[Mrs. Chocolate]

Black, Brazilian guy. 28 y/o

#1: He offered dinner. He asked my opinion about where we could eat AND paid the bill (I thought we would split). I didn't kiss him.
#1/2: We went to a samba dance club. Great vibe. We kissed.
#1/3: He tried to take me to a motel. I declined.

He called in the next day and wants to see me again.

Date #2?

Let's see how it goes...

[Lothario]

This is good Mrs. Chocolate, What would make you sleep with this guy on Date # 2 ?

1. Cook Dinner for you and invite you over and make it seem like it just happened.

2. Do the whole Dinner and date thing again and it is a guaranteed lay.

3. Any other chic Logic ?

or he should just the Fuck up avoidance game and what are fuck ups you don't want him to do ?

It is the other way around for you, We are trying to bang by 3rd date, Are you trying to hold off till 3rd date ?

[at350zguyy]

(10-25-2012 11:36 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Black, Brazilian guy. 28 y/o

#1: He offered dinner. He asked my opinion about where we could eat AND paid the bill (I thought we would split). I didn't kiss him.
#1/2: We went to a samba dance club. Great vibe. We kissed.
#1/3: He tried to take me to a motel. I declined.

He called in the next day and wants to see me again.

Date #2?

Let's see how it goes...

This is an interesting spin on the approach thread, Mrs. Chocolate. I'd like to see more posts from you in this thread.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Update:

2/1 - He got extremely Late. I got mad, but in the end we got along
2/2 - We went to a nice bakery and got some amazing handmade ice creams (Here in BR a bakery not only sells bread, but also... Lol) - Again, he paid.
2/3 - It was hot as hell and then we walk along and chat about many things, The night was great to do so.

3/1 - He said he wanted to talk. We had a deep conversation about somethings that had happened during the weekend.
3/2 - I had a fast meal (I had to go work afterwards) - I paid for my meal. It was not exacly a date... Even though... I don't care. I work, I have my money and I don't depend on him and I don't expect this all the time. It is good, but not his obligation.

4#?

@Lothario: I don't need to work like you to make him sleep with me. We manage it differently. He invited me to go to a motel on date #1. He wants ever since. I am managing this to happen when I like... But I won't hold for much time, since during the end of the #3, he said that he would take me to somewhere "special".

[IVth_Element]

Background: (fast forward to date if you don't care to hear it)

I'm upstairs at a sports bar three weeks ago, when a cute waitress (friend of my wing) asks us if we want to move over and sit with two girls who "wouldn't be opposed" to us coming over. We of course oblige, and start making small talk, joking, etc. I'm getting almost immediate horny eyes from this girl (6.5 White, American, 24), but I have three problems. One, the noise is so loud that she can barely hear me. Two, some dude they don't know is sitting at the table eating a pizza and taking up the chair next to me. Three, her friend is annoying as fuck, and wont stop making dumb ass rude comments about everything.

I realize that I need to isolate the girl, or at least find a table where we could sit and talk (food on the way). I look around and find one close by, which I'm able to get after she tells the drunk guy guarding it that he doesn't need two tables. We move over, leaving the random dude, and my boy comes over with the friend close behind. My friend and I eat some pizza, my girl declines to have any, and we talk about traveling and how she lived in Ireland for a year, etc. At this point, she comes over close to me, basically body to body and things start to escalate. Without saying a word, I look over and my wing has the annoying girl completely distracted and under control, basically just giving her all the attention in the world. We keep chatting and my hand is on her back and thigh and I can tell she is down. She starts discretely and gently kissing on my neck and rubbing her ass against my crotch slow enough so no one around can tell. Eventually the friend walks off to go talk with a group and I realize a venue change is in order, preferably straight to my place. I hand my boy my debit card, tell him to pay and I'll meet up with him later. I keep a solid frame and hold her hand as I walk her downstairs.

