After reading this comment about logistics, I'm thinking that the more we can figure out a way to sell an experience to the girl, the less chance of getting LMR.
An example of this might be a party promoter or DJ. They create an environment where the vibe is good for sex, and the girl associates them with that good vibe. It's the opposite of going up to a girl and begging her for sex.
I've been experimenting with this kind of thing in promoting my band as well. Instead of making myself look low value by asking people to come out to support me at a show, I've been hosting a party that provides a fun time. Everyone sees me as authority figure, and when my band plays, we get people to check us out without begging for them to show up.
It's like the difference between verbally telling a girl your DHV vs. actually letting her witness it. The latter is more powerful.
If you can create an awesome, seamless experience, I think the girl is going to feel a connection to something greater than a one-night stand, and this connection will disable her shit-testing and ancient anxiety of getting a scarlet letter.
All this may seem obvious, but I think this should be the baseline for everyone's game. Before everything else comes into play, the vibe needs to be set and maintained. I've dropped the ball on this so many times, and I'd bet that a lot of guys have as well.
That's why logistics are so important, and that's why you can't let a girl or rejection make you mad or throw you off.
You can be the the dark and mysterious lone wolf lover, or the alpha guy who everyone loves and runs the show, but you have to be able to sell an overwhelming, hamster obliterating experience. Then, getting laid is just a matter of being there.
An example of this might be a party promoter or DJ. They create an environment where the vibe is good for sex, and the girl associates them with that good vibe. It's the opposite of going up to a girl and begging her for sex.
I've been experimenting with this kind of thing in promoting my band as well. Instead of making myself look low value by asking people to come out to support me at a show, I've been hosting a party that provides a fun time. Everyone sees me as authority figure, and when my band plays, we get people to check us out without begging for them to show up.
It's like the difference between verbally telling a girl your DHV vs. actually letting her witness it. The latter is more powerful.
If you can create an awesome, seamless experience, I think the girl is going to feel a connection to something greater than a one-night stand, and this connection will disable her shit-testing and ancient anxiety of getting a scarlet letter.
All this may seem obvious, but I think this should be the baseline for everyone's game. Before everything else comes into play, the vibe needs to be set and maintained. I've dropped the ball on this so many times, and I'd bet that a lot of guys have as well.
That's why logistics are so important, and that's why you can't let a girl or rejection make you mad or throw you off.
You can be the the dark and mysterious lone wolf lover, or the alpha guy who everyone loves and runs the show, but you have to be able to sell an overwhelming, hamster obliterating experience. Then, getting laid is just a matter of being there.