Quote: (07-15-2012 01:36 PM)Timoteo Wrote:
My question to the group is...WHY did you cheat? I don't ask because I'm judging any of you - I'm just curious. Some of you have already answered, in that you just do it habitually, but what about the rest of you? Did you do it purely out of opportunity? Was it because you were unhappy with your girlfriend for some reason?
Timoteo my friend, Nonpareil summed it up but let me give you my perspective which is a little different.
I am very very happy with my LTR, I could not have asked for a better companion but still there is
DESIRE for other women and Every chance I get I get it wet.
I seriously belive monogamy is not possible for Humans and also all of us are different, I know a cousin of mine had only sex with his wife and has no desire ..... WTF.....Some of us just can not keep it in the pants, may be because of genes, high testosterone level etc etc....
Honestly I don't know how to anwer you on a morality Issue but goes back to another thread where it's a prerequisite of a player to be morally indifferent.
@ Sebastian: Get it out of your head that a Pussy Belongs to you, Believe me given the opportunity and under the right circumstances even your most faithful GF will cheat on you, Your Game has to be better then the next player to keep your GF loyal to you.
Cheaters are the real MEN in todays modern age, Old school G's did it and their LTR's knew about it and didn't bring it to the open, they had tighter leash on their women. Come a full circle FEMINISM ruined it for us, still in non westernised parts of the world Men have tighter leash on women and are allowed Polygamy like in Saudi Men have Harems and live together with all their wives, women are OK with it because it is the norm of the society, there mom was sharing bed a with another women and so is their sister, so women are ok with it.
Successful Men in non westerised parts of the world are expected to have few side flings on the side and their LTR's turn there heads the other way, they know there men wouldn't stop...
How do you deal with the Issue it's right for men and not women to slut around is entirely upon a player , IMO Men have the burden of propagating their seed and are just responding to the biological call, No shame in this GAME...
Apologize for the rant guys....... Happy Hunting y'll and towards becoming real MEN.....