a fathers income. I think it depends on other factors, but I'm not sure.

[Sanblz33]

(11-13-2012 01:53 PM)freshcream Wrote:  

(11-13-2012 01:46 PM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

I don't think that you can physically feel a girl's fallopian tubes. They connect the ovaries and the uterus, and neither your fingers or your cock can ever go beyond the vagina (where cervix separates it from the uterus). Furthermore, the surgery doesn't leave any scars in the vagina, as the incision is done on the abdomen.

Look it up:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tubal_ligation
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallopian_tube

That said, while tubal ligation is 99% effective and thus pregnancy is extremely unlikely (astronomically unlikely if you combine it with condoms or pulling out), she might have lied about it. I'd be sure to test it with a pregnancy test first and a DNA test later if you have doubts.

I might just regain my faith in God after this.

I think she had her period after her stomach started to hurt.
Also I found this website: http://www.womenonweb.org/article-174-en.html
Supposedly they help with abortions in countries where they are illegal. Hurray for feminism!

woo... she's coming to my house now... update you later..

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Ya'll bakers toastin in a roll bread.

[British Dude]

(11-13-2012 03:42 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  

(11-13-2012 03:01 PM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  

Are you absolutely positive the baby is yours and that she hasnt slept around?

Let's just go ahead and say no to this one.

This is like an episode of Maury lol, but I'd say wait until the baby comes out, do the DNA test, and if it's his, he should be the man and father and take care of that baby.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

[quote] (11-13-2012 03:42 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  

[quote='Alpha Hunter Zero' pid='307802' dateline='1352836886']
Are you absolutely positive the baby is yours and that she hasnt slept around?[/quote]

Let's just go ahead and say no to this one.
[/quo ***To the OP, if this is the case then dont be a deadbeat. There are a few guys on this forum who've been in your situation but had the kid and turned into great fathers based on what they've posted on RVF such as El Mech and Parlay. You took a chance banging your girl (whether raw dog or condom I dont know and right now it no longer matters) and she got pregnant. It happens. Its not the end of the world. Right now you need to get your priorities and finances straight. Also quit all that future poverty thinking. No matter where you are in the world there are always methods to making money (legally). BOTH you and your girl are responsible for making that kid and both will be responsible for taking care of it. Its not the kid's fault it was created.

[bacon]

(11-13-2012 03:56 PM)billbudsocket Wrote:  

(11-13-2012 02:21 PM)bacon Wrote:  

i believe abortions are legal in costa rica so just cross the border with her. also just cause its illegal doesnt mean you cant find someone to do it.

also you are lucky because she doesnt have the legal right to get child support unless she goes to the us. at which point she can file for child support at a local office. basically unless she is very upperclass it will be impossible for her and baby to enter the us.

All she has to do is go to the US embassy in her country and give them his info. I've heard that the child support is like 25% of the fathers income, and apparently they take the enforcement seriously

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[bacon]

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[Prophylaxis]

Live n learn buddy. This should be a wake-up call to those who raw-dog frequently.

[presidentcarter]

I had a few scares with an LTR years ago. Worst gut-retching feeling ever.

[el mechanico]

For the record I requested to have my kid she wasn't an accident. Also kids don't ruin your life, fucked up cunts try to.

Nobody plays that pregnant shit with me because I make sure they know that if my kid is out there I'm coming for him/her with all I got and I don't play fair.

[Teddykgb]

If I were you I would leave the country as soon as possible. Delete your facebook, email, get rid of your phone number and delete or get rid of anything and everything that she has any connections to or knows about.

And then just hope for the best. I think as long as you do that she wont have the money to chase after you. If she is fairly well off and has the money to track you down you are fucked. Just man up and pay or hope you can get an abortion.

[el mechanico]

(11-13-2012 05:49 PM)murrb Wrote:  

If I were you I would leave the country as soon as possible. Delete your facebook, email, get rid of your phone number and delete or get rid of anything and everything that she has any connections to or knows about.

And then just hope for the best. I think as long as you do that she wont have the money to chase after you. If she is fairly well off and has the money to track you down you are fucked. Just man up and pay or hope you can get an abortion.

That's kinda cowardly

[el mechanico]

Before I read anymore advice on how to ditch a kid in the third world if it's yours let me give you a little background on me if I seem like I get harsh later.

1. My moms family is Greek hard core. We live for kids

2. My Dad thought me and my sister were getting spoiled when we were kids so he cut us off from Christmas gifts and would adopt poor children every year and support them to teach us a lesson. We would get pictures and back history etc. My mother continued and we watched them all grow up and beat the odds.

[freshcream]

Aww, you guys

My head is a bit clearer now.

1. First off, I would never cut and run. It has been my thoughts before, but in the middle of it I can't see myself doing it. Just because I never want to get married doesn't mean I never want to have kids. 24 might be a good age. I make75 USD an hour, so of course I can send her money. But sitting half way around the world and transferring money isn't my ideal fatherhood.

2. She says her gynecologist confirmed she is pregnant. How that happened I have no clue. She's taking a blood test on Friday.
3. She wants to have an abortion. She works as a model and owns shares in a few businesses. I never pay for her, and this is a pretty poor country. This is why I believe her when she says she doesn't want babies. She admitted that a part of her wanted to keep it, but that it would ruin both of our lives.
4. She knows I have to go back home, and that she has to stay here.
5. She received 4 pills today. Supposedly she's supposed to take two orally and two vaginally.
6. That should be a fun experience. I told her that I don't want her taking it tonight, in case something goes wrong and she needs a doctor. I told her it is safer in the morning, so she can call her gynecologist or doctor if something happens.

7. Lastly she is a drama queen, so I don't trust her for one second.


This whole shoving pills up her cooch sounds like a load of bull to me, but worth a try I guess.

Should be an exciting night.

[Tuthmosis]

(11-13-2012 06:26 PM)freshcream Wrote:  

3. She wants to have an abortion. She works as a model and owns shares in a few businesses. I never pay for her, and this is a pretty poor country. This is why I believe her when she says she doesn't want babies. She admitted that a part of her wanted to keep it, but that it would ruin both of our lives.

[Titan]

Dude, you live in fucking latin america! A place where laws are flexible and freedom is real.

Just do some research and find a "doc" in your area to make your girlfriend abort, it should be less than 200 bucks.

And if someone finds out, bribe the fuck out of em

[freshcream]

Well.

Pills are popped and plugged.

We are getting drunk and having a laugh.

In an hour or so she will be puking and pissing blood.

Hopefully.

Some kind words from purple urkel helped me in relaxing.