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09-03-2012, 12:58 PM
Putting a hand on your chest/over your heart? I find it a very convincable gesture to make when talking to a girl. It shows to a girl that you're really saying something from the heart/deeply emotional (even if you don't mean it). It helped me out of a lot of drama or times that a girl was not sure about me. I think there's some deeper biological stuff behind this but don't know how to explain it.
Closest example that I could find is this clip. It's a party song in Dutch (not club song) by two not so famous guys if you don't know the scene. The girl in the video is exactly my type although her dancing moves aren't really special to say the least. The lyrics are quite women unfriendly and it's a pretty catchy song.
The guy makes the move at 2.34. It's not exactly how I use it when flirting but it is similar to when i'm talking angry with a girl (like the guy in the clip) or when i'm talking myself out of drama.
Anyone else using this move or has some opinion on it ?
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09-03-2012, 03:13 PM
Neil, that's what you guys party to in Holland?
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09-03-2012, 03:35 PM
Quote: (09-03-2012 03:13 PM)soup Wrote:
Neil, that's what you guys party to in Holland?
No, not really. Maybe only a small part of Dutch people. Lets say blue collar people or people without jobs but not all ofcourse. I fit both descriptions.
It's like country music in the States. It's popular with many but not the mainstream population.
These guys are from the south of Holland which is known to be "gezellig" a word that can't be translated.
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09-03-2012, 03:38 PM
Quote: (09-03-2012 01:27 PM)kickboxer Wrote:
While my left hand is positioned in that manner I also have my right hand palm up and near my waist.
Like this.
I usually exhibit this posture when I'm being accused of something or I'm trying to appear genuine.
Not sure about the right hand positioning but you're spot on in your last sentence. It is a posture for those behaviors. I think it conveys deep emotions to a girl when you either feed sappy words to her or trying to talk yourself out of some straight drama/accusation.
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09-03-2012, 04:52 PM
The only ones I ever see using that sort of body language are european or middle eastern.
americans don't do that.
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09-05-2012, 02:36 AM
YES!
This is funny.
A few days ago I was talking to a group of girls, talking about values and stuf.
Apparently when I was saying "I really feel like" or "to me X is very important" I would have my right hand up on my left chest where my heart is. They adored it. And I took note.
Do this heart felt motion when you talk about how family and close friends are very important to you, like the genuine protector you are (or should be).