Once she starts going down the stairs, I realize that she is swaying a bit. I hold on to her and get her out to the main street, when she says she has to call her other friend for a ride home later. I've already got the pedi-cab guy on stand-by on the street (my place is 6 blocks), when I notice that she's trying to dial numbers on facebook! Turns out she is obliterated drunk but has a great drunk poker face! She is punching in numbers on a blue fb screen and putting the phone to her ear. This lasts for like 10 minute before I convince her to let me call the friend for her. Her mom eventually calls and I walk her to the car where mom is waiting. No lay but I get my number in her phone during the walk. I felt good for being decent and not just pushing her into a bush or an alley way to bang, knowing she was blacked-out.

Pre-date

I followed up with a text a day or two later, knowing that she probably doesn't remember shit. I played it nice and slow. Made fun of her a bit, and invited her out for a drink sometime that week. She plays back, saying she doesn't know me well enough, blah blah. Me: "If you remembered me, you wouldn't even have a doubt" and "So, the Irish don't like to get to know people over a pint?" Basically, I warm her up and find out that she's working 12 hour days until Halloween. Being one of the most feminine women I've met in a while, I basically plan to keep her on the line. I want to suck on those perky tits and see that ass that was grinding on me. We text every 3 or 4 days, some her and some me.

Date #1

Fast forward to last night. Her: "What are you doing right now?" I respond. Then her: "Driving through Downtown on my way home from work. Go for a drink?"

I tell her to meet me at a bar on the far end of downtown, away from the girl I just starting banging regularly who already invited me out.

I meet her outside the bar and we go upstairs. The conversation goes back to the drunk night and we have 2 or 3 drinks while we mostly talk about travel. Around 10, the other girl I'm banging starts texting me: "Quickie before I go home?" I pretend to be texting my wing from the drunk night and say "I will be home in a few hours". Her: "If u want some it will need to be within an hour.." Me: "12"

At this point, I venue change girl over to a cozy dark bar with live music. We sit at the bar and order a few more drinks and I grab a few shots. Touching, kissing a bit and I keep getting texts. Her: "You can't even make it back here by 11:30 to fuck me? Better plans? lol" "I'll make it good " Me: "I'll try"

Call it a night for the date and walk girl to her car. She grabs me and we start making out. I go inside her shirt and pop snap her bra clasp open. She giggles and fixes it. We keep making out some more and my hand goes down her pants. Again giggles and pulls my hand out while keeping her tongue in my mouth. Me: "Alright, gotta go. I'm fucking horny if you can't tell" She pulls me back to her. More kissing and finally I pull away to say bye. She comes in for one more and I oblige while going up the back of her shirt, and bra is undone again before she even realizes I was going for it. I smile and walk off. Her: "Don't forget to call me"

Pulled up at my house 5 minutes later and other chick is backing up to leave. It's almost 1 am. She pulls back in. I yell for her to get in my car. We hit a bar I have on lock, pound drinks (always gratis), I order food at a nearby spot, grab it to go and pull her back to the house. I eat, hit it twice raw, wake up to her, bj and hit it again.

She texts me later. "Good new..you're breaking me in. I'm not as sore as yesterday." Then she sends me a pic showing that she took her birth control. Me: “Good girl”

Gonna probably bang date girl once she gets back in town Monday. All it will take is a call and a second date (Her: "I love when a guy calls me"). Meet at my house to "ride together" and bring her back to watch TV after hitting some bars.

[rationalize_this]

Bumping this thread. Date tonight with 21 yr old Honduran (7.5). Opened her in line at the bank. Used her phone as a prop to open. Talked about football, school, and Honduran food.

Text exchange thus far:
Her: Rationalize?
Me: Yes?
Her: It's x, from the bank. Just wanted to make sure I jotted down your number correctly.
Me: haha you have good ears. I've got to get back to work but enjoy your day.

Her: How did trial go?
Me: Can't wait for it to be over, but exciting.
Her: Aw! I'm sure you'll do great
Me: Def going to celebrate after, you should join
Her: Haha, well... You know my number
(2 days later)

Me: Good afternoon, free for a drink tomorrow night?
Her: Sorry I've been working this event, sure.
Me: Very cool, what's your drink
Her: It varies, If i'm sipping on something, I prefer something sweet or fruity. How typical. Lol.
Me: White wine I assume
Her: Yes, white wine is preferred. And, yours?
Me: How about we discuss over wine at x tomorrow...
Her: Sounds like a plan
Me: 8 cool
Her: 8 is perfect.

Will post update later tonight

[rationalize_this]

Rolled up 20 min late. Girl shows up in black skirt and heels.(HB7.5) Not a bad start at all.

We go to the rooftop and she sits down directly next to me.(good sign) I no look order a bottle of wine.

She would just not stop asking about me, I could barely get to know much about her. Every question had a follow up.

The more I talked, the more I could tell she was getting enthralled. It was like a date in reverse, she was gaming me!

About an hour in she has her hand on my leg and my arm is around her, she's begging for me to kiss her and I'm thinking DON'T DO IT DON'T DO IT (Tuth your recipe is killing me here).

It gets to the point where she literally got so close to me that I had no choice. Makeout. Strong by her, aggressive, but her lips were very soft.

I pull back and grab the check and offer a 5 min walk. Before we know it we're at my building. "Oh hey, what do you know this is my place."

More wine, check out the view, heavy makeout on balcony, 3 songs on guitar. +1.

I walked her to her car after. "Was this beta?"

[Nomad77]

Don't think walking a girl to her car is beta.

But with your stats, Miami and Latin girls is like shooting fish in a barrel.

Well done, anyway.

[rationalize_this]

(11-20-2012 02:43 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

Don't think walking a girl to her car is beta.

But with your stats, Miami and Latin girls is like shooting fish in a barrel.

Well done, anyway.

She folded my laundry this morning while I was in the shower. Not much training needed for this one...

[Nomad77]

Latin girls are usually much more domesticated.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Update.

This relationship is becoming more and more serious. The chances of being a LTR are high.

[_GQ_]

How big is his dick?

[Menace]

(11-22-2012 01:16 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Update.

This relationship is becoming more and more serious. The chances of being a LTR are high.

Mrs. C, we are waiting for you to post in the I just got laid thread. Why haven't you done this already? Please do give us the details...did he have any LMR?

[Mrs. Chocolate]

I don't post I just got laid thread because is not my thing, spread the word about it.

I can only say that is not the size of the wound who makes the best magic, but the magician.

[Lothario]

New Case Report guys....

Intro : Late 30's Chica I met in a class and we have been talking about going out, I did get her number about 2 months ago but never pursued it. After the last Class as we were not going to see each other again , I finally asked her out, she was agreeable to meet and when we reached her car she said she really couldn't as she was taking a break from a 4 yr relationship and may be getting back together with her ex...., I told her lets meet Platonically and check out such and such place, she didn't want to.

Two days ago i get a text from her.... "Dinner Sounds Fine, i'm available on ---- and -----" . I set up a date and we went out.

Date # 1: She was returning all my texts with in a minute and picks up when I called to confirm a place.

We meet, Drinks and Light Dinner.Do the regular get to know each other talk and she was laughing at my jokes, I started with the touch and escalated and when we found out that we are both the same Star Sign .... there was a silense and I just kissed her...., She had told me earlier that she has an early meeting on the other end of town at 06:45 and I knew there is no bang tonight but still pushed the issue to take a bottle of Moscato to her place and drink, idea got declined. By the way she does have a grown up child that is with her ex three nights of the week.

We bounced to another spot that she really liked and we listened to some music that we both liked and we kissed 2-3 times. She kept telling me she is getting back together with her ex and shouldn't be doing this and can only have friendship with me and no more. I have learned not to listen to what women are saying and listen to what there bodies are saying. Well...... she was still sitting with me and wasn't talking about going home and looking me deep in the eyes, I kept on esclalating and pushing for a bottle of wine, declined again..., We came back to her Car, Passionate Kiss, I suggested few days that i can meet again , she said she will let me Know....

Suggestions .........

[el mechanico]

Lothario, you need to forget wine and champagne and move into mixed drinks only. That's when shit happens.

[Timoteo]

I just came across one of those silly MSN Relationship pieces, "50 Signs He's Not That Into You." It's one of those slideshows that you have to flip through, so I won't link to it, but I came across this nonsensical bullshit:

Dutch treat

"If he has traditionally picked up the check when you go out, and then suddenly suggests that you start sharing expenses without offering a reasonable explanation for the change, he may be saving up for a new girlfriend."

This is a new one on me. Do women really believe that a man should offer an explanation for daring to suggest that she reach into her pocket for him on occasion, because after all, men should always pay, even if you've been dating for a while? And do they really think the reason is that he's saving up to take out another woman? Is it so hard to believe that a man simply doesn't want to be taken advantage of, or be considered a walking ATM? It's really that simple - the conspiracy theories aren't warranted.

[rationalize_this]

I'm triple booked for tonight, will post an update later. Should be interesting...

[rationalize_this]

Date with Blonde Russian 8 from St. Petersburg tonight.

Champagne Balcony game.

Will update later.

[renotime]

Bump.

Took this older chick out tonight that I met on pof. She is divorced with two kids, but fuck it, I'm on a dry spell. I'd rate her like a 6.5.

Preface: She gave me her number without me asking and asked me to go out that night. I held off, but finally agreed. Of course she immediately asks me what I do when we begin texting. I tell her I am a professional seal hunter. (Thanks, Roosh!)

We meet up at the bar, so logistics are already kind of shitty. She's sitting on a bar stool, I grab the bottom of the bar stool and move her over to make room and she let's out a little yelp.

I buy the first round and we play a game of pool and we talk a lot of shit to each other, playfully. I lose.

We play a game of foosball. We talk more shit to each other. She says I must play this a lot, b/c I am pretty good. I say no, you are just really bad at this. I win this time and crush her soul.

She buys the next round and we play a game of darts. I tell her that loser has to buy a bottle of wine. She agrees. We talk a lot of shit to each other. She tells me about her job, I don't really pay attention. I win the game and she closes her tab.

We are leaning up against her car (minivan lol) talking about nothing and I grab her buy the shoulders and we start making out. I suggest we go grab that bottle of wine and go back to her place and I can cook something. She says we can't because of the kids. I tell her to put them to bed. She says she doesn't want the babysitter to know. I tell I will wait for the babysitter to leave. Meanwhile I am putting my hand down the front of her pants and she isn't putting up any physical resistance. I back off for some reason. Idiot. I ask to see the inside of her van. The plan was to sit in the back and escalate things further. There are car seats in both seats. Well fuck. At this point I should have just went full caveman and shoved her in, but I pussied out. She keeps repeating how she's a good girl and tells me to text her tomorrow. I say ok and go home with my dick in my hand.

I think this would have stood a better chance with solid logistics. But alas, I live with my mom and she has children that will be scorned for life if they see us fucking, or something.

I dunno if I am gonna call her or not. Maybe give it a day or two and let her sweat.

[Belize King]

Bump

POF bopper. Finally caught her. I had to see a friend at six so I pregamed with her. First time seeing her. She dressed like shit, had a spare tire and the face wasnt that cute. She had a friend come through that was a solid 200. Cute face but the body ruined it. So me and my lizard had good little convo, played a game of pool and she even bought me a drink. She started kino on me haha. Havent been laid since Thailand but the thought didnt cross my mind. 20 less pounds and she might could get it. O well.

Online game sucks. I had five prospects go down to one and that one didnt look good at all. I have to re engage the targets and think of a better plan of action. Headed to the Valley for some regular. I need to get to Mexico . Probably easier to get laid out there. Probably take a trip early June for a weekend.